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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 13:34

TasWair · 21/04/2025 13:26

This. I love dogs and feel it's so cruel to expect them to fit in with a human-centred social life.

But they always have. They like to follow their humans around.That is where they are happiest. Sitting under a table the odd occasion we go to a cafe is so not a big deal and something she loves. Ditto popping into a dog friendly shop.

AcquadiP · 21/04/2025 13:31

ItsUpToYou · 21/04/2025 13:15

9/10 you don’t realise it’s a “dog friendly” cafe until someone walks in with one! By the time someone’s precious pooch is sniffing your ankle, you’re already mid-coffee and your relaxation time has been spoilt.

Fair point. These establishments need to put "Dogs welcome" signs up so it's clear to all.

Differentforgirls · 21/04/2025 13:31

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:06

I’ve never seen any ‘anti trans’ (isn’t the word du jour ‘transphobic’?) people on MN.

Seen lots of pro women people though.

Who knew?

Even trans women?

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/04/2025 13:30

Santasbigredbobblehat · 21/04/2025 08:23

Someone I know said she was allowed to have her dog next to her on a flight back from the US as it was her ‘support dog’. I’m not sure that could’ve been true.

My assistance dog travels with me on planes all the time. He also attends communion in church - especially if I am the celebrant.

I love dogs but I don’t want them in supermarkets or coffee shops unless they’re a registered guide dog for the blind or deaf
Ther are many more types of assistance dogs than those for those with sight or hearing disabilities. And there is also no "register" in the UK....

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 13:30

TasWair · 21/04/2025 13:26

This. I love dogs and feel it's so cruel to expect them to fit in with a human-centred social life.

I can agree on you with things like dogs being distressed at firework displays and similar. Or dogs in shops and cafes where they wont settle. That is because they don't want to be there.
But the vast majority of dog owners know their dogs and know what they do and don't like. I do not "drag" my dog to cafes. She loves to come, and she loves the treats and fuss she gets there. I am not being cruel by taking her there. She would be on the phone to the RSPCA first thing if I was 😂

TasWair · 21/04/2025 13:26

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 13:23

The anthropomorphism on here is fascinating. They really are becoming part of the human life experience, aren't they?

This. I love dogs and feel it's so cruel to expect them to fit in with a human-centred social life.

wastingtimeonhere · 21/04/2025 13:25

Treblechef · 21/04/2025 13:21

A local dog training group asked if their dogs could do a scavenger hunt in the church as part of their training. Couldn't understand when the answer was no. Seemed to think churches were the new soft play for dogs.

meant to quote that post lol..

wastingtimeonhere · 21/04/2025 13:25

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 13:22

😂😂

I've done that!!! Part of searching training. Hiding objects ( real life could be drugs/ bombs or even people) not as insane as it sounds.

larkstar · 21/04/2025 13:23

Cirencester!

Apparently dogs are only allowed... if you're with the hunt!

(pronounced "hant")

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 13:23

The anthropomorphism on here is fascinating. They really are becoming part of the human life experience, aren't they?

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 13:22

Treblechef · 21/04/2025 13:21

A local dog training group asked if their dogs could do a scavenger hunt in the church as part of their training. Couldn't understand when the answer was no. Seemed to think churches were the new soft play for dogs.

😂😂

Treblechef · 21/04/2025 13:21

A local dog training group asked if their dogs could do a scavenger hunt in the church as part of their training. Couldn't understand when the answer was no. Seemed to think churches were the new soft play for dogs.

foxyfour · 21/04/2025 13:19

January2015 · 21/04/2025 08:07

To a funeral.

My mums dog came to her funeral. It was her wish that she was there.

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 13:18

Deadringer · 21/04/2025 13:13

To see santa.

Ah, Santa Paws? I think it is cute.

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 13:18

stanleytheflamingo · 21/04/2025 08:50

I hate anti-dog people in dog friendly cafes. There’s nothing worse than sitting down with my well behaved dog in a cafe that welcomes dogs and having someone turn their nose up. There’s are so many selfish dog haters who appear not to understand that many people - and cafe owners - don’t share their hate of dogs but actively love them and want to enjoy spending time with them.

