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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 17:23

TimeForATerf · 15/04/2025 16:59

Saw this on X, sometimes (like every couple of weeks) I have to take a break from all this shit because I don’t think my blood pressure and heart can take it. I’m currently on another break until after the FWS and the Supreme Court ruling tomorrow. My nerves are in tatters.

How I long to go back to a simpler time, where sex was exciting just the way it was, and the only way of getting hold of pornography was the top shelf at the newsagents.

I don’t blame you at all, just reading the article I felt my blood pressure go up. I think it’s the feeling of powerlessness - that we as decent people/women are forced to live alongside these depraved sickos whether we like it or not, with the court probably issuing some kind of arbitrary punishment which deals with the individual (sort of) but ultimately nothing is ever done about the issue as a whole

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nauticant · 15/04/2025 17:22

It's like when the Daily Mail led the campaign for delayed justice for Stephen Lawrence. We should have all ignored that apparently.

myplace · 15/04/2025 17:20

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

In what way? Can you explain what you mean?

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:20

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

Don’t be so naive. It’s gone way beyond that.

hotpotlover · 15/04/2025 17:18

Sick.

He doesn't gain comfort from it.

He gains sexual gratification from it.

And he's not a woman.

This is a very male crime.

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

SwanOfThoseThings · 15/04/2025 17:12

This individual was in court in January 2024 for the same thing - I remember the thread, which is here - www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4989262-woman-in-court-for-dumping-soiled-adult-nappies-at-nurseries**

spannasaurus · 15/04/2025 17:10

Has this been recorded as a crime committed by a woman?

Leafstamp · 15/04/2025 17:06

VickyEadieofThigh · 15/04/2025 16:59

Absolutely right.

Bring back boundaries and taboos.

Speaking of taboos, I hope we soon reach the day when it is not taboo to openly state all the very obvious links between a so called trans identity and other issues, whether that is being a troubled ASD child or a being depraved and disgusting, likely porn addled middle aged bloke like this nasty individual.

BMW6 · 15/04/2025 17:05

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 16:07

I wonder if that’s where he got the nappies? Acting in some kind of caring role?

You can get adult nappies from Boots, supermarkets, chemists........

Seventree · 15/04/2025 17:03

He sounds incredibly unwell and too potentially dangerous to be out in the community. He has already caused members of the public harm by scaring them and leaving his bodily fluids for them to deal with 🤢. Surely he meets the criteria to be sectioned?

TimeForATerf · 15/04/2025 16:59

Saw this on X, sometimes (like every couple of weeks) I have to take a break from all this shit because I don’t think my blood pressure and heart can take it. I’m currently on another break until after the FWS and the Supreme Court ruling tomorrow. My nerves are in tatters.

How I long to go back to a simpler time, where sex was exciting just the way it was, and the only way of getting hold of pornography was the top shelf at the newsagents.

VickyEadieofThigh · 15/04/2025 16:59

nomoremsniceperson · 15/04/2025 16:08

This is the sort of story that makes you realise that things like shame and taboos and boundaries and limits are quite good actually

Absolutely right.

Bring back boundaries and taboos.

VexedofVirginiaWater · 15/04/2025 16:54

BBT213 · 15/04/2025 15:57

How can he identify as a woman when NO self-respecting woman would do this?

Evidently he doesn't identify as a self-respecting woman.😉

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 16:51

I am also concerned about the woman he is “helping”. Disabled woman can be so vulnerable...

Helleborer · 15/04/2025 16:51

I guessed it before even clicking on the thread.

Stunning and brave.

lifeonmars100 · 15/04/2025 16:45

FeedTheRoses · 15/04/2025 15:52

This is what secure psychiatric wards were invented for .

No they are not. I used to work on one and they are for people who are severely mentally unwell and in crisis. It could happen to any of us and who would want to have to share space with this pervert? He will have some sort of personality disorder as well as god only knows what fetishes. Highly anti-social and more than likely a risk to others but not someone who appears to be currently psychotic.

Iwannakeepondancing · 15/04/2025 16:34

WTF have I read. He needs shooting.

UrsulasHerbBag · 15/04/2025 16:28

What really shocks me is that I’m not shocked anymore.

viques · 15/04/2025 16:28

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 16:06

Someone will be along soon to accuse you of being a big anti-trans bigot and to get back to FWR for having such an abhorrent view, aka, stating the obvious.

🙂

MinnieCauldwell · 15/04/2025 16:24

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/04/2025 16:20

Forcing people to be part of your sick fetish against their will is disgusting. Nothing will convince me he isn't targeting nurseries because he gets off on involving children in his fetish.

And now we've got another one seeking out children in order to share this same fetish with them.

This world is getting more and more fucked up daily.

It's not the world getting fucked up though. It's men, they just seem to be behind every fucking thing that is wrong with this world currently.

viques · 15/04/2025 16:23

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

Yes I knew what you meant. But a lot of people get very confused about the difference between gender and sex. Not least because certain groups like to confuse the issue because it suits their agenda to make what is something actually very simple, and fixed, appear not to be.

Gender is a social construct, you can call yourself any gender or gender variant you want, but it doesn’t change your sex.

Sex is biological, fixed at conception, we are mammals so for us ( like the overwhelming majority of life forms on our planet) sex is binary, you are either male or female. Ask Professor Lord Robert Winston, he is very clear about this!

So I think it is important to be very clear what is meant when the words gender and sex are used descriptively, they are not interchangeable.

( The nonsense about “intersex” needs mentioning too, when people with indeterminate external genitalia (DSD) are examined on a cellular level they are found to have XX or XY chromosomes. If there is a Y in the mix then however much you might not want to be , you are biologically male. There are a whole heap of chromosomal differences, many of which are extremely rare, but by and large this is the way it works. )

Shitmonger · 15/04/2025 16:23

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:55

Why does this not surprise me. I would also be intrigued as to the most common ‘common’ paraphilia, sadly I think I already know.

As I recall, statistically speaking the most common paraphilia for men is hurting women. Sadly not surprising to anyone, I suspect.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/04/2025 16:20

Forcing people to be part of your sick fetish against their will is disgusting. Nothing will convince me he isn't targeting nurseries because he gets off on involving children in his fetish.

And now we've got another one seeking out children in order to share this same fetish with them.

This world is getting more and more fucked up daily.