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To think there’s dignity in work, no matter the job?

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TheWildMintBear · 14/04/2025 21:21

It seems like some people look down on certain types of work but isn’t there value and dignity in any job if you’re earning an honest living?

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PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 23:03

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 23:00

Universal basic income is the way forward for lazy people who are happy to do nothing whilst sponging off people who do something.

Oh, boy, there's so much wrong with that. Quite apart from anything else, we spend an absolute fortune and employ thousands of people to administer a ridiculously complex and unfair benefits system. It would actually be cheaper just to give everyone a fixed amount of money every year. There you go, there's a job that doesn't need to exist - benefit assessor.

And yeah, I'm quite lazy, but it doesn't affect you. I've never claimed any benefits, besides Child Benefit when my kids were younger.

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 23:00

Universal basic income is the way forward for lazy people who are happy to do nothing whilst sponging off people who do something.

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:55

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 22:51

In a capitalist world, why on earth would a business employ someone if they are not contributing something?

Whether people like their jobs or not is irrelevant. They are still doing something considerably more useful than doing nothing at all.

Capitalism is massively flawed. Loads of jobs exist that are humiliating, miserable and dangerous, and shouldn't exist.

I'm all for doing nothing, and would give up work instantly if I could. I deliberately keep my life as simple and cheap as possible, so I don't have to work particularly hard.

Universal Basic Income is the way forward.

"Dignity in work" is just ridiculous, it's what right-wing Tories spout when they want the plebs to enrich them further.

Whether people like their jobs or not is extremely relevant. There's nothing "dignified" about waking up every day filled with dread and misery at the prospect of going to work.

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 22:51

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:44

Vast tiers of management in most industries. Loads of office-based jobs are pure torture and contribute absolutely nothing to society, simply propping up the absolute worst forms of consumer capitalism.

Loads of businesses are completely immoral in terms of what they produce and promote, and no job with any of them has any "dignity". The overwhelming majority of people hate their jobs and do them because they have to, not because they want to.

In a capitalist world, why on earth would a business employ someone if they are not contributing something?

Whether people like their jobs or not is irrelevant. They are still doing something considerably more useful than doing nothing at all.

scalt · 14/04/2025 22:50

I struggle to respect politicians, especially since the expenses scandal, and then Boris Johnson and his yes-men brought politics in general into total disrepute; they seem to have a lot of privileges, and massive pay rises, face no consequences for wrongdoing, and when they do commit serious offences (which less privileged people might go to prison for), they seem to get richer and richer off the back of them. They are supposed to represent people far less well off than them, yet many politicians have little or no experience of how such people live, with their privileged backgrounds.

If working in a minimum wage, customer-facing job at some point in their lives was a pre-requisite to enter Parliament, I would respect them more.

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:45

OakElmAsh · 14/04/2025 22:41

There's a saying in French 'Il y a pas de sot métier'... there's no such thing as a silly job. Basically means all work has value, I like that sentiment

I don't, it's nonsense.

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:44

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 22:35

Name one...

Vast tiers of management in most industries. Loads of office-based jobs are pure torture and contribute absolutely nothing to society, simply propping up the absolute worst forms of consumer capitalism.

Loads of businesses are completely immoral in terms of what they produce and promote, and no job with any of them has any "dignity". The overwhelming majority of people hate their jobs and do them because they have to, not because they want to.

OakElmAsh · 14/04/2025 22:41

There's a saying in French 'Il y a pas de sot métier'... there's no such thing as a silly job. Basically means all work has value, I like that sentiment

NoviceVillager · 14/04/2025 22:40

It was pretty disappointing that Covid didn’t change things permanently especially around the importance of care work and food supply work. But it’s a classist hell scape here tbh.

Smartiepants79 · 14/04/2025 22:39

A damn sight more dignity in it than being an ‘influencer’ or you tuber.

Thirteenblackcat · 14/04/2025 22:38

All of the jobs that couldn’t be furloughed during covid as they were essential workers.

low to mid range salaries for most

Foolsgold74 · 14/04/2025 22:36

OneTC · 14/04/2025 21:26

Yeah and IME the UK is particularly bad for looking down on certain roles.

