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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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O2HaveALittleHouse · 21/04/2025 09:25

SuchGreatFun · 21/04/2025 08:26

University open days.

Only the ones with a reputation for being posh in my experience. The dog count at Exeter was very high (mostly spaniels, poodle mixes and labradors), and absolutely none at London universities.

foreverbasil · 21/04/2025 09:25

Off lead in open fields when it’s very obviously lambing season 🙄

DBSFstupid · 21/04/2025 09:24

HelenaWaiting · 21/04/2025 08:28

It's nice that they treat us to standard dog owner baiting thread from time to time. Saves us doing a welfare check.

😂Hilarious!

Mylovelygreendress · 21/04/2025 09:23

The hairdresser a couple of weeks ago . Dog barked every time a hairdryer started !

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:23

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Yes. That's really the issue. It's a recent thing to have dogs in cafes, shops etc. the numbers and situations have increased. A well behaved dog is no problem, but sadly many are not, and it just seems amplified with numbers.

NotMyRealAccount · 21/04/2025 09:23

I wish I could claim to have seen a dog on the Inaccessible Pinnacle on Skye with my own eyes, but I'd be fibbing. There are credible reports out there, though.

FeelingLessTired · 21/04/2025 09:22

HangingOver · 21/04/2025 08:07

Our solicitors let us bring ours in the sign our wills! He was a brand new rescue at the time and didn't handle been left alone so we were going to wait outside in turn but they said bring him in and made a huge fuss of him. When the solicitor reads out the bit about who gets the dog if we both die in a fireball he even looked at DDog as of to check he was okay with it.

I like that story. Smile

My last two workplaces we had staff members dogs come in (always senior staff though- no dogs belonging to the lowly).

In my past workplace the dog- a lovely soft lab bit another staff member and that was that. The job role of the staff member who was bitten? Safeguarding officer.

Tootiredtowhat · 21/04/2025 09:22

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Business owners disagree, which is why they allow it.

Tootiredtowhat · 21/04/2025 09:21

January2015 · 21/04/2025 08:07

To a funeral.

Really you think this is unusual? I’ve taken ponies, dogs, and an alpaca to funerals at the wishes of their owners.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:21

In a field of sheep with young lambs. Big notices asking people "please keep your dog on a lead" completely ignored.
Why?
I genuinely don't get it.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:20

TheNightingalesStarling · 21/04/2025 08:27

People are anti badly trained dogs and owners.

Worst I've seen is taking them on the school run despite being asked not to. And then tying a distressed dog up outside the gates.

But for those of us who walk to school (especially through parks) it’s an efficient way of getting the dog walked before work. At our school, teachers are at the gates, and happy to keep an eye on any dogs tied up to make sure they don’t get stolen whilst you nip in and see the kids away.

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:20

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:16

I don’t think this thread is anti dog at all (or the one the other day about dogs in cafes). I adore dogs and have had them all my life. I used to be delighted to find a dog-friendly cafe or pub where I could sit with them after a walk but since lockdown and the rise in dog-ownership, there is also a rise in the level of entitlement of some thinking they should be able to take their dogs everywhere.

Most places including shops, restaurants, attractions etc have always limited entry to service-dogs only for many sensible reasons - hygiene, allergies, comfort of everyone etc.

These rules are now being disregarded by some (not all) incompetent and selfish dog owners. I saw a dog sitting at a cafe table the other day licking crumbs off it. That is disgusting by anyone’s standards and how any dog owner can think that’s acceptable I don’t know.

It’s just about common courtesy to others and considering carefully what’s appropriate and also fair to the dog.

It’s not owners disregarding rules some cafe encourage dogs for the extra business. If you don’t like it there are plenty of dog free cafes to choose. I don’t like children being left to roam and wipe their germs over tables in cafes so I choose places they are unlikely to go to. Establishment owners make the decisions as to the clientele they allow not entitled dog haters.

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Rastyopolis · 21/04/2025 09:19

Pandacrazedchild · 21/04/2025 09:16

John Lewis are a dog friendly shop though, so if you don't like it don't go.

@Pandacrazedchild I know they’re a dog friendly shop, but a lot of owners don’t consider if there dog is department store friendly.

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 21/04/2025 09:18

DontJumpInTheFountain · 21/04/2025 08:41

I disagree. Whether it's appropriate for a dog to be there or not is not determined by whether the owners have someone to dogsit.

I didn’t say that. I said in a roundabout way that there may have been a reason why. Most parents want to take their kids to open days and sometimes things don’t go to plan, and it is better to take the dog than leave it for a long period of time. Or maybe your life always runs perfectly?!

Cherrycola4 · 21/04/2025 09:18

Sat next to a dog on a long packed bus journey to the seaside, it was a boiling hot day, the dog had travel sickness.

