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Trying to sell anything is impossible

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Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 14:16

I am doing a big clear out that includes clothes, furniture, all in great condition. Clothes and trainers barely worn, asking very little (around £1 per item) on Facebook marketplace and local pages, no one is interested....piece of furniture, a few years old but absolutely solid, no rips , tears or stains. It would be around £2k new, asking for a little over £100 , no one is interested and only person commenting is saying she knows of a place that MIGHT take it if I don't find a buyer, they'd want it delivered too as I know for a fact they don't collect because I have donated stuff to them before. I've seen other people doing this to countless other sellers, trying to get some money for their items but instead they get asked to donate to this or that. We KNOW that there are tons of places asking stuff for free. There are also tons of people asking things for free and even those waste your time as no shows. Is it too hard to understand that if I am listing for sale is because I want some.mo eye for it? Rant over 😂 at this point I would honestly rather taking it to the skip than suffer more time wasters.

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PenneyFouryourthoughts · 16/04/2025 17:50

Furniture is tough to shift. As pp have said, you might as well give it to charity unless antique. I have left stuff outside my flat for the council to collect and a third party has helped themselves! 🤣

As for clothes don't expect a huge amount for them but to make space Vinted really is the place. People also do bundles on there which might be a way to get rid of stuff.

Wexone · 16/04/2025 17:49

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 17:44

How is that curious? 😂 It's called redecorating, I don't do it every year but been in this house for 5 years and want to do it now. We've been saving for it. Does that satisfy your curiosity? 😉

For me though I couldn't do that I spent 3.5k on my sofa 10 years ago. its a neutral colour. I am not going to be buying a new sofa again for another good few years. when you are spending that much money you should be looking at it as an investment of years of use.
There is no way i would spend that amount of on something that was going to be sold or got rid of in a few years time,

HellsBalls · 16/04/2025 17:49

All our stuff goes first to the flea market, if that fails non-clothes get put outside with a ‘free’ sign, and all clothes go in the charity bin by the recycling.
I think most of the clothes get shipped to Africa, so might be environmentally better to just put them in the rubbish for the incinerator.
I’m not pissing time away posting shit for £2

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 17:49

whatdidkatydo · 16/04/2025 16:23

Oh I agree! And the amount that can’t read or simply don’t understand the words COLLECTION ONLY.

Had 3 this week!

I had a guy asking if we would deliver last night. It was 10pm 😂

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CremeEggThief · 16/04/2025 17:48

Difficult yes, but YABU to say impossible... other people are managing it somehow!

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 17:47

DuesToTheDirt · 16/04/2025 17:36

I was trying to buy second hand furniture recently and couldn't find a van at a convenient time for less than £100! Man + van would have been a reasonable price for a short distance, but any further away and you could be looking at 3 hrs hire.

Wow. That's a lot, we got a shed moved with a local man and van (mind that was 3 years ago) my husband dismantled it but the panels were huge. They only charged us £40 to move all the panels and roof (same town, about 8 minutes drive). It honestly is not that difficult to organise here, this is why I am surprised at how people seem to not want second hand goods as if it was a big hassle. The charities are not better, my mum in law was stood up by British heart Foundation twice, then she ended up stuck with the old and new sofa, in a tiny 1 bed flat!

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tillyandmilly · 16/04/2025 17:46

Vinted

pearbottomjeans · 16/04/2025 17:45

GreenCandleWax · 16/04/2025 17:21

Have you tried Freecycle? - people collect from you, which is great!

DO they though?? Soooo many no shows from Facebook. Precisely why I insist on delivering.

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 17:44

Dollshousedolly · 16/04/2025 17:39

I’m curious why you bought a piece of furniture for around £2,000 and getting rid of it a few years later.

How is that curious? 😂 It's called redecorating, I don't do it every year but been in this house for 5 years and want to do it now. We've been saving for it. Does that satisfy your curiosity? 😉

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SunnySideDeepDown · 16/04/2025 17:41

Bootfair?

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 16/04/2025 17:40

Looks like labouring man and pal and van not going to be career options edged out by AI anytime soon then…..

Dollshousedolly · 16/04/2025 17:39

I’m curious why you bought a piece of furniture for around £2,000 and getting rid of it a few years later.

DuesToTheDirt · 16/04/2025 17:36

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 16:17

See that makes zero sense to me. A new one delivered will still be a lot more expensive than a used one delivered (you can easily arrange a van to deliver second hand items for £30-£40)

I was trying to buy second hand furniture recently and couldn't find a van at a convenient time for less than £100! Man + van would have been a reasonable price for a short distance, but any further away and you could be looking at 3 hrs hire.

nongnangning · 16/04/2025 17:26

i would like to know where the (nice) free sofas are!!

