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Sunbed Shock

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SansaStark90 · 16/04/2025 17:09

I’ve been really stupid and gone on the sunbed for twenty minutes and the burns I’ve got - I’ve never seen skin as red. I’ve got like indents to my skin as though I’ve woken to stretch marks on my chest. Will these disappear? I’m in agony. I’ve never burnt and so didn’t know it could cause this kind of pain. I’m shaking shivering. I did this yesterday. Can someone reassure my health anxiety that these indents will all calm down?

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ThatLilacTiger · 17/04/2025 19:21

You're being passive and acting helpless to the extent that it's putting your life at risk. You didn't know how long you should go on the sunbed for, but were too meek to ask so you just burned yourself senseless. You were too embarrassed to seek help from your GP. You were swayed by your mum to go against medical advice to attend A&E. Then when you eventually did, you didn't bother advocating for yourself.

Can you please get a grip and take some ownership of your actions before you get yourself really badly hurt. I don't want to sound cruel but this pathetic faffing helpless thing is my pet hate and you're taking it to extremes.

Woodburnerisout · 17/04/2025 19:20

WinterBones · 17/04/2025 19:19

I'm really struggling to believe this is true at this point.. i'm genuinely gobsmacked that a grown adult could be this stupid from start to finish.

And no i'm not troll hunting before i get reported, but come on, jesus christ.

Yes me too, I've been on here for 21 years and dont often give posters the side but this. 👀

faerietales · 17/04/2025 19:20

I honestly can't quite believe you sat in a bath of acidic tomatoes instead of asking for a second opinion.

You have 2nd degree burns to 80% of your body. You could go into shock if you don't get yourself appropriate medical care today.

WinterBones · 17/04/2025 19:19

I'm really struggling to believe this is true at this point.. i'm genuinely gobsmacked that a grown adult could be this stupid from start to finish.

And no i'm not troll hunting before i get reported, but come on, jesus christ.

Woodburnerisout · 17/04/2025 19:19

I'm begining to think this maybe isn't all strictly true....

CustardySergeant · 17/04/2025 19:18

CheeseAndHamToastieAndCrisps · 17/04/2025 19:13

Please don’t tell me some idiot suggested putting tomatoes on a burn. FML.

Yes, I saw that post but I didn't dream OP would actually do it.

PLEASE go back to A&E and this time show the extent of your burns and make sure you are understood.

WinterBones · 17/04/2025 19:17

you do not put tomatoes on a burn

FFS.

Go back to A&E

ShelfyElfy25 · 17/04/2025 19:17

Dear god please go back to a&e. This could go very badly wrong. Just go back. Now. And PLEASE don't put acidic tomatoes on your poor skin xx

CheeseAndHamToastieAndCrisps · 17/04/2025 19:13

Please don’t tell me some idiot suggested putting tomatoes on a burn. FML.

Willwetalk · 17/04/2025 19:13

Go the f* back. Please.

Simonjt · 17/04/2025 19:10

You’ve covered burned skin in acidic tomatoes?!

Oual · 17/04/2025 19:09

You need to get out of the bath of tomatoes and go back to the hospital, explain it’s worse etc and the codeine hasn’t helped with the shivering etc. if you’re shivering that badly you really do need to go back and explain everything and hopefully the nurses can help you explain

SALaw · 17/04/2025 19:09

You can re-present to a&e

faerietales · 17/04/2025 19:07

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 17/04/2025 18:39

How much pain are you in now? Has the shaking stopped?

If the codeine is sufficient and you have stopped shaking then make an appointment with your gp in the morning. Keep you fluids up and rest.

If you are still in agony and still feel feverish, shaking etc… then you will have to go back.

GP's are closed until Tuesday now. OP needs to go back to A&E.

CheeseAndHamToastieAndCrisps · 17/04/2025 19:04

@SansaStark90 as a nurse I’m telling you to go back. And I question medics all the bloody time. It’s how we keep our patients alive…

Have you got any actual skin loss?

saveforthat · 17/04/2025 19:03

I'm really sorry you are so badly burnt op and the doctor who assessed you sounds awful but I don't understand how you can have porcelain skin (like me) and still tan easily in the sun/go without SPF in Thailand, the two are usually mutually exclusive. I can't do two hours on a hot day in the UK without SPF.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 17/04/2025 19:02

@SansaStark90 go back. I'm worried about you and I don't know you. You do need to be assertive sometimes. It doesn't matter a hoot if it was self-inflicted - in fact most injuries are!

