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to put a positive spin on going to the male toilets if I must

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Definitelynamechanged123 · 17/04/2025 19:25

So there's probably an upside

There are rarely any queues for the gents.

I can't use the urinals seeing as I no longer have a penis so I'll be using the cubicles and there's normally no queue for those.

Blokes tend to stare in front of them.

Blokes don't tend to spend a long time at the sinks.

But good God, there can be a smell.

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Screamingabdabz · 17/04/2025 19:39

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 17/04/2025 19:37

This whole thing is horrendous.

I am appalled on behalf of all trans people.

We see you. We hear you. There are people here supporting you.

Yeah cos girls and women don’t matter and can just get to fuck eh @TheLightSideOfTheMoon ?

Gymrabbit · 17/04/2025 19:39

Good attitude to have.
I am in favour of single sex toilets plus disabled then a separate unisex/accessible toilet too. Obviously not possible everywhere but it’s what we have where I work and keeps everyone happy.

Espresso25 · 17/04/2025 19:38

BreadInCaptivity · 17/04/2025 19:36

The comfort in knowing you are not infringing on the rights of women - a cohort you purport to identify with?

👏🏻
I chose a bear.

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 19:38

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 17/04/2025 19:37

This whole thing is horrendous.

I am appalled on behalf of all trans people.

We see you. We hear you. There are people here supporting you.

What’s horrendous about male bodied people no longer being allowed in women only spaces?

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 19:37

RareMaker · 17/04/2025 19:36

Doesn't matter. That's what I would do. You can order online.

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It absolutely matters, ffs.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 17/04/2025 19:37

This whole thing is horrendous.

I am appalled on behalf of all trans people.

We see you. We hear you. There are people here supporting you.

RareMaker · 17/04/2025 19:36

CatRescueNeeded · 17/04/2025 19:35

OP hasn’t given any indication that they are disabled!

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Doesn't matter. That's what I would do. You can order online.

BreadInCaptivity · 17/04/2025 19:36

The comfort in knowing you are not infringing on the rights of women - a cohort you purport to identify with?

CatRescueNeeded · 17/04/2025 19:35

RareMaker · 17/04/2025 19:34

Get a RADR key?

OP hasn’t given any indication that they are disabled!

RareMaker · 17/04/2025 19:34

Get a RADR key?

lnks · 17/04/2025 19:30

I’m struggling to understand this. So you’re a man who has been using the women’s loos?

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