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To report this as benefit fraud

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ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 15:08

A relative is claiming benefits, can’t work due to health but is one of those who is always complaining about something wrong with her but is always able to do the things she wants to do. Can holiday abroad, always down the gym, etc. When she was working she was always making complaints against employers- one of life’s victims.

She sold a property a couple of years ago and has squirrelled about £40k away through investments. I think has got her mother to do this for her.

I’m so fed up of seeing people like her take the piss. I 100% support a welfare system and it really pisses me off to see it abused like this. And meanwhile we are working our arses off and not able to afford the foreign travel and gym memberships.

I’m so tempted to report her secret savings to DWP.

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Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 20:06

Bestfadeplans · 15/04/2025 20:03

Getting a bit tired of this "no harm" narrative from you. You do realise people have actually killed themselves over false fraudulent benefit claims, and people have starved to death when their benefits have been cut off.

Suspect fraud ( of any kind) should always be reported, stop trying to guilt trip people into not reporting

HouseCaptain · 15/04/2025 20:05

Just distance yourself. It’s always better to not get involved.

Bestfadeplans · 15/04/2025 20:03

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:09

As I said, the OP had her suspicions which are probably not founded on nothing as she knows her well, so there is no harm in reporting so an investigating into whether she is actually entitled can be carried out, if it is found that she is entitled then all is well

Getting a bit tired of this "no harm" narrative from you. You do realise people have actually killed themselves over false fraudulent benefit claims, and people have starved to death when their benefits have been cut off.

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 20:03

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:59

I’m in no way struggling with reading comprehension, read the posts, an awful lot are in fact vehemently against it

Not true. What is an awful lot in terms of numbers?
Not only do you seem to struggle with reading comprehension, but also with facts. You may recall in a previous post (19.17 to be precise ) that you accused me of being anti reporting, yet as I have stated on numerous occasions on this thread if the original poster is so sure of her evidence then she should be on the phone to DWP rather than posting on mumsnet.

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:59

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 19:51

You seem to be struggling with reading comprehension, most people on this thread are not against reporting.

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I’m in no way struggling with reading comprehension, read the posts, an awful lot are in fact vehemently against it

Tryonemoretime · 15/04/2025 19:58

From Full Fact
'The latest figures show that in 2023/24 2.8% (or £7.4 billion) of benefits expenditure was overpaid due to fraud.'
7.4 billion may be enough to build a new hospital for your cancer treatment, and it could be enough to build new schools and pay for extra teachers for your children. Still think benefit fraud is a victimless crime? It's not - and we're all victims of these fraudsters, aren't we?

Fraud and error in the benefit system, Financial Year Ending (FYE) 2024

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/fraud-and-error-in-the-benefit-system-financial-year-2023-to-2024-estimates/fraud-and-error-in-the-benefit-system-financial-year-ending-fye-2024#:~:text=Overpayments%20due%20to%20Fraud%20were%202.8%25%20(%C2%A37.4bn)%20in%20FYE%202024%2C%20compared%20with%202.7%25%20(%C2%A36.3bn)%20in%20FYE%202023.

Panterusblackish · 15/04/2025 19:58

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 16:45

It’s ok to feel angry at fraud of the benefit system. That system is there to protect the vulnerable at their time of need. People with £40k savings taking money they aren’t entitled to are stealing that money from the taxpayer and from those genuinely in need.

You're right, it's fine to feel angry at benefit fraud and there is a lot of it about.

But Mumsnet has a very weird take on it. Apparently it doesn't affect anyone and everyone should just turn a blind eye to it.

Of course if the treasury hadn't paid out 7.4 billion last year in fraudulent claims, it could be spent elsewhere. The NHS perhaps, social services, CAHMs. If benefits cheats didn't exist we could all pay less tax.

It is theft. It's morally no different that scamming pensioners or shop lifting. Everyone should be doing their bit to make society a better place, reporting crime helps make society a better place. Stealing money is a crime.

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 19:57

Vworried1 · 15/04/2025 19:55

Bit rude . The poster is correct in what they say.

Really? How many posters on this thread have said not to report?
many have raised issues regarding type of benefit, evidence of the £40k, jealousy, whether the relative is fit to work or not..

ImNotARegularMomIACoolMom · 15/04/2025 19:57

You sound jealous

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 19:56

Vworried1 · 15/04/2025 19:55

Bit rude . The poster is correct in what they say.

No, they’re not. They’re in fact what is termed as “wrong.” Empirically so.

Vworried1 · 15/04/2025 19:55

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 19:51

You seem to be struggling with reading comprehension, most people on this thread are not against reporting.

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Bit rude . The poster is correct in what they say.

