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Following the 'what UK places weird you out', what places ground you?

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JellieT0tz · 19/04/2025 20:03

What places in the Uk make you feel that you can breathe again?!

I live in a North East England coastal town. Despite having the beach, I quite regularly have to drive out into the Yorkshire Moors to ground myself again.

I think it may be related to Biophilia however I dont get the same relief from visiting local nature.

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Cheeseandpicklecob · 24/04/2025 08:17

@JackGrealishsCalves I just feel grounded there. It’s just somewhere where I feel at ease. Not sure why. I love the cafe right on the sand dunes too.

It's a very relaxed and safe feeling place but way too windy much of the year!

Cheeseandpicklecob · 24/04/2025 08:17

@JackGrealishsCalves I just feel grounded there. It’s just somewhere where I feel at ease. Not sure why. I love the cafe right on the sand dunes too.

Fedupcreative86 · 23/04/2025 19:13

@JellieT0tz I'm in Teesside as well, born and brought up here. Although I don't hate it and like you say there's some lovely coastal/rural bits, I'm not happy here after moving back here from uni.

@CivilSarah you beat me to it. Liverpool is my happly place. I just feel "different" as soon as I step out of Lime Street, like a happier, more talkative, friendlier and more confident version of myself. It feels more like home than my hometown (where I feel on guard all the time). People talk to me. People are interested in me. Things feel lighter and more "possible". It has many rough bits, but I've never had any problems. I'm trying to move there. I wanted to go to LJMU but ballsed my A-levels up, had to go through clearing, and ended up at Salford, then met a lad and stayed for a few more years. I found Manchester to be quite "false" and never really settled or felt like i belonged (plus, Man U fans! 😤). When I do move to L'pool, I'll never live in a small town again!

XWKD · 22/04/2025 05:30

I love walking around central London. Park Lane, Belgravia, Mayfair, St. James's Park, and all the little squares. I find a lot of London very peaceful (at the right time).

clinellwipe · 22/04/2025 05:10

Around St Paul’s Cathedral and Bank on a weekend. I lived in uni halls at Charterhouse Square (Barbican) and the weekends felt so peaceful.
The north coast of Northern Ireland on a sunny day is heaven.
Swimming in the sea, anywhere really

JackGrealishsCalves · 21/04/2025 18:37

Cheeseandpicklecob · 20/04/2025 22:35

Lytham St Anne’s

That's an interesting one, I live there. I love going down to the sea front and staring out but I wouldn't have thought anyone would pick it as their go to place

Crushed23 · 21/04/2025 18:30

ItGhoul · 21/04/2025 02:29

Two very contrasting places - central London, and the Western Isles of Scotland.

Which parts of Central London? I left London last year. I do miss it. 😪

Crushed23 · 21/04/2025 18:28

The parks in London, particularly the less central ones, like Hampstead Heath, Brockwell Park, Highbury Fields

Also Didsbury, Manchester. Only been a couple of times, but it had a very nice feel to it. Like a mini London neighbourhood up North.

Seventree · 21/04/2025 17:02

The woods. I feel like I need to walk through trees to ground myself sometimes.

AlpacaMittens · 21/04/2025 17:00

The mug section at Tescos.

afaloren · 21/04/2025 16:55

Anglesey, especially Ynys Llanddwyn. A magical place. Unfortunately I live miles away but I’d love to move there if family and finances allowed.

MrsGusset · 21/04/2025 10:09

Strolling up the Long Walk in Windsor with the castle ahead of me.

The riverside at Henley on Thames.

Absolutely anywhere by the sea but especially the Northumberland coast.

Teacherjw · 21/04/2025 10:07

Greenbank Gardens in the southside of Glasgow.

youflaminggalah · 21/04/2025 09:33

My home village. When I go back there to visit family I always take myself out on a walk to all the places that hold happy childhood memories. I love to walk past my old primary school and around the housing estate I grew up on. Seeing my friend’s houses and the little green we used to play on always brings a swell of nostalgia. I love the little church and church hall where so many life events have taken place for friends and family. It’s been more than thirty years since I was a child there but I always feel comforted and rejuvenated while I am walking with my memories. It’s a place I feel I belong and genuinely feel sad when it’s time to return to real life.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 21/04/2025 09:19

ramonaqueenbee · 20/04/2025 20:29

Holkham beach for me....windy and chilly by the sea and hot in the dunes!

Holkham beach for me too. Also Holkham Park, sitting by the lake on a sunny day and watching the deer and the geese with their babies.

weebarra · 21/04/2025 07:52

DH’s family come from a very small village in Easter Ross, about an hour north of Inverness, by the sea. It absolutely calms me and our family are so lucky to have a place like this to retreat to. We’ve been here for a week and need to leave today. DD cries in the car every time we leave. She is a dramatic pre-teen though.

Notmydaughteryoubitch · 21/04/2025 07:52

The hills in South Shropshire, I head up early morning so tend to get them to myself, just me and the ponies.
My favourite beach on North Wales coast which is beautiful and always quiet and seems to often have its own microclimate
Craster in Northumberland
A few of the lakes and a lovely little waterfall near me where I swim, particularly if I get them to myself and the water is nice and cold.

alongtimeagoandfaraway · 21/04/2025 07:44

Gordon Square in Bloomsbury. Walked through it every day for years on my way to work and it’s a beautiful, calming place.
Also, there’s a bench under an oak tree in some woods near me. I love to sit there and just listen to the birds, and the wind rustling the leaves.

dottiedodah · 21/04/2025 07:41

Hengistbury head in Dorset. So beautiful 😍 and soothing. Managed to have a walk there when on chemo. Just lifts the mind ,come back completely refreshed

NewAgeNewMe · 21/04/2025 07:35

Cheeseandpicklecob · 20/04/2025 22:35

Lytham St Anne’s

The sand dunes. 🥰

ItGhoul · 21/04/2025 02:29

Two very contrasting places - central London, and the Western Isles of Scotland.

WearyAuldWumman · 21/04/2025 02:26

Ballater and Crathie and the surrounding countryside.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/04/2025 02:26

CivilSarah · 21/04/2025 02:18

Oh yes, me too, love going into London, I go about twice a month, every other Saturday. Nice lunch and a show. Heaven, despite the crowds. I feel very blessed that I can do that.

Agree @Wallabyone and @CivilSarah I get a definite spring in my step and resurgence in confidence in London.

It’s hard to explain really.
Despite living in the country ( near London ) I even find myself taking deep breaths of that London air

CivilSarah · 21/04/2025 02:18

Wallabyone · 20/04/2025 01:13

I live in a pretty, semi-rural place and love it, but I really love central London. Like the poster above, I love the hustle and bustle and feel completely energised after a trip in. Luckily, we’re not too far away.

Oh yes, me too, love going into London, I go about twice a month, every other Saturday. Nice lunch and a show. Heaven, despite the crowds. I feel very blessed that I can do that.

CivilSarah · 21/04/2025 02:15

Liverpool.
I’ve lived down south for 30 years but going back to Liverpool to visit is going home ❤️