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Sunbed Shock

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SansaStark90 · 16/04/2025 17:09

I’ve been really stupid and gone on the sunbed for twenty minutes and the burns I’ve got - I’ve never seen skin as red. I’ve got like indents to my skin as though I’ve woken to stretch marks on my chest. Will these disappear? I’m in agony. I’ve never burnt and so didn’t know it could cause this kind of pain. I’m shaking shivering. I did this yesterday. Can someone reassure my health anxiety that these indents will all calm down?

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MissDoubleU · 17/04/2025 14:36

Blackdow · 17/04/2025 13:51

I’ve seen them saying that the redness is toxins leaving your body after the sun has drawn them out. Idiots.

These are the same types of people who say you should rub piss in your eyes and then that the redness of your eyes is because you’ve not quite rubbed enough piss in them yet.

Then they unironically call people sheep for believing in the conspiracy of repeatably provable science based medicine and advice. Why listen to that when you can rub piss in your eyes!? The sun doesn’t actually give you skin cancer, the pharmaceutical companies do.

OP I really hope you’ve seen a doctor because as PP have said, it’s a really serious state to put yourself in.

BlueTitShark · 17/04/2025 14:22

SansaStark90 · 17/04/2025 00:05

I’ve rang 111 and they’ve said a&e. I’ve had a heap of health problems. Spinal surgery etc. and not complained about the pain. I’m literally howling and deep breathing while shaking due to this pain. But I saw my mum today and she said no way do you go to a&e for a bit of sunburn. I may be an adult but she made me feel that silly that yes her opinion has put me off. So I posted on here hoping to hear the same and that my anxiety was telling me to go to a&e.

@SansaStark90 i hope you’ve been seen quickly last night and you’re feeling better.
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CustardySergeant · 17/04/2025 14:16

scoobysnaxx · 17/04/2025 14:14

FFS OP GO TO A&E now!

She hasn't posted at all today, so may not be reading any posts. I hope she went to A&E, but I very much doubt it, unfortunately. 🙁It's very worrying.

scoobysnaxx · 17/04/2025 14:14

FFS OP GO TO A&E now!

Augustus40 · 17/04/2025 14:05

I am always stunned sunbeds are still in business. I have known for decades about the link with skin cancer. The government should outright ban them. End of.

threenaancurrywhore · 17/04/2025 14:02

Blackdow · 17/04/2025 13:51

I’ve seen them saying that the redness is toxins leaving your body after the sun has drawn them out. Idiots.

The good news is that their stupidity will naturally select them out of the human race, so we can all go back to not being so fucking insane.

UK2HK · 17/04/2025 13:54

How on EARTH are you still ALIVE?

CustardySergeant · 17/04/2025 13:52

Blackdow · 17/04/2025 13:51

I’ve seen them saying that the redness is toxins leaving your body after the sun has drawn them out. Idiots.

Really? Good grief. That's one of the stupidest things I've ever read. Incredible.

Blackdow · 17/04/2025 13:51

HangingOver · 17/04/2025 13:46

Yeah al all the influencers are always really red like doesn't it hurt apart from anything else??

I’ve seen them saying that the redness is toxins leaving your body after the sun has drawn them out. Idiots.

HangingOver · 17/04/2025 13:46

Oual · 17/04/2025 13:38

I’m in some skin cancer support groups and they often pop up saying spf causes cancer and we should get into the sun more and use beef tallow etc

Yeah al all the influencers are always really red like doesn't it hurt apart from anything else??

Oual · 17/04/2025 13:38

HangingOver · 17/04/2025 13:33

Sunbeds have been weirdly co-opted by the woo woo lot where I live, the same people that use beef tallow instead of sun cream boak

I’m in some skin cancer support groups and they often pop up saying spf causes cancer and we should get into the sun more and use beef tallow etc

Tin Foil Tinfoil Hat GIF
HangingOver · 17/04/2025 13:33

Sunbeds have been weirdly co-opted by the woo woo lot where I live, the same people that use beef tallow instead of sun cream boak

Hoppinggreen · 17/04/2025 13:32

My lovely 21 year old niece goes on sunbeds weekly and is bright bloody orange!
I really wish she wouldn't do it at all but its none of my business I suppose, thankfully DD uses fake Tan instead

Inarutinarut · 17/04/2025 13:28

SansaStark90 · 17/04/2025 00:05

I’ve rang 111 and they’ve said a&e. I’ve had a heap of health problems. Spinal surgery etc. and not complained about the pain. I’m literally howling and deep breathing while shaking due to this pain. But I saw my mum today and she said no way do you go to a&e for a bit of sunburn. I may be an adult but she made me feel that silly that yes her opinion has put me off. So I posted on here hoping to hear the same and that my anxiety was telling me to go to a&e.

How are you doing? You’re in extreme pain, potentially have deep burns, feel unwell, have sought medical advice which says A and. I’m hoping you have seen a dr by now and are hopefully feeling a but better.

SlightlyJaded · 17/04/2025 13:25

IGNORE
YOUR
MUM
GO
TO
A&E

(annoying carriage returns in the hope that OP sees it!)

