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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 19:16

From the Telegraph:
"More than 70 per cent of transgender prisoners in British jails are serving sentences for sex offences and violent crimes, government figures have revealed.
At least 181 of the 244 transgender inmates, more than 74 per cent, are in jail for crimes including rape, forcing under-age children into having sex, grievous bodily harm and robbery."

heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 19:15

It's not 2018 any more. There was a time when we naively thought that it was kind to pretend that men who identify as women are women. But now we have years of evidence to demonstrate that men who identify as women, as a class, show male patterns of behaviour.

Over 70% of transwomen who are currently incarcerated in the UK have convictions for sex crimes or extremely violent crime. In contrast only 3% of women have convictions for sex crimes.

It's a sad fact that men, however they identify, are more violent as a class than women. Obviously not all men and not all transwomen are violent, but what more proof do we need that men, however they identify, do not belong in spaces reserved for women.

Floogal · 15/04/2025 19:14

I like to think I'm tolerant and liberal. But, there really are some horrid and inconceivable kinks.

cramptramp · 15/04/2025 19:07

He’s a disgusting pervert.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 19:06

dogsandcatsandhorses · 15/04/2025 19:01

I thought the same. I hope SS have looked into it. One news report said he is in a relationship with a woman he is “helping”…….,,

Well, exactly.

dogsandcatsandhorses · 15/04/2025 19:01

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 16:51

I am also concerned about the woman he is “helping”. Disabled woman can be so vulnerable...

I thought the same. I hope SS have looked into it. One news report said he is in a relationship with a woman he is “helping”…….,,

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 18:51

@DaphneduMaureen you haven’t disappointed either with yr faux naïveté and goady posts. Not in good faith, methinks.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 18:48

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:37

Is this at me? Please, as I previously asked, link this horrific behaviour to a real world example of “boundaries being eroded”. Please show me what you mean. Demonstrate how “this is what happens”, I’m dying to see you prove causation

Referring to this piece of shit as a woman. Having him recorded on police systems as a woman skewing stats and figures. A male potentially being placed in a women’s prison (that you find so tedious and boring so the bins are that way for you) because they’re allowed to self identify as something they’re not. That erodes my boundaries, being put in the same category as this male. This male saying he’s in the same sex class as me. The people who champion this nonsense can also fuck right off.

Someone could literally post ‘saw a trans person today’ and you’d be all ‘oh my God you don’t want trans people to exist!!’.

From what’s been posted on this thread, ‘this’ is what’s bothered you?

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 18:44

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:35

RTFT. That’s what the thread is about. It’s the same tedious, boring commentary about women’s prisons, changing rooms and “female spaces”. The OP intended it that way and none of you disappointed.

What's tedious about that?

Helleofabore · 15/04/2025 18:42

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:37

Is this at me? Please, as I previously asked, link this horrific behaviour to a real world example of “boundaries being eroded”. Please show me what you mean. Demonstrate how “this is what happens”, I’m dying to see you prove causation

How can it be said that boundaries are NOT being eroded when this person is referred to as if they are a female?

That is the very definition of eroding the boundaries of reality.

cocoloco23 · 15/04/2025 18:38

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/04/2025 15:46

According to the Daily Mail link he also likes snuggling down in waste bins ( clinical waste) for comfort 🙄

Jesus wept.

spannasaurus · 15/04/2025 18:38

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:35

RTFT. That’s what the thread is about. It’s the same tedious, boring commentary about women’s prisons, changing rooms and “female spaces”. The OP intended it that way and none of you disappointed.

Do you find the commentary from female prisoners about being sexually assaulted by men who are placed in womens prisons tedious and boring as well.

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:37

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:56

The Poster made a comment about boundaries being eroded and I gave a couple of example. You‘re misrepresenting other people. Your generalising is harmful and disingenuous.

Is this at me? Please, as I previously asked, link this horrific behaviour to a real world example of “boundaries being eroded”. Please show me what you mean. Demonstrate how “this is what happens”, I’m dying to see you prove causation

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:35

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:41

I'm am so fucking through with a pervert like him being called a 'woman'. I knew long before I saw the picture this isn't a woman.

