Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

216 replies

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

OP posts:
Thread gallery
7
ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:56

The Poster made a comment about boundaries being eroded and I gave a couple of example. You‘re misrepresenting other people. Your generalising is harmful and disingenuous.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:56

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

None of this is about letting people 'exist' it is about affirming men when they say they're 'actually women'

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:43

Not entirely nonsense. Male sex offenders are being incarcerated in women's prisons because they 'identify as women'.

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

thedancingclown · 15/04/2025 17:53

Are we really helping these men, who claim to women, by going along with their delusions? Really needs help with this fetish behaviour.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:50

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

That’s is not what I am saying AT ALL and you know it.

AllrightNowBaby · 15/04/2025 17:49

Fucking weirdo wants locking up ….

Shetlands · 15/04/2025 17:46

If he identifies as a baby then he needs to be looked after 24/7 somewhere secure...

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 17:43

Iamnotalemming · 15/04/2025 17:42

If this man ends up in a female prison I will be furious.

I think there will be some way of him avoiding custody 😡 it’ll be interesting to follow.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:43

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

Not entirely nonsense. Male sex offenders are being incarcerated in women's prisons because they 'identify as women'.

Iamnotalemming · 15/04/2025 17:42

If this man ends up in a female prison I will be furious.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:41

I'm am so fucking through with a pervert like him being called a 'woman'. I knew long before I saw the picture this isn't a woman.

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:36

The person above going to speak to children ? The rapists and sex offenders in women’s prisons simply because they claim to be women? The list goes on.

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:39

Hoppinggreen · 15/04/2025 17:37

No, this type of thing never happens
Transfolk just want the freedom to be their authentic selves and not have to put up with LITERAL VIOLENCE (aka facts)
None of them are doing it for the pervy feels, oh no, absoulutely not

I'm sure are genuinely confused and mixed up individuals. But some are much more sinister.

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 17:38

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

The link I posted is from our local newspaper not the Daily Mail, I live in the area where this happened

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:37

I do not know how we have ended up pandering to perverts like this person. What happened to society?

Hoppinggreen · 15/04/2025 17:37

No, this type of thing never happens
Transfolk just want the freedom to be their authentic selves and not have to put up with LITERAL VIOLENCE (aka facts)
None of them are doing it for the pervy feels, oh no, absoulutely not

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 17:36

I don’t read the DM but saw this in my news feed on FB so clicked on it. It’s reported elsewhere. I think some of the lefter leaning papers are under pressure not to ‘draw too much attention’ to these cases.

I’m willing bet this is a far bigger problem than only the individuals reported on. They’re reported on as they’re actively engaging in the behaviour but I’m willing to bet there is a seedy underworld where many men enjoy videos etc of these behaviours because they’re not at the stage of dipping their own toes in.

OP posts:
ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:36

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:34

Can you give an example where that is true?

The person above going to speak to children ? The rapists and sex offenders in women’s prisons simply because they claim to be women? The list goes on.

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:34

scorpiogirly · 15/04/2025 15:22

This is what happens when society becomes accepting of everything. People push and push the boundaries until nothing becomes unacceptable.

Can you give an example where that is true?

moto748e · 15/04/2025 17:33

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

Are you saying that posters here are a bunch of naive saps who are prepared to believe any old pack of lies printed by the Daily Mail?

DuesToTheDirt · 15/04/2025 17:33

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

Yeah, bollocks to that! Vulnerable, indeed. Hmm

Overtheatlantic · 15/04/2025 17:25

What the hell happens to some people to make them like this?

myplace · 15/04/2025 17:25

I’m trying to imagine the sad history the judge is referring to. I imagine it involves severe neglect in childhood and perhaps abuse. Many severely neglected children gain comfort from the familiarity of the smell of urine.

However as an adult you have to take responsibility for your adult choices. Whatever you may find comforting, you do not get to involve other people in it. You do not get to commit crimes, to make yourself feel better.

Hwi · 15/04/2025 17:24

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

I often wonder, if all those who think that they are women, let us imagine for a second, were asked 'are you a woman' in the following scenario. Say, they are admitted to A&E in an instance of some new, lethal disease and there are two distinct ways to save them - a male portion of a new drug and a female portion of a new drug and the doctor says 'you have to tell me if you are a man or a woman and I shall administer the right portion, but if you tell me the wrong information, it will kill you, the wrong portion will kill you'. I wonder how many would say 'give me a woman's portion'.

Flopsy145 · 15/04/2025 17:23

Such a waste of air and resources, literally brings no benefit to this earth. Depraved perve