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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 11:27

Widowerwouldyou · 21/04/2025 11:12

Why do the obsessive dog people jump onto threads like this and try to change the topic? The OP was an asking a question about the batshit places people take dogs. No need to post if you haven’t an example to give. We get from numerous other threads you are obsessed with forcing your dog on everyone - thread isn’t the place for you.

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There was a thread recently on AIBU where a bloke was wondering whether he should break up with his new GF because she didn't like the fact that his dog slept on his bed with him. The general consensus that neither person was BU but that the couple were just not compatible with each other, but there was a small handful of crazy dog posters frothing at the mouth and saying things like "how dare she! I bet your fur baby is cleaner than most humans!" and "bet she's a wicked stepmother in the making!". It was batshit.

Miyagi99 · 21/04/2025 11:27

Lots of golf courses have public footpaths running through them.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 21/04/2025 11:25

Widowerwouldyou · 21/04/2025 11:12

Why do the obsessive dog people jump onto threads like this and try to change the topic? The OP was an asking a question about the batshit places people take dogs. No need to post if you haven’t an example to give. We get from numerous other threads you are obsessed with forcing your dog on everyone - thread isn’t the place for you.

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How about you waste more of your time quoting all the others who didn’t give an actual example too.

Yoonimum · 21/04/2025 11:24

Whistonia · 21/04/2025 08:20

Makes a change from it being anti trans 🤷‍♀️

Identify as whatever you feel like but it doesn't trump women's rights. No one is anti trans, we just don't agree that the feelings of a few over ride hard won protections for women.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 21/04/2025 11:23

Widowerwouldyou · 21/04/2025 11:12

Why do the obsessive dog people jump onto threads like this and try to change the topic? The OP was an asking a question about the batshit places people take dogs. No need to post if you haven’t an example to give. We get from numerous other threads you are obsessed with forcing your dog on everyone - thread isn’t the place for you.

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What are you on about? 🤣 I posted regarding a point already made in the discussion. You’re not the thread police so off you go.

KimberleyClark · 21/04/2025 11:20

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 10:59

Describing them as ‘blokes in dresses’ and pointedly using the opposite pronouns is, though.

Same with endless dog whistle comparisons to predators.

As is shoehorning in anti-trans discussions into every possible thread. Like one about dogs, for example

And “men in dresses” is a highly stereotypical way to describe them, plenty of them dress in jeans and other gender neutral clothing.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 21/04/2025 11:18

I was surprised for one of my dogs to be invited into the butcher's. Yes, she is well-behaved, and they know her (she would insist on crossing the road and giving them RSPCA eyes until they gave her bones), but... in a butcher shop? Really? She knows to wait for food, but I imagine other dogs seeing a green light to head into the back and drag out a carcass...

Dreamerinme · 21/04/2025 11:17

Sitting on the garden furniture sofa display next to its owner.

A Labrador wandering around the M&S Food Hall and intermittently sticking its nose into the open fridges. Next thing I know the dog and owner are being escorted out by the security officer.

LakieLady · 21/04/2025 11:16

A golf course
How that golf ball missed the dogs head,I do not know

There are at least 2 golf courses near me that have public footpaths running across them. Walkers would have to do a massive detour to avoid the golf courses, and it's not at all uncommon for people to walk dogs across them.

Golfers are aware of the route of the footpaths and wait for walkers (and dogs) to pass before taking a shot, and most people keep their dogs on leads there anyway.

I certainly did, as all my dogs would have chased and retrieved any moving ball...

Daisydiary · 21/04/2025 11:15

CanYouTurnItDown · 21/04/2025 10:20

If it’s an area of the NT property which allows dogs every other day of the year, are you suggesting that is ‘silly’?

I went to one yesterday where (shock horror) dogs and kids were able to co-exist without bothering eachother in the slightest. Some families even had kids and dogs, if you can believe such a thing!

Or are you just saying this because one of the owners was a dickhead and you’re still fummin’?

Not fuming, more aggrieved that an aggressive and out of control large dog was allowed to terrorize a number of small children around the trail, sticking its head into at least one pram and jumping up at children barely two feet tall. Not the dog’s fault obviously, it’s the owner at fault. Wouldn’t go back and have fed back to NT.

Lamelie · 21/04/2025 11:14

LeftFooter · 21/04/2025 08:25

In a small quiet Mass. The dog kept yapping. The priest had to raise his voice. Ridiculous (and expressly forbidden in the Catholic Church).

That’s interesting. I’m RC and wouldn’t dream of taking ddog to church, didn’t know there was a reason. I also go regularly to a Scottish church and the first few times they asked after ddog, so I now take him.

Widowerwouldyou · 21/04/2025 11:12

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 21/04/2025 08:30

Well it’s probably like the ‘MN is anti-trans!’ when really no one is anti trans, they just want to keep certain spaces and sports biological male free.