Zzzzz

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:35

TheWorminLabyrinth · 15/04/2025 18:02

Nobody has said that. It's very easy to read back one page.

RTFT. That’s what the thread is about. It’s the same tedious, boring commentary about women’s prisons, changing rooms and “female spaces”. The OP intended it that way and none of you disappointed.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2025 18:32

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

Oh OP!

I posted this on the pronouns thread last night with a question to those who had told us that we were not decent people or kind if we told 'another person that [we] understood their reality better than they understand it themselves'.

I mean it was the last page of the thread, but no answer came from the poster involved.

I think it is quite remarkable that every time we mention that if we are to accept one of someone else's philosophical belief about who they are, that we have to accept ALL their beliefs about who they are. And if we have to accept one person's belief that they are female when they are objectively, materially, male, then we have to accept all those male people who state they have the same belief.

There is no arbitrating it on a case by case scenario.

SporadicMincePieMuncher · 15/04/2025 18:29

From the Chronicle live link:

"Mr Lane said Taylor is in a relationship with a woman who she helps to live independently."

This bothers me because it makes it sound like this person is a carer, and I strongly doubt their suitability for this role.

"Mr Lane said Taylor was born male but identified as female [...] "The first recorded reference to this within the medical records goes back to 1993." He said identifying as a woman would increase Taylor's vulnerability if she was jailed."

They're angling that Taylor (Tarling) will be too vulnerable to go to prison, and/or needed by somebody who is dependent on them.

To summarise, this person:

  • Dumped soiled adult nappies at Tyneside nurseries (plural), presumably at least three times, since they "pleaded guilty to three counts of depositing controlled waste at the nurseries." Not just one or two, but 50 or 100 at a time.
  • Admitted stealing clinical waste bags from one of the businesses
  • Admitted breaching a criminal behaviour order previously imposed by a Magistrates' Court which banned them from going near nurseries
  • Admitted climbing into bins to "sleep and find comfort"
  • They also smeared excrement on milk bottles and on a fire escape of one of the nurseries

"Myself and staff were coming in finding hundreds of nappies scattered in different coloured bags. It was really unsettling, we never knew what we were going to find."

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 18:28

spannasaurus · 15/04/2025 17:10

Has this been recorded as a crime committed by a woman?

I hadn't thought of that but I bet it has!

AgnesX · 15/04/2025 18:24

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/04/2025 15:35

If they identify as a baby, then they are a baby.

Eh?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/04/2025 18:20

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

This man's lawyer calls him a woman. I'd put money on it that his crime has been recorded as being committed by a woman (as the police are so in thrall to transgenderism they've lost all sense). And the sainted NHS will place him on a women's ward.

This is where we are since too many in society lost the ability to say no to men with a fetish and started celebrating them rather than ignoring them.

ScruffMuffin · 15/04/2025 18:19

That's absolutely disgusting and dangerous for the kids and adults alike, as well as being one of the most disturbing things I've ever read on here. He needs to be locked up for a long time - preferably in a psychiatric hospital.

And I'm not anti-trans. I have encountered a handful of trans individuals through my work and through my teenagers' social circles, and really feel for those than feel confused about their gender. I really don't think this is one of these cases though. He quite obviously presents as a man! Bet he hoped if he was sentenced as a female he would get a lighter sentence or a women's prison.

maudlinbrassmonkey · 15/04/2025 18:17

Total pervert. Time for vigilante justice.

TheIceBear · 15/04/2025 18:14

Whatifitallgoesright · 15/04/2025 15:55

He absolutely should be in a mens prison. He knew what he was doing and was getting off on it. There is no way he should be in with vulnerable women, put him in with the sex offenders.

Definitely shouldn’t be in a women’s prison. Imagine subjecting women in prison to this. Sends a shiver down my spine thinking about it.

TheWorminLabyrinth · 15/04/2025 18:02

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

Nobody has said that. It's very easy to read back one page.

Musclewoman · 15/04/2025 18:02

Dear God....just take me back to the 90s 😭