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Following the 'what UK places weird you out', what places ground you?

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JellieT0tz · 19/04/2025 20:03

What places in the Uk make you feel that you can breathe again?!

I live in a North East England coastal town. Despite having the beach, I quite regularly have to drive out into the Yorkshire Moors to ground myself again.

I think it may be related to Biophilia however I dont get the same relief from visiting local nature.

OP posts:
LulusMiniEgg · 20/04/2025 19:55

The Lake District brings me such joy, in particular a house we visit on Coniston Water, the garden swoops directly into the lake and being on the water on my paddleboard makes my heart sing like no other place💚

Sirzy · 20/04/2025 19:54

Driving just off the m6 to the Lake District I reach a point where I just say “ahhh”
and enjoy the views and start to chill.

Caroparo52 · 20/04/2025 19:52

Three Cliffs Beach Gower.
Anywhere in trees and flowers

Craftysue · 20/04/2025 19:50

Snowdonia - used to go out of season and walk for miles. Beautiful scenery

RenoDakota · 20/04/2025 19:46

Sheringham, Norfolk. The coastal walk towards Weybourne, and Sheringham Park, especially.

WilfredsPies · 20/04/2025 01:27

The beach. The sea makes me feel like I can breathe properly. It refreshes me, clears my brain and re-sets me. Any weather. In fact, bad weather is normally more enjoyable because I’m not trying to keep out of the sun and it’s peaceful. I just wrap up warm and take a hot drink.

But not any water. Lakes, streams, rivers etc are nice, but don’t have the same effect at all. It has to be the sea.

AlviesMam · 20/04/2025 01:18

The Lake District is my happy place Smile

IAteAllTheChurros · 20/04/2025 01:15

Browsing the shelves in Barter Books is like a little bit of heaven on earth for me.

Wallabyone · 20/04/2025 01:13

I live in a pretty, semi-rural place and love it, but I really love central London. Like the poster above, I love the hustle and bustle and feel completely energised after a trip in. Luckily, we’re not too far away.

MrsMoastyToasty · 20/04/2025 01:06

Seeing the Clifton Suspension Bridge in Bristol, especially when coming into the city from the south west. I was born about half a mile away and grew up less than 5 miles away.
Also Calgary beach on the Isle of Mull. Just a beach- no shops or amusements just sheep grazing.

LushLemonTart · 20/04/2025 00:55

Latenightreader · 19/04/2025 20:49

Durham, especially arriving by train. It is as if I can breathe deeper and my soul lifts a little.

A really good second hand bookshop - David's in Cambridge, Barter Books in Alnwick, Castle Books in Norwich are three favourites.

If ever you're near Hartlepool there's a great second hand bookshop (sells other vintage stuff etc) called Needful things. It's near the Church that's now a gallery and tourist information centre. Church square. Ds1 loves going when he's home. We live on the coast near Hartlepool.

Where are you @JellieT0tz ? I love the coast, the lakes but also woodland. There's a huge dene near us so we have the best of both.

Candles88 · 20/04/2025 00:32

Up high! I love a good viewpoint, there is something so indescribable about sitting watching a sunrise, from anywhere in the world.

JandamiHash · 20/04/2025 00:27

Beautiful Nidd Gorge in North Yorkshire

SmugglersHaunt · 20/04/2025 00:26

Central London - especially Soho, Mayfair, St James’s, Marylebone, Fitzrovia. There are so many people and it’s so busy - and you can jump on a bus or a tube, turn a corner and you’re in a different area. Any problem I have gets lost in the crowd. I only live 3 miles south of the centre but would love to live right in the middle of it all. Also (completely the other end of the spectrum) the New Forest

Lavenderblume · 20/04/2025 00:09

Could someone point me in the direction of the original thread OP mentions (places that weird you out)?

ClareBlue · 19/04/2025 23:53

Latenightreader · 19/04/2025 20:49

Durham, especially arriving by train. It is as if I can breathe deeper and my soul lifts a little.

A really good second hand bookshop - David's in Cambridge, Barter Books in Alnwick, Castle Books in Norwich are three favourites.

Certainly breathing deeper getting back to the train station in Durham😂 since when were train stations built on the top of a hill

Sgtmajormummy · 19/04/2025 23:44

There’s a famous chapter in The Wind in The Willows where they’re walking in the snow and Mole catches a tantalizing whiff of his old home, calling him back…

I was driving across the city where I was born, hadn’t been there for about 30 years, we’d always used the bus, but I started to catch glimpses of places I half-recognised, the parade of shops where my lovely DGM had taken me as a child, the playing fields we’d walk past. Through more recent building work I was able to drive straight to her front gate.
Atavistic memories. Or something…

IAteAllTheChurros · 19/04/2025 23:19

Most of Northumberland , Durham, North Yorkshire and Cornwall, especially the coastal areas. I can't say why but they do.

Giggorata · 19/04/2025 22:23

Woodland.
Groves
Springs
Waterfalls
Where woodland meets pasture
Lakes surrounded by trees
Shorelines
Old orchards
Old formal gardens at night, with statues, mature planting, trees and lighting.
Plus a very special secret place that I'm trespassing when I go there, but it is full of magic.

piscofrisco · 19/04/2025 22:16

Much hadham

wendywoopywoo222 · 19/04/2025 22:16

Skade · 19/04/2025 21:59

Behind the ruins of Knowlton Church in Cranborne, where the pagan site was. I often stop there on my way home from work after a crazy day and just sit by the barrows. There is a strange energy there that calms me deeply.

Also one of my favourite magical
places along with the top of Portland overlooking Weymouth, Mevagissy
and the Wicklow mountains.

ArabellaFishwife · 19/04/2025 22:11

The Gower coast and the Firth of Clyde.
My DH, however, gets the same feeling from a place mentioned in the other thread, which, while I'm past being weirded out, often leaves me unsettled.

SlB09 · 19/04/2025 22:00

@JellieT0tz I know Redcar very well so totally get what you mean. However at least you are on the edge on the moors, coast, and as you say close to lots of places (I live in Newcastle now and would love to move back home!). I think round there (I'm from abit further south inland originally but the v north of ny) is one of those really unique places where whatever your into and whatever landscape it's all within a short drive or out your front door; hiking, sailing, running, cycling the list goes on!
I think it's a really underestimated area tbh, but I had to move away to realise that, and there has been much change in the last 20 years in some of it.

Skade · 19/04/2025 21:59

Behind the ruins of Knowlton Church in Cranborne, where the pagan site was. I often stop there on my way home from work after a crazy day and just sit by the barrows. There is a strange energy there that calms me deeply.

Ted27 · 19/04/2025 21:58

, @weegiemum

I came across the idea of 'thin' places a few months ago. Fascinating stuff

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