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Weird thoughts other people must think...

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ReenaGee · 15/04/2025 20:56

Surely everyone has a fleeting thought of the bath falling through the ceiling whilst they're in it?

Does anyone else have this thought?

And other recurring little thoughts people have that other people must also think?

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LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 19/04/2025 11:13

I randomly panic a snake has come up the toilet.

I think i saw an article about it as a child i know its nonsense but i still do a panicked check once in a while

ReenaGee · 19/04/2025 11:11

autisticbookworm · 18/04/2025 04:58

I also have most of those. They are thankfully fairly fleeting so not too debilitating. But just to say a faulty charger did set on fire in our house, we lost 80% of our belongs and had to live in temporary accommodation for a year. Don’t leave things charging!!

Yep, my friend woke up with a smouldering pillow after she left her phone charging under it!

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autisticbookworm · 18/04/2025 04:58

Violashifts · 16/04/2025 13:02

I live my life with stupid thoughts. It can be delibating when bad.

A car will drive into me from the other side of the carriageway.
A train won't stop and will crash.
The boiler will burst and scald us all to death.
A rat will come up the toilet.
Family members or I will be kidnapped going to the shops.
Chargers will catch fire and burn the house down.
loads more that I can't think of.

I haven't done the bath one but may now. 🤦‍♀️

I also have most of those. They are thankfully fairly fleeting so not too debilitating. But just to say a faulty charger did set on fire in our house, we lost 80% of our belongs and had to live in temporary accommodation for a year. Don’t leave things charging!!

Violashifts · 16/04/2025 13:02

I live my life with stupid thoughts. It can be delibating when bad.

A car will drive into me from the other side of the carriageway.
A train won't stop and will crash.
The boiler will burst and scald us all to death.
A rat will come up the toilet.
Family members or I will be kidnapped going to the shops.
Chargers will catch fire and burn the house down.
loads more that I can't think of.

I haven't done the bath one but may now. 🤦‍♀️

DrDisrespect · 16/04/2025 12:44

Jellyjellyonaplate · 15/04/2025 21:54

Oh also I have recurrent thoughts about where I'd hide a dead body if I killed someone. I am about as far from being a murderer as you can get but the thought pops unwanted into my head especially when driving alone
Urgh!

I have a slightly similar one... if I'm walking through woods or secluded area I wonder how many dead bodies have been hidden there

scalt · 16/04/2025 12:32

Can spiders really come up through the plug hole, if the trap (u-bend) underneath is full of water, as it usually is?

The book “a house inside out” by Penelope Lively describes wood lice living in the bath drain pipe, and an important rite of passage for young wood lice is to go out through the plug hole, and try to climb up the side of the bath, and to fail magnificently.

Fgdvevfvdvfbdv · 16/04/2025 10:58

ErrolTheDragon · 16/04/2025 10:50

You mean the overflow? In some older houses this may be a pipe going straight outside (newer ones usually loop down into the bath drain pipe) so if no one ever overfills the bath to that point you could have things living in it.

Yes, that’s the word I was looking for.

And now my worst fear is confirmed I think I will be sticking something over it next time I’m in the bath!

ErrolTheDragon · 16/04/2025 10:50

Fgdvevfvdvfbdv · 16/04/2025 08:41

I feel like this, but with the extra drain hole thing that the plug dangles from (is it part of the drain? 🤔) - I always imagine one folded up in there and suddenly climbing out.

You mean the overflow? In some older houses this may be a pipe going straight outside (newer ones usually loop down into the bath drain pipe) so if no one ever overfills the bath to that point you could have things living in it.

UndermyShoeJoe · 16/04/2025 10:44

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 16/04/2025 10:02

But then, won’t the water cause the electrics to fail and the central locking might activate or jam?
Maybe I just need to plan my routes so I don’t drive near or over any rivers?! 😫

You can get a little tool that’s for cutting seatbelts and smashing the window.

Handy for any accident really if for some reason the seatbelt it stuck or caught up from a. Crash.

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 16/04/2025 10:02

Twynklebell · 16/04/2025 08:11

Yes - basically, when the car fills up, the pressure will equalize and you can open the door. They did this on Mythbusters and as long as you stay calm and don't panic (easier said than done), you should have enough air left. Or get one of those pointy things to smash the window.

But then, won’t the water cause the electrics to fail and the central locking might activate or jam?
Maybe I just need to plan my routes so I don’t drive near or over any rivers?! 😫

Fgdvevfvdvfbdv · 16/04/2025 08:41

dontforgettofloss · 16/04/2025 08:26

I’m always scared to close my eyes in the bath or shower in case a spider dangles from the ceiling and lands on me, no idea why, maybe I’ve seen it in a film at some point

I feel like this, but with the extra drain hole thing that the plug dangles from (is it part of the drain? 🤔) - I always imagine one folded up in there and suddenly climbing out.

KoiTetra · 16/04/2025 08:33

ReenaGee · 15/04/2025 20:56

Surely everyone has a fleeting thought of the bath falling through the ceiling whilst they're in it?

Does anyone else have this thought?

And other recurring little thoughts people have that other people must also think?

Well thanks a lot! I have never thought this before but now I wont be able to go into the bathroom without thinking it!😂

dontforgettofloss · 16/04/2025 08:26

I’m always scared to close my eyes in the bath or shower in case a spider dangles from the ceiling and lands on me, no idea why, maybe I’ve seen it in a film at some point

Oioisavaloy27 · 16/04/2025 08:13

Yes to the bath one but I actually know someone that this happened to..... I always triple check before driving away from the petrol pump that I haven't left the nossle in the car.

