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How do you stop hoarding?

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HoarderHelpNeeded · 19/04/2025 11:11

Can I ask for help / advice to change my mindset from keeping stuff ‘just in case’.

I’m not talking dangerous levels of hoarding, but cluttered house, clothes that I ‘might’ wear again, something that cost quite a bit that’s rarely used etc.

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Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 19/04/2025 11:19

I'm a bit like you - my spare room is rather cluttered with things that might be useful one day - photo frames, clothes that no longer fit (I tell myself that I WILL be a size 10 again 😉) material that would make nice cushion or chair covers, curtains that may come in handy for me or someone else one day etc. Now that we're moving I have to tackle it. I allocate myself 1 hour per day to tackling a task (say to get rid of all size 10 clothes as I can always buy more should I actually manage to lose weight). At the end of the hour I stop - even if the task that I'd set myself isn't quite finished. This way it's not so daunting and I can see the progress that I'm making.

I did intend selling the clothes on eBay or Vinted, but that's too much of a faff ironing them, photographing them, taking them to PO to post to buyers etc, so local charity shops benefit.

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