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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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TheKeatingFive · 10/08/2025 08:51

OtterInABlueTie · 17/04/2025 01:20

I'm no expert but wouldn't someone try to pass as a woman, hormones, surgery as opposed to looking like a dude with dyed hair and ambiguous appearance. There was a thread a few days ago about someone whose adult child had a partner who was claiming she was a transman, even though she appeared very girly and all she had done was change her pronouns ? I was like "nah" that's not someone with gender dysphoria. She didn't seem distressed by being female. No hormones, surgery etc

Hormones/surgery don't make anyone 'pass' though

alloutofcareunits · 09/08/2025 12:04

Following on from this, “they” have been given suspended sentence and community service. Solves the problem of which prison to put them in…

OtterInABlueTie · 17/04/2025 01:20

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:50

So what do you think makes someone genuinely trans?

I'm no expert but wouldn't someone try to pass as a woman, hormones, surgery as opposed to looking like a dude with dyed hair and ambiguous appearance. There was a thread a few days ago about someone whose adult child had a partner who was claiming she was a transman, even though she appeared very girly and all she had done was change her pronouns ? I was like "nah" that's not someone with gender dysphoria. She didn't seem distressed by being female. No hormones, surgery etc

Whatifitallgoesright · 17/04/2025 01:09

ScruffMuffin · 15/04/2025 18:19

That's absolutely disgusting and dangerous for the kids and adults alike, as well as being one of the most disturbing things I've ever read on here. He needs to be locked up for a long time - preferably in a psychiatric hospital.

And I'm not anti-trans. I have encountered a handful of trans individuals through my work and through my teenagers' social circles, and really feel for those than feel confused about their gender. I really don't think this is one of these cases though. He quite obviously presents as a man! Bet he hoped if he was sentenced as a female he would get a lighter sentence or a women's prison.

This is why we need to stop being bothered by being called 'transphobic'.

DuesToTheDirt · 16/04/2025 20:11

I'd also like to know if the ruling will mean that newspapers stop referring to pervy men as "woman" and "she".

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 19:36

Btw - how does the ruling affect this man’s demand to go to a women’s prison? I take it he can no longer make this demand, as he is a man and women’s prisons are for women?

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Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 19:35

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:19

And we WON! FWS won! Woohoo! A woman is a biological female, per RULING. So go fuck yourselves Sturgeon and the Scottish government, you LOSERS! 😂😅🍾

I never thought I would be opening a bottle of bubbly as the Supreme Court have declared men can’t be women, but here we are

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Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 19:34

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:16

This man is ever so clearly very, VERY deeply severely mentally unwell. I mean, he snuggles up clinical waste bins, ffs. He is far more than just a pervert. He is what asylums are MADE FOR. He would never be released, as he far too deeply unwell he could never function properly in society. He would be a 'lifer' in an insane asylum.

Yes I said to DH earlier that it’s a real shame the asylums closed. He’s a classic case of somebody who needs an indefinite hospital order.

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JustSawJohnny · 16/04/2025 12:06

Poppymeldrum · 16/04/2025 06:59

I read it the other week and gagged
It turned my stomach
I'm sorry if I offended you-i swear I didn't make it up!

Not at all! It is so gross tho 😂

TimeForATerf · 16/04/2025 10:27

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:19

And we WON! FWS won! Woohoo! A woman is a biological female, per RULING. So go fuck yourselves Sturgeon and the Scottish government, you LOSERS! 😂😅🍾

Despite taking a break from X I’m sat in the hairdressers and just got an alert from Julie Bindel saying “we won” - of course I am no longer having a break and will
not be off the news today.

thank you for the alert x well done for
common sense at last! 👏

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:20

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

Are you saying the Daily Mail made this up??? You know you can google the name of the man and cross-check and verify it; right? @consistentlyinconsistent

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:19

TimeForATerf · 15/04/2025 16:59

Saw this on X, sometimes (like every couple of weeks) I have to take a break from all this shit because I don’t think my blood pressure and heart can take it. I’m currently on another break until after the FWS and the Supreme Court ruling tomorrow. My nerves are in tatters.

How I long to go back to a simpler time, where sex was exciting just the way it was, and the only way of getting hold of pornography was the top shelf at the newsagents.

And we WON! FWS won! Woohoo! A woman is a biological female, per RULING. So go fuck yourselves Sturgeon and the Scottish government, you LOSERS! 😂😅🍾

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 10:16

lifeonmars100 · 15/04/2025 16:45

No they are not. I used to work on one and they are for people who are severely mentally unwell and in crisis. It could happen to any of us and who would want to have to share space with this pervert? He will have some sort of personality disorder as well as god only knows what fetishes. Highly anti-social and more than likely a risk to others but not someone who appears to be currently psychotic.

