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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:55

heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 15:52

Men who have one fetish commonly have three or four others. When I was taught psychology we learned that the scientific terminology for this is that 'paraphilias cluster'.

So a man with a fetish for wearing nappies and cross dressing is more likely to have several other fetishes - such as exposing himself, or voyeurism, than the average man.

An obvious example is convicted child rapist David Challenor. His paraphilias included being a furry, wearing nappies, cross dressing and paedophilia. He raped and tortured a ten year old child while he was dressed as a little girl, and he forced his victim to refer to him by a female name which was part of his kink.

Challenor's son Aimee nearly became deputy leader of the Green Party, before it was revealed that he hired his father to be his election agent even though he knew about the rape charge.

Why does this not surprise me. I would also be intrigued as to the most common ‘common’ paraphilia, sadly I think I already know.

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Whatifitallgoesright · 15/04/2025 15:55

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

He absolutely should be in a mens prison. He knew what he was doing and was getting off on it. There is no way he should be in with vulnerable women, put him in with the sex offenders.

FeedTheRoses · 15/04/2025 15:52

This is what secure psychiatric wards were invented for .

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:52

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 15:49

I KNEW what 'gender' this person would be, just from reading the headline.

Same! It fucks me off no end they have to refer to him as ‘her’ in court.

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heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 15:52

Men who have one fetish commonly have three or four others. When I was taught psychology we learned that the scientific terminology for this is that 'paraphilias cluster'.

So a man with a fetish for wearing nappies and cross dressing is more likely to have several other fetishes - such as exposing himself, or voyeurism, than the average man.

An obvious example is convicted child rapist David Challenor. His paraphilias included being a furry, wearing nappies, cross dressing and paedophilia. He raped and tortured a ten year old child while he was dressed as a little girl, and he forced his victim to refer to him by a female name which was part of his kink.

Challenor's son Aimee nearly became deputy leader of the Green Party, before it was revealed that he hired his father to be his election agent even though he knew about the rape charge.

miraxxx · 15/04/2025 15:51

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/04/2025 15:35

If they identify as a baby, then they are a baby.

Absolutely. Works for everything else.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:51

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

I think a male prison is the perfect place for him. It sounds like a trip to the medical bay would excite him.

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alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

MinistryofThyme · 15/04/2025 15:21

Oh ‘identifies as a woman’. What a fucking surprise.

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 15:49

I KNEW what 'gender' this person would be, just from reading the headline.

BlackBean2023 · 15/04/2025 15:47

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:45

So what exactly is an "unusual" fantasy? And who defines what's unusual? I've never heard of this before

It’s not about it being unusual it’s about is causing distress and harm to others.

if you’re interested you can do some independent research because it feels like you’re being goady and looking make excuses for depraved men.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/04/2025 15:46

According to the Daily Mail link he also likes snuggling down in waste bins ( clinical waste) for comfort 🙄

Hwi · 15/04/2025 15:45

I wonder if it started with 'exploring' and 'pushing boundaries' with no subsequent six of the best?

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:45

myplace · 15/04/2025 15:41

@Dramatic

So what exactly is an "unusual" fantasy? And who defines what's unusual? I've never heard of this before

myplace · 15/04/2025 15:41

@Dramatic

‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries
BlackBean2023 · 15/04/2025 15:39

ruethewhirl · 15/04/2025 15:30

This kind of shit (no pun intended) makes me angry on behalf of the majority of trans people who just want to live quiet normal lives. No, I’m not trans myself, I just wish those who are and who want to live peacefully could do so without people like this fuelling prejudice.

This is not my experience.

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:38

myplace · 15/04/2025 15:38

@Dramatic they are both paraphillia.

What is paraphilia?

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:38

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:36

Well it’s fetish and his excitement would’ve come from being able to get his fetish so near to a place where real children are.

Yes I think you're right, if he kept this fetish behind closed doors then it wouldn't be akin to paedophilia, still weird AF but I suppose it isn't hurting anyone. But in his case he's actively going near children.

myplace · 15/04/2025 15:38

@Dramatic they are both paraphillia.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:36

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:35

What the hell have I just read?! Absolutely disgusting.

However, I don't think being an "adult baby" comes from the same place as paedophilia, they aren't attracted to children (as far as I'm aware) but this man has taken things in an even more weird and sick direction by hanging around nurseries and smearing them with shit. Wtf.

Well it’s fetish and his excitement would’ve come from being able to get his fetish so near to a place where real children are.

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thestudio · 15/04/2025 15:36

Infuriating that they consider it a regression rather than a fucking fetish.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:35

ruethewhirl · 15/04/2025 15:30

This kind of shit (no pun intended) makes me angry on behalf of the majority of trans people who just want to live quiet normal lives. No, I’m not trans myself, I just wish those who are and who want to live peacefully could do so without people like this fuelling prejudice.

Doesn’t it make you angry on behalf of the staff at the nursery?

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Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:35

What the hell have I just read?! Absolutely disgusting.

However, I don't think being an "adult baby" comes from the same place as paedophilia, they aren't attracted to children (as far as I'm aware) but this man has taken things in an even more weird and sick direction by hanging around nurseries and smearing them with shit. Wtf.

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/04/2025 15:35

If they identify as a baby, then they are a baby.

YouFetidMoppet · 15/04/2025 15:33

MinistryofThyme · 15/04/2025 15:30

No. Ignoring this shit (literally) is what has enabled and emboldened these perverts. Do not look away. Call it out for what it is.

Well it's up to you. It turns my stomach and I rather not give the DM my clicks. I don't think they are publishing stories like that out of the goodness of their heart. I do get what you mean though. We shouldn't normalise this.