Same as dogs. Some people deem MN anti-dog when really most people don’t mind dogs, they just don’t want them in spaces where they probably shouldn’t be, especially when they haven’t been trained properly.

As evidenced already on this thread.

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Why do the obsessive dog people jump onto threads like this and try to change the topic? The OP was an asking a question about the batshit places people take dogs. No need to post if you haven’t an example to give. We get from numerous other threads you are obsessed with forcing your dog on everyone - thread isn’t the place for you.

bofski14 · 21/04/2025 11:11

Saw a massive dog in the deepest, darkest depths of the Ikea marketplace slobbering all over cushions. I told staff but they were too sheepish to approach. I'm highly allergic to dogs. My world is getting smaller all the time with them being actively encouraged into restaurants, shops and hotels.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 11:08

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 21/04/2025 10:56

Of course, they are planning on having little Poppy dog confirmed and have already bought her a white lacy dress.

Thank goodness. I just hope that the dog can learn the Liturgy of the Eucharist in time.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 10:59

Valeriekat · 21/04/2025 10:17

Saying TWANW is not vilifying trans women.

Describing them as ‘blokes in dresses’ and pointedly using the opposite pronouns is, though.

Same with endless dog whistle comparisons to predators.

As is shoehorning in anti-trans discussions into every possible thread. Like one about dogs, for example

LakieLady · 21/04/2025 10:58

waltzingparrot · 21/04/2025 08:52

Saw a dog on the Tube the other day. Didn't think they'd be allowed. Woman had it in a large bag on her knee. It was quite a long journey too and of course I spent the whole journey wondering where it would go to the loo if caught short and who would have to clean it up.

When I was a child, we used to take our German Shepherd from Croydon to Cockfosters to visit my mother's friend.

The dog was really used to trains and tubes, and just used to sit quietly on the floor on the trains and while waiting on the platform. I have a vague recollection that we had to use the stairs in the tube station because dogs weren't allowed on escalators, but that may be wrong. I know we always had to go upstairs on buses because they weren't allowed on the lower deck though.

The dog was really used to public transport and never caused a problem. I've had 3 dogs of my own and they've always been fine with it, too.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 10:56

Valeriekat · 21/04/2025 10:29

Of course they are! I expect they don't have anything better to do.

Well, they offer, I don’t ask.

So unless you are suggesting they don’t have agency or can’t comfortably say hello to the kids and glance occasionally at a dog, I think they’re fine.

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 21/04/2025 10:56

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 10:19

I'm always interested in the equivalency between dogs and children. Do you think, in time, dogs would learn to be quiet, understand the meaning of prayer and gain something from the liturgy?

Of course, they are planning on having little Poppy dog confirmed and have already bought her a white lacy dress.

HelenWheels · 21/04/2025 10:55

swimsong · 21/04/2025 10:31

Not getting this.
Is it a silliest place because they don't wear shoes?

seems so unnecessary

YourAzureScroller · 21/04/2025 10:50

Had someone sneak a puppy in a rucksack type bag into the cafe I work in not safe for the poor dog at all, they new we dodnt allow dogs in the cafe as locals and we have signs on the doors

Poor pup was probably only 7/8 weeks old definitely not old enough to have had it's full vaccinations and fed it cheesecake
When asked to leave they said it was a service dog

I love dogs, keep treats on my pocket and have 2 of my own

Chungai · 21/04/2025 10:49

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 21/04/2025 08:24

There’s a huge anti dog sentiment on mumsnet. Honestly some posters froth at the mouth about the mere existence of dogs. Can be quite entertaining to see how unnecessarily irate they can get.

I don't think it's anti dog, I think it's anti shit on the pavement, anti aggressive dogs, anti owners expecting dogs to be treated like humans, anti owners treating dogs like accessories.

Oh and it's not just on Mumsnet. I just think people are more honest here. Quite a few of my friends slag off other friend's badly behaved dogs but wouldn't say anything to their face.

SurprisePies · 21/04/2025 10:46

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/04/2025 10:43

Where did it pee?

I have no idea! I wondered this myself. That dog had a lot of will power and strong bladder :-)

faerietales · 21/04/2025 10:46

KimberleyClark · 21/04/2025 10:44

It went 11 hours without needing to relieve itself?

Our beagle can easily go 18 hours without peeing when it's raining - 11 hours would be nothing 😂

GoFaster83 · 21/04/2025 10:45

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

Because they won the trans argument and need a new hobby

KimberleyClark · 21/04/2025 10:44

SurprisePies · 21/04/2025 10:41

There was an emotional support dog sat behind us on an 11 hour flight back from the US last summer. It didn't have its own seat. It was on the floor under the seat, then sometimes sat the owners knee. I didn't hear it bark but it did walk up and down the aisle a few times!

It went 11 hours without needing to relieve itself?

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