This man is ever so clearly very, VERY deeply severely mentally unwell. I mean, he snuggles up clinical waste bins, ffs. He is far more than just a pervert. He is what asylums are MADE FOR. He would never be released, as he far too deeply unwell he could never function properly in society. He would be a 'lifer' in an insane asylum.

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 09:51

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:54

https://www.chroniclelive.co.uk/news/north-east-news/soiled-nappies-dumped-south-tyneside-31420646
It appears they have some kind of ‘caring’ role for a woman 🫤

It appears they have some kind of ‘caring’ role for a woman

Jesus fucking chryst!!! 😮

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 09:50

FeedTheRoses · 15/04/2025 15:52

This is what secure psychiatric wards were invented for .

Asylums really, really need to be brought back. Phasing them out has caused these toxic mental illnesses to be 'normalised' and snowball into social contagions. This man, putting aside all the trans stuff; shits in nappies, leaves them at nurseries, and sleeps in clinical waste bins. To say he is seriously fucked up in the head, is an understatement. He is very seriously unwell. He needs a psychiatric ward and deep, intensive therapy and medication. People like this need to be taken out of general society. For their - and our, benefit.

DoddlesMcDoddle · 16/04/2025 09:45

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/04/2025 15:46

According to the Daily Mail link he also likes snuggling down in waste bins ( clinical waste) for comfort 🙄

Putting aside the paraphilia and fetish and trans thing, this man is clearly very, very deeply ill and needs serious intensive help. I do feel for him.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 16/04/2025 09:40

It angers me that efforts to root out genuine bullying - be kind ie don’t be an outright racist/homophobe etc - have been twisted into a shield for this kind of disgusting nonsense.

Helleofabore · 16/04/2025 09:12

Talking about ‘eroding boundaries’, people with paraphilias, usually male I believe, used to not be emboldened to exhibit their paraphilia outside their private spaces. As part of the campaign to drive acceptance for one paraphilia in particular by grouping it with other people who declare transgender identities, and being told not to kink shame when people dress as dogs for ‘pup play’ and walk/crawl in public in their gear, and so on, society’s boundaries in general and on an individual level has been lowered.

After all, if this person had just been walking around as an adult baby, children and adults would have just had to accept that.

TheKeatingFive · 16/04/2025 08:41

Blankscreen · 16/04/2025 08:28

Wtf. I initially thought they were his dirty nappies but I think he likes messing around with the waste nappies at the Nursery.

Not sure where 'fucking weirdo' fits into the sentencing guidelines but no doubt he'll get a slap on the wrist and will go in and do more weird stuff and someone will end up hurt.

Then there'll be case review and 'lessons learnt.'

This is where society used to use shame to keep individuals like this in check.

We now seem to have decided shame is an awful thing, but in situations like this one I really understand the value of it.

Blankscreen · 16/04/2025 08:28

Wtf. I initially thought they were his dirty nappies but I think he likes messing around with the waste nappies at the Nursery.

Not sure where 'fucking weirdo' fits into the sentencing guidelines but no doubt he'll get a slap on the wrist and will go in and do more weird stuff and someone will end up hurt.

Then there'll be case review and 'lessons learnt.'

Helleofabore · 16/04/2025 08:17

ruethewhirl · 15/04/2025 23:40

Well, that's obviously the primary concern ffs. 🙄 Some things go without saying, unless you're one of those people who need everything spelt out to them.

I suggest you stop digging now because you won't find anything. I didn't come on to this thread to promote a pro-trans agenda, which is what you seem to be assuming, I merely made a comment in passing, so maybe find someone else's words to twist?

I understood your original comment. Unfortunately, the group of people who say they are transgender does include these people as well. Of course, it does seem though that with most paraphilic driven crime and sex crime, that the connecting factor is that they are male.

Sadly, for those male people who have transgender identities who want to live their life as they are while respecting female people’s needs and just getting on with life, it is people like this person, and the intimidating and violet activists or the males in female sport, that keep making headlines.

missdeamenor · 16/04/2025 07:30

scorpiogirly · 15/04/2025 15:22

This is what happens when society becomes accepting of everything. People push and push the boundaries until nothing becomes unacceptable.

Well said. I'm sick to death of pandering to these perverts. GB is now a lawless society with no rules or discipline.

Poppymeldrum · 16/04/2025 06:59

JustSawJohnny · 15/04/2025 22:04

...'don't yuck others yum'

@Poppymeldrum Never heard that saying before and seriously hoping to never hear it again!😖

I read it the other week and gagged
It turned my stomach
I'm sorry if I offended you-i swear I didn't make it up!