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Mog65 · 17/04/2025 16:46

Firstly, I'm a trans ally

Everyone is up in arms about trans women. What seems to be forgotten these people are human beings. Where is humanity. You have probably been sharing toilets and coming into contact with trans women every day and have no idea. You only hear about the few bad ones. In a public toilet, you go into a cubical and pee. Its not like you're sat there in full public view with your knickers at your ankles.

What has been forgotten also, as many females are changing to. So trans men. So you're in hospital in a ward. The woman in the next bed, identifys as George, clit is now a penis fully working and you're in the next bed! Same person can wander around female only spaces as the law has changed. George can now only be searched by a female. By the way George a transgender man is a pervert! All hypothetical but nobody has brought this up.

Just a thought.

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SigourneyHoward · 17/04/2025 20:49

What the actual fuck @HazelShark - you were 'meh' about the the turfisaslur website and now you're laughing about DV and rape.

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:49

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:47

Sure

I was challenging your (objectively wrong) view that women post a risk to other women and men don’t pose that big a risk. You’re clearly wrong but won’t address it. Interesting

I never said women pose as much of a risk as men. I just dont think we can label an entire group.

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:48

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:46

Liar

Im lauging at your attempts to so desperately get my attention....

ilovesooty · 17/04/2025 20:48

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:45

To clarify, my laugh reacts are about this user getting increasingly cross about me not responding to her posts anymore because we were just going round in circles and continuing to make posts in an attempt to bait me to respond. Im not laughing at the nature of the comments themselves.

Edited

It's an unpleasant use of the laugh emoji though. I've taken issue with the poster on the thread who's done that to me. Using it to mock isn't on.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/04/2025 20:48

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:23

For the third time....no 😂😂

OK, so are you saying that women saying no to trans women is bad?

Because that is all that is happening on this thread, that you seem so hateful. Women are saying, "No. We do not consent. We never did. Enough is enough."

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:47

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:45

To clarify, my laugh reacts are about this user getting increasingly cross about me not responding to her posts anymore because we were just going round in circles and continuing to make posts in an attempt to bait me to respond. Im not laughing at the nature of the comments themselves.

Edited

Sure

I was challenging your (objectively wrong) view that women post a risk to other women and men don’t pose that big a risk. You’re clearly wrong but won’t address it. Interesting

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 20:46

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:45

To clarify, my laugh reacts are about this user getting increasingly cross about me not responding to her posts anymore because we were just going round in circles and continuing to make posts in an attempt to bait me to respond. Im not laughing at the nature of the comments themselves.

Edited

Even if that’s true it’s pretty childish and petty.

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:46

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:41

I never laughed about rape. A vile and false accusation.

Liar

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Dandie55 · 17/04/2025 20:46

especially when you have thought women call each other babe.

To be fair, plenty of women do call each other babe. Maybe of a different demographic to yours if you haven't heard it. It gets used sarcastically a lot as well.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 20:46

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

blueleavesgreensky · 17/04/2025 20:45

Mog65 · 17/04/2025 16:53

The clitoris is used in the making of the penis.

There are different ways of making something resembling a penis. One method involves the clitoris but the result is a micropenis. Not particularly useful

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:45

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 20:43

Could you Screenshot it and post the image or would MN not allow that? It’s always the same with TRAs. Now they literally are the most hateful of people.

To clarify, my laugh reacts are about this user getting increasingly cross about me not responding to her posts anymore because we were just going round in circles and continuing to make posts in an attempt to bait me to respond. Im not laughing at the nature of the comments themselves.

ilovesooty · 17/04/2025 20:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/04/2025 20:43

Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't believe there is a single deleted post on this thread.

I didn't say there was. I was referring to the two posts I reported yesterday.

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:44

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:40

The irony of you calling me 'he'...goes against your whole argument lol

I have a vagina - cant be anything but a woman remember babe

I took a guess on the basis you’re a misogynist and laugh about women being raped. And I have no reason to believe you, especially when you have thought women call each other babe.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/04/2025 20:43

ilovesooty · 17/04/2025 20:11

I never made the claim that was made earlier on this thread that trans hatred was rife on the forum. I simply pointed out that it's impossible to quote the worst transphobic posts as they no longer exist because they've been reported and deleted.

ETA there is no need to say "claim" and "alleged". I'm quite happy for you to ask MNHQ to confirm that I reported two posts that were deleted.

Edited

Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't believe there is a single deleted post on this thread.

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:43

Women have been raped by Transwomen countless times, and transwomen pose no less risk to women simply because transwomen are men. I don’t understand how saying “I feel like a woman” magically makes a man less of a risk. And given what the like of Karen White and others have done I’m not inclined to give TW the benefit of the doubt

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 20:43

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:41

It’s annoying as others can’t see but I’ll keep saying it when he laugh reacts to posts about rape.

Could you Screenshot it and post the image or would MN not allow that? It’s always the same with TRAs. Now they literally are the most hateful of people.

MightAsWellBeGretel · 17/04/2025 20:42

All these attempts to quantify the risk of women actually being assaulted is somewhat irrelevant. Women have a right to private spaces and to feel safe in those spaces.

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:41

JazzyJelly · 17/04/2025 20:40

What a foul thing to do. Is there any way to report?

It’s annoying as others can’t see but I’ll keep saying it when he laugh reacts to posts about rape.

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:41

JazzyJelly · 17/04/2025 20:40

What a foul thing to do. Is there any way to report?

I never laughed about rape. A vile and false accusation.

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 20:40

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:38

TRAs really show their true colours on this thread. The so called champion of human rights - unless you mention women being raped and they think it’s funny, and tell you men aren’t a problem, that women are as bad (I wonder when @HazelShark said women are a risk to women, he meant transwomen too?)

The irony of you calling me 'he'...goes against your whole argument lol

I have a vagina - cant be anything but a woman remember babe

JazzyJelly · 17/04/2025 20:40

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:35

Again @HazelShark for someone who has pearl clutched about “waaah meanies on this thread the most hateful thread I’ve seen” - you keep laugh reacting at my posts about women experiencing rape. Is that not hateful? What’s your definition of “hateful”?

What a foul thing to do. Is there any way to report?

LovelySG · 17/04/2025 20:39

No amount of medication and/ or cosmetic surgery can turn a man into a woman or vice verse.
I don’t want men in women’s spaces with me. You may be ok with it but I’m not.

HaddyAbrams · 17/04/2025 20:38

ThatCyanCat · 17/04/2025 20:36

Interestingly enough, my actual TW friend has never had anyone question them in the male or female toilets!

Which means your friend is safe in the gents. Overwhelming likelihood is that women are aware your friend is not female but they're either sufficiently socialised to Be Kind or, more probably, they're scared too scared to say anything.

Exactly.

JandamiHash · 17/04/2025 20:38

TRAs really show their true colours on this thread. The so called champion of human rights - unless you mention women being raped and they think it’s funny, and tell you men aren’t a problem, that women are as bad (I wonder when @HazelShark said women are a risk to women, he meant transwomen too?)

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