BloominNora · 17/04/2025 13:22

MrsSlocombesCat · 17/04/2025 12:37

I got a melanoma on my hand from sitting in a pub garden. On one single occasion. We were sitting under a parasol but my right arm was exposed and got burnt. A mole appeared on my right hand, I noticed it but wasn't sure if it had always been there and I had just noticed it because it had gone a funny colour. But I found a picture of me the year before where I was holding a bottle of Oasis in my right hand and there was no mole. Two doctors said it was fine before I was finally referred, and luckily after initial removal confirmed it was malignant I had to have a wide excision and skin graft to make sure they had got it all. So in the end I was fine but I couldn't believe one sunburn experience had given me cancer. Fwiw mixing some aloe Vera gel with Ibuprofen gel is really good for sunburn.

I'm sorry you got diagnosed with melanoma but am glad you are recovered.

It is really really unlikely that one incident alone caused melanoma - with the exception of Nodular Melanoma (which is much rarer than other types, doesn't usually appear on hands and is more likely to be caused by excessive and prolonged sun exposure), melanomas are incredibly slow growing.

It's much more likely that it was already developing under the surface of your skin and the sunburn incident either triggered it to grow a little quicker or just drew attention to it by causing pigment changes — which probably did you a favour by allowing you to get an earlier diagnosis.

BonfireToffee · 17/04/2025 13:15

Hope you're feeling a little better now, OP. We've all done stupid things in our time - I'm sorry you're in such pain.

WickWood · 17/04/2025 13:12

Hope you've gone to A&E and been seen. You do not have a bit of sunburn, like your mum said, 80% of your body is covered. Good luck!

chaosmaker · 17/04/2025 13:07

@SansaStark90 Hope you've been treated, feel better and learnt your lesson for next time. Spray tans are ugly but then don't burn you (I hope) - may be the way to go next time if you really need darker skin.

I would complain to the shop about the staff member that clearly did not give you any advice or asked if you've used a sunbed before. It's dangerous.

Subwaystop · 17/04/2025 13:06

So sorry this happened to you OP. Hope you feel better soon.

Underconstruction · 17/04/2025 13:04

I scalded myself once. Sudocrem was bloody brilliant. Nothing to offer on sunbeds I'm afraid.

threenaancurrywhore · 17/04/2025 13:00

SeaUrchinHat · 17/04/2025 12:48

Anyone on here saying don’t go to A&E is utterly insane. The poor woman has burns on 80% of her largest bodily organ (one that keeps out infection amongst other things, and is compromised if blistered or damaged in any way). It could very quickly become an emergency.

I hope you’ve been seen by someone now OP and you’re on the road to feeling better. A horrible experience for you and extremely negligent of the salon worker.

It’s the ones saying pop some yoghurt or coconut oil on it and have a nap that are making me rage at the phone screen.

BloominNora · 17/04/2025 13:00

Glokkey · 17/04/2025 00:57

I get that 5.5% might not sound huge, but that’s 1 in 20 people—which is honestly terrifying when you realise how deadly melanoma can be.

What people don’t always realize is that once melanoma metastasizes, it’s basically a death sentence. Survival rates drop dramatically, and treatment options become limited and brutal. This isn’t just about vanity or a temporary tan—it’s about gambling with your life. Prevention is the only real power we have here.

And for that reason I will be very blunt with OP. Sorry. I’m only sharing facts. Knowledge is power in my eyes.

What’s even more concerning is that just one use of a sunbed increases your melanoma risk by 20%.

Forgive me for not sugar coating. I have a relative who had her entire left ear surgically removed due to melanoma.

Edited

This is so dramatic and also incorrect.

The misunderstanding of these types of statistics is a real bug bear of mine (and I use examples of it and how small risks are hyped up with scary statistics - particularly in the press - in some training that I have developed around understanding data)

Melanoma risk is 2.44% (1 in 41 women in the UK).

Use of sunbeds increases the risk by between 16% and 25% - but the statistics for this don't differentiate between how often the sunbed is used so will include heavy users as well as those who use it once.

For women who first use a sunbed under the age of 35 risk increases by 59%.

What that means in reality is that the general risk increases to 3.05% (1 in 33) or for women who first use a sunbed before the age of 35 it's 3.88% (1 in 26)

It sounds a lot, but when you take into account that this is a lifetime risk, the peak age for diagnosis is in those over 80 and the survival rate is 87.4% it really is not a huge risk.

The risk of actually dying from Melanoma is just 0.489% (1 in 204)

For context, the risk of getting into a serious road traffic accident and being killed or seriously injured is 3.44% (1 in 29) - higher than the melanoma risk.

So please can people stop quoting inflated statistics and making terrifying claims about the risks of melanoma! No wonder people have such health anxiety about things these days!

SeaUrchinHat · 17/04/2025 12:48

Anyone on here saying don’t go to A&E is utterly insane. The poor woman has burns on 80% of her largest bodily organ (one that keeps out infection amongst other things, and is compromised if blistered or damaged in any way). It could very quickly become an emergency.

I hope you’ve been seen by someone now OP and you’re on the road to feeling better. A horrible experience for you and extremely negligent of the salon worker.

justasking111 · 17/04/2025 12:44

I remember someone this burnt. It's a hospital job. Their dressings had to be changed every 48 hours. It wasn't pleasant but the treatment saved them from scarring and infection.