CommonAsMucklowe · 21/04/2025 09:17

Soundsfamiliardoesntit · 21/04/2025 08:04

I don't know about silliest but I was in an M & S food shop on Saturday- it was one off because I never usually buy M & S food - and there was a woman shopping there with a dog in her trolley. It was a small dog lying on a blanket . I stress it was not a guide dog or hearing assistance dog.

I was actually disgusted.

Since when were people allowed to disregard hygiene laws in this manner?
And the staff can't have failed to see this dog.

I couple of weeks back in my local M&S food hall too. I wouldn't have dreamed of taking a non working dog in there! I was disgusted and I'm a dog owner myself. As an ex retail worker who has had to clean up all sorts of spillages I wonder if dog wee or worse is something shop workers find these days???

IveGotAnUnusuallyLargePelvisISwear · 21/04/2025 09:17

I work in a convenience store and the amount of dog owners who are shocked we don’t want their dog walking around our shop, at nose/slobber height with our food displays. “We can’t leave it outside someone might steal it!” Erm… why don’t one of you stay outside with it while the other shops then? Apparently hasn’t occurred to them.

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:16

I don’t think this thread is anti dog at all (or the one the other day about dogs in cafes). I adore dogs and have had them all my life. I used to be delighted to find a dog-friendly cafe or pub where I could sit with them after a walk but since lockdown and the rise in dog-ownership, there is also a rise in the level of entitlement of some thinking they should be able to take their dogs everywhere.

Most places including shops, restaurants, attractions etc have always limited entry to service-dogs only for many sensible reasons - hygiene, allergies, comfort of everyone etc.

These rules are now being disregarded by some (not all) incompetent and selfish dog owners. I saw a dog sitting at a cafe table the other day licking crumbs off it. That is disgusting by anyone’s standards and how any dog owner can think that’s acceptable I don’t know.

It’s just about common courtesy to others and considering carefully what’s appropriate and also fair to the dog.

Pandacrazedchild · 21/04/2025 09:16

Rastyopolis · 21/04/2025 08:25

John Lewis and Marks and Spencer’s. It drives me mad seeing dogs in department stores that are not service dogs (I’m saying this as someone with 2 large dogs).

John Lewis are a dog friendly shop though, so if you don't like it don't go.

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 21/04/2025 09:15

I'm not anti-dog I'm anti irresponsible dog owners who believe their dog is akin to a child and therefore must go everywhere the owner goes.

Dogs are unhygienic, smelly animals (I still feel sick every time I remember my friends dog furiously slurping at its bollocks and my friend joking "oh, he has a yeast build up and likes the taste", and then letting said dog lick his face after 🤢) and most dog species were originally working animals, and we should keep that separation of "people spaces" and "animal friendly spaces".

You don't see cat owners taking their cats everywhere, but dog owners seem to think they don't have to be reasonable.

Dogs are animals, not children.

Mmmcheese89 · 21/04/2025 09:14

Not sure what some of you would make of my rabbits in a pram in home bargains. It's not often. But it's on the way back from the vets so I occasionally pop in on the way home to grab a bag of nuggets/treats if they've not kicked the vet in the face.

MyFavouriteSpoon · 21/04/2025 09:14

There was someone carrying their dog in a bag at the Edinburgh museum science festival event last week. It was so busy, hot and noisy, totally not a fun place for a dog to be. I love dogs but this annoys me because the science festival is an event for children and many children are frightened of or allergic to dogs including my son who then was uncomfortable and not wanting to join in. There was no need for the dog to be there, no benefit at all to the dog. It's pure selfishness of the owner.

Anyotherdude · 21/04/2025 09:14

Oh that’s easy! Fenton - the un-recall-able dog in Richmond Park chasing deer!

We have a sighthound, and live near both Richmond and Bushy parks (they both have herds of deer). Because of this, we haven’t visited either park in the time we’ve had our DDog, as IMO it would be cruel to “taunt” her with the prey that she has been bred to chase. So we stick to the paths and woods mainly, and she is only let off-lead if we are in an enclosed field to do her zoomies (and then only after she has done her business first).

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:14

BigDahliaFan · 21/04/2025 08:17

we have had dogs at family funerals, it was lovely to see the dog there.

Saw someone put their dog in the trolley at b&q yesterday, on a blanket, the staff turned a blind eye…I’m not sure that was an issue tbh, no food involved.

but a dog at a fireworks display I thought was madness.

we took our dog into a cute little old church yesterday, we were just going past on a walk and they were having an Easter open day with people to explain the history of it. I said, oh we can’t because of the dog, and they said, oh you can we’ve got dog treats. Popped in and left a donation after an interesting talk….they know their market.

I’ve taken our dog to a fireworks display. They aren’t at all bothered by fireworks so why not? It’s outside in a park.

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