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Room allocation for SC

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Withoutfearorfavour · 19/04/2025 21:10

House being purchased 50/50 deposit and mortgage.
4 bedrooms
I have one child full time.
He has one twice a week.
I am adamant she has her room decorated in her preferred style. A lovely bed. Wardrobe with her own belongings etc.

Shes not a guest.
We do however need a guest room and we (he) will have guests weekly. He needs a study.
So do we have the study combined with the guest room? That feels fair.
But then I wonder if he should contribute more as he has more use of more rooms.

What do you think?

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Tootiredtowhat · 19/04/2025 21:16

You can’t say that he has more rooms and then decide he should be paying more!!

Presumably both your guest will be using the guest room. Think it’s a bit rum for you to charge him for sticking a desk in there too.