GreenCandleWax · 16/04/2025 17:21

pearbottomjeans · 16/04/2025 15:33

I’ve literally put stuff outside free today and most of it’s still there - because everyone is trying to get rid of stuff so don’t want my rejects 🤷‍♀️

Facebook is more hassle than it’s worth and I’ve started only giving stuff away delivery only - I will drop it off to you when it suits me and leave it on your doorstep, too many people not showing up to collect, nightmare.

Charity shops are often full.

Vinted is good for toys (made £500 so far since this time last year), baby carriers etc, but had a few bots buying and reselling which pisses me off as I want my treasured baby things to go on to a nice home.

So tip it is! Luckily ours (like most?) is a recycling center.

Have you tried Freecycle? - people collect from you, which is great!

GreenCandleWax · 16/04/2025 17:19

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 14:16

I am doing a big clear out that includes clothes, furniture, all in great condition. Clothes and trainers barely worn, asking very little (around £1 per item) on Facebook marketplace and local pages, no one is interested....piece of furniture, a few years old but absolutely solid, no rips , tears or stains. It would be around £2k new, asking for a little over £100 , no one is interested and only person commenting is saying she knows of a place that MIGHT take it if I don't find a buyer, they'd want it delivered too as I know for a fact they don't collect because I have donated stuff to them before. I've seen other people doing this to countless other sellers, trying to get some money for their items but instead they get asked to donate to this or that. We KNOW that there are tons of places asking stuff for free. There are also tons of people asking things for free and even those waste your time as no shows. Is it too hard to understand that if I am listing for sale is because I want some.mo eye for it? Rant over 😂 at this point I would honestly rather taking it to the skip than suffer more time wasters.

If you get no buyers you can save yourself a lot of stress by contacting either British Heart Foundation who will come and collect, including electrical - so long as things are in good condition. In my area there are two other options as well - a charity that has an outlet shop on an industrial estate - either take stuff there (furniture. clothes, books, etc.) as they have easy parking outside, or they will collect. Finally the local authority will collect - in some areas they contract this out to a firm that makes good quality furniture availablke to those on low income (see your local authority website under Waste). Anything else you can Freecycle - good as people come and collect.

bumblebee1000 · 16/04/2025 17:05

I almost had a breakdown clearing late aunts house, charity shops too fussy and didnt want anything even tho in good condition, didnt turn up when said they would take items, couldnt give stuff away inc new fridge so the lot taken to council tip and their recycle shop to sort out. the amount of total timewasters drove me insane.

Velmy · 16/04/2025 17:01

We charity shop everything usually, but I put a load of really nice tops/dresses (all worn only a couple of times max) on Vinted a while back as I had some free time. Put them all up for three quid just to get rid of them quickly (all paid 80-200 for) and there were still people asking me if I'd take £2.50!

I resent even walking to the post office for people that cheeky 😅

BlondeMummyto1 · 16/04/2025 16:55

I’ve listed some almost brand new furniture for sale and I’ve had no interest whatsoever. I’ve listed them at really good prices and even reduced them slightly but still nothing…

Even a couple of years ago anything I advertised would be snapped up within 24 hours.

I think unless it’s free or maybe £5 people won’t pay.

Wexone · 16/04/2025 16:55

I don't have any issues selling furniture on FB marketplace, just moved into my new house and listed a good few items including Ikea items and all gone within a few days, yes they must be collected but i list measurements etc but most fit into back of car. My husband does have a van and if people privately message me asking for courier then we agree a cost but i dont advertise it as you will be plagued. I sell smaller items aswell as clothes on vinted. If its not really worth selling but still usefull we do have a free page or their are charities that will collect

ramonaqueenbee · 16/04/2025 16:54

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 16:17

See that makes zero sense to me. A new one delivered will still be a lot more expensive than a used one delivered (you can easily arrange a van to deliver second hand items for £30-£40)

For me it would be a lot of faffing around to organise a man with a van who would collect, deliver and unload at a time suitable for me and for the seller. What I'm looking for is probably £450 new delivered, and would be around £250 secondhand delivered, but with a lot of extra hassle. If the seller would arrange delivery I'd consider it! The money is neither here nor there for me, I'd just rather buy secondhand than deplete the earth's resources further.

MindTheAbyss · 16/04/2025 16:47

Not helpful, OP, but have you seen the Lou Wall sketch about FB Marketplace? It’s soooo good 😂

PassingStranger · 16/04/2025 16:33

Totally agree. People just give stuff away where I live.
People have such stuff they just want rid.

Gardendiary · 16/04/2025 16:32

I don’t think the market for second hand furniture is great. We couldn’t give away my parents sofas recently and they weren’t that old and had all the correct fire ratings.
In the past I’ve had a sofa and a dining table for free. I find often people are happy for someone to take things away for them, as a bulky waste collection costs money, so they are just glad to have it off their hands.

PassingStranger · 16/04/2025 16:32

Totally agree. People just give stuff away where I live.
People have such stuff they just want rid.