Twynklebell · 16/04/2025 08:11

Hermyknee · 15/04/2025 22:53

About how I would get out of a submerged car now you can’t wind windows down. Do you just wait for it to sink and fill up so you aren’t pushing against the water?

Yes - basically, when the car fills up, the pressure will equalize and you can open the door. They did this on Mythbusters and as long as you stay calm and don't panic (easier said than done), you should have enough air left. Or get one of those pointy things to smash the window.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/04/2025 08:04

saltinesandcoffeecups · 16/04/2025 01:27

Ok so here is mine… you learn that you ‘see’ images upside down then your brain flips the images right side up… so are we all just upside down and we don’t know it because our brains have compensated?

Maybe we see things the way they are (upside down) and our brains just say “nah they can handle the truth and make so we think we are right side up… or upside down.” I will admit I get a little confused in this train of thought.

The ‘upside down’ think is just the way optics work. But the way our brains can compensate is remarkable - this ‘inverted glasses’ experiment for instance

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_M._Stratton#Wundt's_lab_and_the_inverted-glasses_experiments

FastFood · 16/04/2025 07:59

The bath falling is a recurring fear of mine. I even asked a plumber to check the integrity of the floor.

When I was a child, I was terrified by the guillotine, and because France was celebrating the 200th anniversary of the French Revolution, guillotine imagery was everywhere.
In my school there were old toilets with a chain to trigger the flush. It reminded me of the trigger for the guillotine and I was TERRIFIED to flush. i could almost hear the roaring of the angry crowd.

When I ride I bike, I see myself leaning forward and putting my finger in the spokes and see it being sliced like a baby carrot.

Sharptonguedwoman · 16/04/2025 07:58

Lou16777 · 15/04/2025 21:09

Mine is only minor compared but I'm a teacher and I always have this fear when I sit down on my spinning chair after walking round room/writing on the board, I'm going to miss it and fall straight on my bum

I actually did something similar. I was on Library duty and was scooting backwards and forwards along behind the library desk, checking what the children were doing around the library. Scooted too hard, fell off the stool and landed on the floor. I wasn't hurt, dignity in tatters though-except amazingly, no-one noticed as children were all concentrating on whatever they were doing on the computers or whatever. (The computers were arranged so staff could see the screens so children had their backs to the desk)

I got up, dusted myself off and tried very hard to look nonchalant. One of my many epic fails.

FlatErica · 16/04/2025 07:52

I have the one where I feel the urge to reach out and touch a train or tube train as it rushes past. I feel drawn to it.

Tomatocutwithazigzagedge · 16/04/2025 07:51

Yes I have the bath one frequently. 😅

Also I'm getting on with my daily life and then the thought "Ooh I haven't fallen over in a while" pops into my head.

Then I usually trip over the doormat or something.

Sidebeforeself · 16/04/2025 07:49

TheTempest · 15/04/2025 23:33

There’s a particular spot on my usual dog walk that I am convinced every day there is a dead body there. No idea why!

also lots of other ones that other people have said. I also think when I’m in bed how weird it is that all the other people in my street/town/county etc are probably doing the same thing. Lying in a big box on a smaller box to turn their brains off!

Oh that’s another one of mine. How come we all go into a different room, lie down on a piece of furniture and MAKE OURSELVES UNCONSCIOUS?!!

And one last one from me - dancing. Why do we think it’s perfectly acceptable ( but only in certain places) for people all to stand in one room and move their arms and legs around in a funny way?

scalt · 16/04/2025 07:46

When I'm on the underground, I try to imagine that I'm deep under London. However, it's not easy, because the stations and trains are so brightly lit, it doesn't feel like being deep underground.

I had the childhood fears of the dark (I needed the landing light on at night), and getting lost; I was terrified of both until I was about seven. However, as I got older, I found them both weirdly fascinating. I loved getting lost in mazes, and that moment in "pin the tail on the donkey" when I had just been spun round, and didn't know where I was. I loved it when we did a science experiment at primary school testing our directional hearing, in which we took turns to be blindfolded and spun round. We were told to point at where we thought the door was, to prove that we were disorientated, and then one person would clap, and we had to point at the sound. I then tried all sorts of experiments at home: I asked my brother to blindfold me in the garden, and to spin me round, and then to lead me to a chair in a random place, so I could sit in it and try to work out where I was, simply from what I could hear: I told him to leave the garden as quietly as he could, so I wouldn't hear him go. All I had to go on was distant traffic and birds flying around, and after ten minutes I guessed, and looked... and I was completely wrong about where I thought I was!

JustJoinedRightNow · 16/04/2025 01:32

When I'm unloading the dishwasher and holding a pile of heavy plates, I often think how the cupboard (above the bench) is strong enough to hold them all, and one day it's just going to break and the entire contents of the plates cupboard is going to come crashing down on the bench.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 16/04/2025 01:31

thaegumathteth · 16/04/2025 01:28

@saltinesandcoffeecupsinteresting, my current favourite hiding place is by having thousands of paper clips hidden / in plain sight so that they get distracted and slowed down. .

But how would you prove they didn’t find the right on?

solve for that and I think you’re on to something!

thaegumathteth · 16/04/2025 01:28

@saltinesandcoffeecupsinteresting, my current favourite hiding place is by having thousands of paper clips hidden / in plain sight so that they get distracted and slowed down. .

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