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Have you ever been to a concert alone?

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PinataHeeHaw · 18/04/2025 20:41

One of my favourite bands are playing at a venue in one of my favourite places (abroad and sunny). I don't have friends who would be interested in coming along with me. I'd look pathetic there alone, wouldn't I?

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HobnobsChoice · 18/04/2025 20:46

I've done it quite a few times. I didn't feel sad or lonely and I don't think anyone noticed me in particular I was annoyed I had to leave one gig early due to the last train being quite early and another time my back hurt so I had to go and sit down near the back. It was nice not having to think about other people though in a way. If my back had really hurt I could have just left without letting anyone down.

I don't think most people really notice other gig go-ers and once the band starts everyone is just in the moment. Occasionally you get a few nods and smiles if people appreciate your t shirt or you get eye contact during a song but it's nice not judgemental. I'm sure there is probably a forum or Reddit group or similar where you can arrange to meet up with others if you wanted.

gabsdot45 · 18/04/2025 20:46

Yes. I went to see Hugh Jackman's one man show alone.
I sat in the second row and the tickets were really expensive so I only got one.
If was fine.
I also sat alone at a Bryan Adams concert. I went there with a friend but we weren't seated together.
I've also been to the theatre alone a few times.
Doesn't bother me

Eggsboxedandmelting · 18/04/2025 20:46

Only to a quite local place which didn't hold that many people... Depends on the band if I would travel further I guess...

Branleuse · 18/04/2025 20:45

yes i have. I did a festival on my own and it was brilliant

Womanofcustard · 18/04/2025 20:44

No you wouldn’t look pathetic. And you might make new friends there!