BobbyBiscuits · 15/04/2025 19:52

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/04/2025 19:49

Hundreds of thousands?

Sorry, I meant a large amount of money. I know it's not that much. But If it's over £16k then it's fraud.

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 19:52

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:49

The figures are low because it isn’t being reported and they are not being reported as it seems most people are against reporting which is extremely evident from this post

If all suspect benefit fraud was reported the figures would be much higher

Nope, that’s not how it works and that’s why I included the link I did. Have a good read through the methodology.

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 19:51

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:49

The figures are low because it isn’t being reported and they are not being reported as it seems most people are against reporting which is extremely evident from this post

If all suspect benefit fraud was reported the figures would be much higher

You seem to be struggling with reading comprehension, most people on this thread are not against reporting.

WimbyAce · 15/04/2025 19:49

I never understand why people get uppity about reporting it, what other things would you turn a blind eye to? If you are certain of your facts then yes definitely report it. I think it's prob more rife than a lot of people assume. I had a loosely related family member and they got caught out and quite right too.

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:49

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 19:46

Ok clearly you’re struggling here. The government does its own highly targeted estimates on both under and over/fraudulent claiming. The figures are low because the figures are low.

The figures are low because it isn’t being reported and they are not being reported as it seems most people are against reporting which is extremely evident from this post

If all suspect benefit fraud was reported the figures would be much higher

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/04/2025 19:49

BobbyBiscuits · 15/04/2025 19:48

If she's genuinely got hundreds of thousands in savings then it's bang out of order. I usually tell people to mind their own in a lot of posts about reporting "suspected" benefit fraud.

But this seems like a flagrant breach of the rules.

There are some benefits like pip which aren't means tested, so she can have as much money as she likes. But with UC I guess you should report.

Hundreds of thousands?

Montea · 15/04/2025 19:48

Bestfadeplans · 15/04/2025 19:45

I've worked in fraudulent benefit claims and a one off report will not warrant an investigation, even 2 or 3 just puts the claimant into the verification category, where with permission we can check their bank account and question them if there are significant savings. The fact she's already given it to her mum, means there's pretty much nothing that can be done, unless she confirms she's given the money away, and the purpose was to claim benefits.

Can I ask you if they really review everyone on universal credit or only the ones who have been reported.
i was recently interviewed to check I was getting the right amount of universal credit and I want to know if someone has reported.

Iamthequeenoftheworld · 15/04/2025 19:48

i went on holidays and gym with very limited income (no benefits)

how?

I never spend any money on anything, ever. Literally. only essentials. People made fun of me of wearing the same clothes for 15 years. It’s ridiculous how cheap I was. Literally never went out in 15 years. Most people would never want to live the way I did.

saved every penny. Had many money saving hacks too

Grandparent helped with gym (went for health reasons) and holiday was the only thing I spent money on. I was also good finding good inexpensive holiday deals.

my parents also helped out and gave me money to go on holiday.

what I’m trying to say is, you don’t know a persons whole financial situation and how they manage to afford things.

many would be jealous of me going on holiday and gym, but they wouldn’t want to save like I did.

BobbyBiscuits · 15/04/2025 19:48

If she's genuinely got hundreds of thousands in savings then it's bang out of order. I usually tell people to mind their own in a lot of posts about reporting "suspected" benefit fraud.

But this seems like a flagrant breach of the rules.

There are some benefits like pip which aren't means tested, so she can have as much money as she likes. But with UC I guess you should report.

Sodthesystem · 15/04/2025 19:47

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:35

So ignore suspect fraud?

That is none of my business? Absolutely!

For all op knows the person has something else going on body wise so can't work anyway.

Morningsleepin · 15/04/2025 19:46

MistyGreenAndBlue · 15/04/2025 19:31

I'm one of those in need, I'm disabled and get PIP (ha! For now anyway) And for years I was a tax payer as is my daughter and husband now.
None of care about so called "benefit fraud" If they somehow manage to magically eliminate all of it, we won't be a penny better off. We don't kid ourselves that any government will put that money saved in OUR purses.

I don't believe that YOU give a damn about us either. I can see right through you.

Yeap. She'd be twitching her curtains at every little treat you give yourself

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 19:46

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 19:44

So you think suspect fraud shouldn’t be reported then…..it’s no wonder the figures are so low when so many people on hear think suspect fraud shouldn’t be reported……that’s exactly why the figures are so low in the first place!!!!!

Ok clearly you’re struggling here. The government does its own highly targeted estimates on both under and over/fraudulent claiming. The figures are low because the figures are low.

lindyloo57 · 15/04/2025 19:45

@ilovesooty as I said he could be making it up, I've lived next to him for over 40 years, he never spends any money doesn't even have a stair carpet, he chose to live like this.

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