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Skanky behaviour.

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whatisforteamum · 18/04/2025 22:05

I could overhear comments about my tea drinking.
I will drink cold herbal tea rather than throw it away.
Apparently it's skanky.Got me thinking what's low standards.?
For me it is
Wearing dirty clothes or shoes.
Poor hygiene especially dirty hands nails or teeth.
What are yours that give you the ick.

OP posts:
PoorUncleBarry · 19/04/2025 13:27

Judging other people on pointless matters is the epitome of skanky behaviour.

Hastentoadd · 19/04/2025 13:22

Iwantmyoldnameback · 19/04/2025 12:06

Apart from the children one this is just try hard snobbery.

Exactly, @80smonster, is a want to be Hyacinth Bucket but she hasn’t a clue

IKEA furniture and using Dulux paint skanky behaviour! 😂

Ginmonkeyagain · 19/04/2025 13:18

Looks nervously at my entire Dulux painted flat and IKEA blanket box.

PowderMonkeys · 19/04/2025 13:08

‘Er down at number 17 what doesn’t scrub her front step before 8 am and shows a bit too much leg when she does.

Charlize43 · 19/04/2025 13:06

I think using the word 'Skanky' - such an ugly word.

I thought it wasn't used anymore. Calling someone a 'skank' is so judgy.

Napface · 19/04/2025 13:03

I have farrow and ball paint but ikea furniture 🤔I'm not sure where that puts me, skank with aspirations maybe?

Wayne and Waynetta are the king and queen of skank

madeofmore · 19/04/2025 13:00

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

Thanks for that, I needed a laugh. But what are chavvy flower selection packs?

Lorlorlorikeet · 19/04/2025 12:58

Mansionscoldandgrey · 19/04/2025 12:36

I assume you're one of those who insists that you only need one coat of Farrow and Ball because you can't afford two tins.

No one can have a single coat. It’s like water. It’s absolutely garbage paint, and is so, so easily damaged. I find it hilarious when it’s mentioned on house listings.

Lorlorlorikeet · 19/04/2025 12:54

cherrypiesx · 19/04/2025 10:11

Loads of things messy cluttered home not washing in the morning or at night slurping drinks sleeping in the same bedding for weeks a time i have to have clean bedding every 3 days.
Spitting littering moveing men in within months.
Shoes on in doors.
The list goes on.

Every three days 😂

CostaDelZamboni · 19/04/2025 12:45

Mother Theresa here, you called?

Gall10 · 19/04/2025 12:42

couples asking for money as a wedding present….if you can’t afford a wedding without asking guests to pay for it then I ain’t coming….or maybe I’ll just ignore the request (heaven forbid it’s written as a poem) and buy them a toaster (Asda own make obvs!).

ClairDeLaLune · 19/04/2025 12:40

People who look down on others who may be too poor or too depressed to have clean things.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 19/04/2025 12:36

KimberleyClark · 19/04/2025 12:25

How does one tell the difference between cheap Dulux paint and expensive paint when it’s actually on a wall?

Because the homeowner says Farrow and Ball at every opportunity.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 19/04/2025 12:36

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

I assume you're one of those who insists that you only need one coat of Farrow and Ball because you can't afford two tins.

KimberleyClark · 19/04/2025 12:25

How does one tell the difference between cheap Dulux paint and expensive paint when it’s actually on a wall?

Rainydaysandwellybobs · 19/04/2025 12:22

@80smonster Damn.
I have just painted my kitchen in Dulux paint. Thought I was posh not using DIY store own brand, that's me told I guess 🤣
For me skanky is:
People going out in public un-showered and smelling.
Dirty/poorly maintained home. Especially if children are living in it.
Kids in really cheap shoes when the mum has her hair/nails/botox done.

Mumofyellows · 19/04/2025 12:21

I've just re read that and realised I am skanky. I have silicone paint and some Ikea furniture 🤪

BlondiePortz · 19/04/2025 12:19

Crazybaby123 · 19/04/2025 12:17

How would you know what paint someone has?
Except for universal credit, I have all of these items. I am a top 1 percent earner but I also eat supernoodles 😂I have ikea furniture in some rooms becuase it fits the space.
I don't think anyone can afford their children, children will max out whatever budget you have.
Some of the granulated coffees are very nice and I also don't want to spend time making coffee, it's a boring task.

Why is what you earn relevant to this though?

Crazybaby123 · 19/04/2025 12:17

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

How would you know what paint someone has?
Except for universal credit, I have all of these items. I am a top 1 percent earner but I also eat supernoodles 😂I have ikea furniture in some rooms becuase it fits the space.
I don't think anyone can afford their children, children will max out whatever budget you have.
Some of the granulated coffees are very nice and I also don't want to spend time making coffee, it's a boring task.

B1anche · 19/04/2025 12:12

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

I totally agree with you. There have been so many times that I've made a new friend, really liked them, felt like we've got a lot in common. Then I go to their house and, instantly notice the Dulux paint on their skirting boards and realise what a disgusting skank they really are. It's sickening to think that people like that walk among us.

Catlord · 19/04/2025 12:09

Mumofyellows · 19/04/2025 12:06

What's a chavvy flower selection pack?

Yes please, what's this?

Mumofyellows · 19/04/2025 12:06

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

What's a chavvy flower selection pack?

Iwantmyoldnameback · 19/04/2025 12:06

80smonster · 19/04/2025 11:08

IKEA furniture
Dulux/other cheapo paint
Chavvy flower selection packs
Granulated coffee
High street wallpaper
Having children you can’t afford
Universal Credit

Love the word skanky.

Edited

Apart from the children one this is just try hard snobbery.

BallerinaRadio · 19/04/2025 12:06

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 19/04/2025 08:26

Do you never make value judgements about anyone or anything? If you don't you are either Mother Theresa or a bot.
Human nature is what it is. No-one is perfect. Very few have poor personal hygiene, or need to pierce a child's ears for poor MH reasons.

I never feel the need to share my judgements to thousands of people online no

Mumofyellows · 19/04/2025 12:05

Cold herbal tea is actually nice! I prefer it cooler, and I drink a lot of herbal tea.

Skanky to me is...
Spitting
Excessive sniffing without blowing your nose
Leaving dog shit ( I have dogs- love them just hate people leaving it giving dog owners a bad name)
Iceland
Chucking fag ends on the floor
Vapers blowing it down the street so you get caught in a candy floss waft
Littering
Fly tipping
Screaming at your kids
Wearing dressing gowns in public
Hanging out of your front door smoking in your PJs

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