I think companies and corporations have played their part in actually devaluing many jobs as well

Whereas countries in the Midfle East, China, the Far East etc reeaallly value manual, unskilled labour...All that H&S, fair wages and fair working conditions.

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 22:35

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:32

You're so clueless. Loads of jobs are a complete waste of time.

Name one...

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:32

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 21:25

Absolutely. Every single job in the world is doing something that someone either wants or needs otherwise the job wouldn't exist.

You're so clueless. Loads of jobs are a complete waste of time.

Dappy777 · 14/04/2025 22:30

The people I really respect are the ones who contributes something to society. Nurses, binmen, teachers, engineers, supermarket shelf stackers, etc, all do vital, useful work (assuming they do their job well, of course). A skilled craftsman who builds, say, air-conditioning units, or water purifiers, Iphones, and then exports them, is contributing to the economy. I especially admire those who take pride in their work and produce something beautiful. Someone who makes really elegant suits for Saville Row, for example, or beautiful handmade shoes. Academics are often impressive people. They have a passion for their subject and a vast knowledge. I often listen to Melvyn Bragg’s In Our Time on Radio 4, and it’s amazing to hear these academics talking on everything from solar eclipses to Greek philosophy. In particular, I admire those who conduct scientific research. The people who work in the labs and study cancer or nuclear fusion or carbon emissions or whatever it may be are pushing the boundaries of knowledge and advancing our civilisation. So yeah, people who do useful work, who build and produce beautiful things, or who extend the limits of human knowledge - those are the people I most respect.

I have far less respect for estate agents and solicitors. I suppose they are necessary, but they are overpaid in comparison to a farm labourer or a lorry driver. And I often wonder just how necessary they really are. I also have a very low opinion of many self-made businessmen. I know a guy who made his money selling bathroom fittings. He made a profit because the stuff he sold was cheap and nasty and fell apart after six months or so (by which time he’d folded up the business). I know another man who made money selling hearing aids. Again, cheap, nasty rubbish. Both made a small fortune. Both have very high opinions of themselves, and consider themselves ‘winners’. To me they are grubby little cheats who’ve contributed nothing to society.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 14/04/2025 22:27

Only if you have a dignified manager.

If you have a bullly who treats you like shit, then there’s no dignity.

Bigfish51 · 14/04/2025 22:23

Look at Birmingham. We all rely on each other it’s not just about how much money you have.

crackofdoom · 14/04/2025 21:58

I don't look down on anyone who does any kind of work, but some jobs will take every scrap of your energy and self esteem and leave you an exhausted husk. There's no "dignity" in doing anything that's repetitive and soul destroying where you have no agency and you are mistreated- that's the language of Tory MPs who just want the peasants to know their place.

(Spoken as someone who has done a lot of minimum wage jobs).

Flytrap01 · 14/04/2025 21:52

society does not need footballers

Octopus45 · 14/04/2025 21:51

On the whole I would agree, as long as a job isn't immoral in the sense that it harms somebody. Lets face it Binmen and Cleaners are needed just as much as Doctors and Solicitors.

Flytrap01 · 14/04/2025 21:48

people seem to hate bankers and the investment side of banking etc and those investments help keep the economy turning

anniegun · 14/04/2025 21:38

I can think of a few jobs I struggle to support. Sex work, pornographer, immigrant deportation, debt enforcer for parking companies, tobacco marketing, gambling marketing.

ReplacementBusService · 14/04/2025 21:35

The key is "earning a good living" and given outrageous numbers of jobs on poverty level wages, the dignity in work idea has limited foothold.

Yes, work is about more than getting paid but if getting paid doesn't make ends meet, it's all bullshoot.

QueefQueen80s · 14/04/2025 21:33

LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 14/04/2025 21:28

Cleaners and bin men which brits can be snobbish and dickheady about yes....100%

But I dont know where the dignity is on camgirl/guy work or only fans tbh.

Edited

Yes I respect any job as long as it harms no-one/society

Frowningprovidence · 14/04/2025 21:31

I believe in the innate dignity of the human soul, which is a slightly different idea I guess.

But I agree, I wouldn't be looking down on anyone earning an honest living.