There was a thread on here a while ago where OP was on holiday and went into a restaurant. She chose seating in the dog friendly bit because of the views from the window.
Of course, another diner turns up with their dog and OP kicked up a huge stink. The dog and owner were moved and given a free bottle of wine for their trouble. OP then got into a rage about that too. Her sense of entitlement was off the scale.

On MN, people get offended over a dog looking at them.

Allthesnowallthetime · 21/04/2025 13:18

The health centre where I work. A man brought in 5 dogs in a giant dog pram.

Just why??

ItsUpToYou · 21/04/2025 13:15

AcquadiP · 21/04/2025 12:48

I'm feel the same. There are plenty of cafes which don't allow dogs, why don't they go there instead of moaning about the ones that do?!

Likewise, I stay at the coast with my dog for my holidays. It's a dog-friendly place. It has two lovely beaches, one where dogs are allowed, the other (clearly marked) where they are not. The dogs-allowed beach is the first beach you come to from the accommodation. Instead of walking the short distance to the correct beach, some people come on the "dog" beach and pull faces/start muttering to each other because there are dogs, including mine, having a great time diving about in the sea or chasing their ball. I used to just tolerate it but now I helpfully - as if they are "lost" - point them in the direction of the humans-only beach whilst wishing them a good holiday. This, to date, has worked!

9/10 you don’t realise it’s a “dog friendly” cafe until someone walks in with one! By the time someone’s precious pooch is sniffing your ankle, you’re already mid-coffee and your relaxation time has been spoilt.

Deadringer · 21/04/2025 13:13

To see santa.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 21/04/2025 13:12

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 11:48

Not seen it with my own eyes as I never went, but I have seen some cinemas offer dog friendly screenings. I don't really see much point it that if I am honest.

Our local (independent) cinema allows dogs in. I think our dog would be bored stupid.

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 13:10

I'm feel the same. There are plenty of cafes which don't allow dogs, why don't they go there instead of moaning about the ones that do?!

In some smaller towns there really aren't plenty of cafes to choose from, and many have recently decided to allow dogs so regular non-dog lovers might be upset about the change. Also, lunches etc are often now dictated by the dog owners who want to go to cafe A or B because they allow dogs whereas before they'd walk their dog and then come out to lunch w/o it.

honeylulu · 21/04/2025 13:02

This was about 20+ years ago but a temporary secretary at work brought her little dog to work in her bag. (A shih tzu called Gucci.) The most surprising thing was that she hadn't asked, just turned up with him.

To be fair, he was very well behaved and just sat in the bag or slept under her desk. She told us she took him clubbing as well - that might have been a joke as hard to believe!

AcquadiP · 21/04/2025 12:48

stanleytheflamingo · 21/04/2025 08:50

I hate anti-dog people in dog friendly cafes. There’s nothing worse than sitting down with my well behaved dog in a cafe that welcomes dogs and having someone turn their nose up. There’s are so many selfish dog haters who appear not to understand that many people - and cafe owners - don’t share their hate of dogs but actively love them and want to enjoy spending time with them.

I'm feel the same. There are plenty of cafes which don't allow dogs, why don't they go there instead of moaning about the ones that do?!

Likewise, I stay at the coast with my dog for my holidays. It's a dog-friendly place. It has two lovely beaches, one where dogs are allowed, the other (clearly marked) where they are not. The dogs-allowed beach is the first beach you come to from the accommodation. Instead of walking the short distance to the correct beach, some people come on the "dog" beach and pull faces/start muttering to each other because there are dogs, including mine, having a great time diving about in the sea or chasing their ball. I used to just tolerate it but now I helpfully - as if they are "lost" - point them in the direction of the humans-only beach whilst wishing them a good holiday. This, to date, has worked!

LaurieFairyCake · 21/04/2025 12:27

My MIL asked for the dogs to go to her funeral

nearly55 · 21/04/2025 12:20

When I went with my DM to meet the funeral director to plan a family funeral, she was horrified that DDog was waiting in the car outside. She insisted I bring him in to the meeting and made a massive fuss of him. She even introduced him to the other staff we we met as we were leaving.

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 12:16

January2015 · 21/04/2025 08:07

To a funeral.

My late grandad's dog was at his funeral. He was his family, and his dog was missing him too. He actually had a great time (and a lot of buffet food).

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