@CustardySergeant some doctors from abroad aren't fluent in English or speak with a heavy accent making it difficult to understand them. Perhaps one of the nurses used to working with him could have helped with the communication difficulties?

SansaStark90 · 17/04/2025 19:02

I am definitely in the you never question medics camp, so had no idea I could request a second opinion.

I mean he could have offered me a cream at least. I was sat there in my pyjamas and not because of the time, I said these pyjamas normally fall down without being tied at the waistband but my body has swelled that they are just staying up! And it has been warm today but I’m sat there in a dry robe shivering (a warm fleeced coat.)

The shaking isn’t as bad though. I don’t know which pp told me about tomatoes. But I bought a dozen cans and have actually laid in the bath and smothered myself in them.

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CustardySergeant · 17/04/2025 18:58

SansaStark90 · 17/04/2025 18:20

Soo 111 told me to go to a&e and said I sounded like I needed treatment for sunstroke. The nurses who assessed me couldn’t have been kinder and compassionate and said the same and that I’d need fluids, pain relief and dressings.

When I was called to see the doctor, he never even asked to see my body after I showed him my chest, as it’s my entire body. We couldn’t understand each other and he didn’t seem to know what a sunbed was. I’m not an assertive or confrontational person so I didn’t really know what to do. He sent me home with codeine.

I know this was self inflicted. But I do think I deserved at least to be fully assessed.

So you didn't tell him that the nurse who had triaged you had said you'd need fluids, pain relief and dressings? Why couldn't you understand each other? Surely he spoke English.

CheeseAndHamToastieAndCrisps · 17/04/2025 18:56

That doesn’t sound great OP.

So are your burns not dressed? Dressings help with the pain and prevent infection.

Can I just stress that the most initial important thing is the first aid, cool running water for 20 minutes, it helps the pain and stops the spread of the burn as much. So getting in the shower would be great for example. Burns change over time so your burns may get worse. Do not put anything on a burn as we have to clean it off in a&e!

I’m glad the nurses were great but the doctor sounds a bit useless.

Pigsears · 17/04/2025 18:55

A bad burn will mean that you skin will bubble with fluid filled blisters. When these pop, the skin underneath will be delicate and red, they will crust over and can potentially get infected. On areas where your skin rubs on clothing (eg bra straps) or if you carry a bag or when you lie in bed, the blisters will pop and ooze. If they get infected, then you may scar. Those areas that have been most exposed, and when the skin is delicate, are more likely to get hit the worst. An example would be stomach, shoulders, back, tops of thighs etc

It will take time for the skin to blister- but if it's bad, it should be there, or thereabouts, happening now.

This is why the Dr should have examined you.

Marmiv87 · 17/04/2025 18:52

I wish peope would stop trying to frighten OP. She already clearly regrets going on the sunbed, is in a lot of pain and feels embarrassed about the whole thing.

OP is an anxious person and will no doubt be worrying about the long term damage she may have caused. Reading something like this isn’t helpful at all.

Sometimes us humans do some daft things that we regret but can learn from, and I’m almost certain OP won’t be going back to the sunbeds in a hurry.

OP doesnt need other people judging her right now or purposely trying to worry her about cancer, I actually think it’s cruel of you to post the stats.

For clarity I’m aware sunbeds do raise the risk of cancer and they are really bad for you and no I wouldn’t use them now that I am an adult (I did do in my teens), but OP just wanted some help and reassurance not a telling off.

CharlotteCChapel · 17/04/2025 18:50

CallmeJim · 16/04/2025 18:10

But how will the drug dealers launder their money? 😁

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Words · 17/04/2025 18:50

Oh God I am so sorry. Has the shaking stopped and have you been given anything for the pain?

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 17/04/2025 18:46

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 17/04/2025 18:39

How much pain are you in now? Has the shaking stopped?

If the codeine is sufficient and you have stopped shaking then make an appointment with your gp in the morning. Keep you fluids up and rest.

If you are still in agony and still feel feverish, shaking etc… then you will have to go back.

GP will be closed tomorrow. I would call 111 again.
I know when I was treated for a facial burn (not from the sun) I was given pain relief, antihistamines. hydrocortisone ointment and gauze bandages.