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Sunbed Shock

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SansaStark90 · 16/04/2025 17:09

I’ve been really stupid and gone on the sunbed for twenty minutes and the burns I’ve got - I’ve never seen skin as red. I’ve got like indents to my skin as though I’ve woken to stretch marks on my chest. Will these disappear? I’m in agony. I’ve never burnt and so didn’t know it could cause this kind of pain. I’m shaking shivering. I did this yesterday. Can someone reassure my health anxiety that these indents will all calm down?

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Helen1625 · 16/04/2025 20:20

Hi, hoping you have taken people's advice and asked for some help. Even if you're too embarrassed to go to A&E, you could ring 111; they can either advise you on self care or tell you if you really need to be seen. Please just get some medical advice.

Have you taken some paracetamol for pain relief? I think aloe vera and natural yogurt are recommended to get the heat out of the skin. Tepid water, not cold applied to the skin too. The shivering that you describe does sound like you have heat stroke.

Username197 · 16/04/2025 20:19

Hi @SansaStark90
Firstly, you made a mistake and you won’t do it again!
I had similar many years ago in my early 20’s. It was like sunburn; it burnt, hot to touch and eventually calmed and the skin peeled.
15 years+ later I’m still here and no long term health effects.
Keep yourself and the skin hydrated x

diddl · 16/04/2025 20:16

I had no idea that you could just set your own times on these.

When I used one some years ago-about 30+! the timer was set for you & you had a book that t was written into!

WonderingWanda · 16/04/2025 20:14

Please just go and get seen at the hospital op. They are not there to judge you, burns can be so dangerous.

Soubriquet · 16/04/2025 20:13

Also, DO NOT POP THE BLISTERS!! No matter how tempted you are, don’t do it. It will introduce infection

greeenscreeen · 16/04/2025 20:12

SansaStark90 · 16/04/2025 19:19

I am definitely owning that no one forced me and it’s on me for being so stupid. As you can see in the photo. My natural skin tone is very pale so why I thought to go on for so long. I clearly wasn’t thinking. Really paying for not engaging my brain now!

It's good that you are taking responsibility for your actions, but the blame doesn't entirely lie at your feet. The shop staff have a responsibility to provide accurate and safe advice, and to keep you safe. Especially as a first time user. Regardless of whether or not the member of staff was a young, inexperienced person. You should absolutely be letting the shop owners know.

Pigsears · 16/04/2025 20:11

Head to urgent care / A&E.

I'm not medical. But for burns....

Drink lots of water. Take a cool shower- pat your skin dry- do not rub with a towel it will hurt. Your skin will be hot. It will feel tight. If you scratch, it will hurt. Don't put creams on til after you have seen Dr. Dress in loose fitting clothes. Avoid waistbands as this will hurt.

The little white dots are part of the blistering process. So you will need to go to Dr as they will show you how to dress them and prevent infection. If you are worried about scarring - I would go to the Dr now to know how to treat (and importantly to assess for sunstroke / dehydration).

faerietales · 16/04/2025 20:11

TY78910 · 16/04/2025 20:10

OP with Irish skin you should be going for 6-9mins max. I’m extremely pale and even 6m makes me uncomfortable. I’m amazed how you actually lasted inside that long. But I’m not going to lecture you as you’ve had enough of that.

I will absolutely direct you to a doctor of some sort. That’s bad.

She shouldn't be going at all - and neither should you!

TY78910 · 16/04/2025 20:10

OP with Irish skin you should be going for 6-9mins max. I’m extremely pale and even 6m makes me uncomfortable. I’m amazed how you actually lasted inside that long. But I’m not going to lecture you as you’ve had enough of that.

I will absolutely direct you to a doctor of some sort. That’s bad.

Soubriquet · 16/04/2025 20:10

Christ get yourself some medical attention asap OP. You’ve literally burnt your skin so badly it’s gonna blister. You’ve will need medical attention

Sunbeds should be banned in my opinion. Stupid things

faerietales · 16/04/2025 20:09

YourLoyalPlumOP · 16/04/2025 19:43

Let’s not freak out the girl who suffers with severe health anxiety eh?

Someone who has severe health anxiety wouldn't go and sit on a sunbed for 20 minutes, surely? Confused

It's also not about freaking her out - melanoma in particular is really hard to spot and can be fatal, she needs to know what to look for and what kind of danger she's put herself in.

Helleborer · 16/04/2025 20:09

You need to call 111. I thought 5-6 minutes was the standard amount even for already tanned skin!

KimberleyClark · 16/04/2025 20:07

OneBadKitty · 16/04/2025 18:44

I've no advice, and guess you don't want to hear it, but think anyone who uses a sunbed is nuts! I know someone who got their teenage daughter a sunbed to use at home, crazy! Why would ANY parent want to do this for their child?

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Oh my god. What is wrong with people. Anyone who uses a sunbed is an idiot.

NewAgeNewMe · 16/04/2025 20:06

I used to go on these things in my early 20’s for around 20 minutes a time after I’d built up to it. That was in the 80’s though. Don’t think I would now.

Riaanna · 16/04/2025 20:06

SansaStark90 · 16/04/2025 17:40

Do you scar from blistering? I am a worrier and I’ve never even had a little sunburn. I thought I would have blistered by now if I was going to? Clearly, I don’t know what I’m on about re tanning and burning 🤦🏻‍♀️

You’re a worrier yet you actively choose to sit on a known cause of skin cancer? Hilarious.

Superhansrantowindsor · 16/04/2025 20:06

ToysRus56 · 16/04/2025 19:45

Ah you poor thing! I have been this burnt before. It really is agony. I recommend dousing - and I mean dousing - yourself in aloe vera/ aftersun every hour. And drinking a lot of water. It will calm down in a few days

Yes to this. Pour after sun on and as soon as it’s absorbed put more on. Just keep going. Your skin will drink it up. I have burnt too many times.

Scrimblescromble · 16/04/2025 20:02

20 minutes! Jeez! Even when I was a seasoned sunbed user the most I did was 12. (Having worked up from 6 on my first go) They shouldn’t have even let you do that!

YourLoyalPlumOP · 16/04/2025 20:02

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 16/04/2025 19:51

Well it's the reality?

Show me?

GraySILK · 16/04/2025 20:01

KimberleyClark · 16/04/2025 17:23

These things need banning.

I was just thinking this. There is no good that can come from these awful machines. They are so dangerous and unregulated that’s it’s shocking they haven’t been banned.

I say this as someone who used them in their late teens, early 20’s. I once went on twice in one day, stupid cow.

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YourLoyalPlumOP · 16/04/2025 19:59

Cabbagefamily · 16/04/2025 19:56

Well it’s a fact. Anyone concerned about their health will worry about skin cancer. My DH is currently dying from melanoma. He has never used a sunbed.

So show me your proof then. That no one with health anxiety ever went on a sunbed ever…..

sorry to hear about your husband. My friend is going through the same thing. From going on sunbeds also.

MignonsMorceaux · 16/04/2025 19:58

Please, everyone who's had even one serious burn (sunbed or actual sun) - keep vigilant for signs of skin cancer. Every burn raises the risk of serious harm.

I had one bad burn once (on holiday somewhere cool and windy but really sunny) and I think it's affected my skin for life. (I'm really pale).

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 16/04/2025 19:58

Cabbagefamily · 16/04/2025 19:56

Well it’s a fact. Anyone concerned about their health will worry about skin cancer. My DH is currently dying from melanoma. He has never used a sunbed.

So sorry to hear that x

Cabbagefamily · 16/04/2025 19:56

YourLoyalPlumOP · 16/04/2025 19:48

Ahh. You know the OP personally or are the OP right?

Well it’s a fact. Anyone concerned about their health will worry about skin cancer. My DH is currently dying from melanoma. He has never used a sunbed.

Blueskiesandrainbows · 16/04/2025 19:55

Of course the salon should be taking responsibility, it sounds like a very big fail on their behalf not to have questioned the amount of time the OP was on a sun bed. I just don’t understand why customers aren’t asked to fill in a questionnaire to ascertain an exact timing, the shop should be reported for neglect, they have duty of care to their customers and OP when you’re feeling better please follow it up.
As for now I hope you’re seeking medical help and that you can get the proper treatment for your burns.

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