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Acc0untant · 13/04/2025 17:00

If any!

If I scroll through and see anyone ask about accountancy help, HMRC advice, tax return, accounts etc I just hide them. I can't stand seeing 90% of the "advice" on those threads being absolute bollocks.

I used to hide the divorce ones when I was going through mine, I didn't want extra headspace going into it.

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Mylegishangingoff · 16/04/2025 00:24

Trans threads here too. I would actually consider myself to be gender critical but it started to be making fun of how people look in really cruel ways, guessing if women were men because they didn't feel the women looked feminine enough, Trump supporters, just what feels to me like quite extreme vitriol and tunnel vision. It's just way too much for me.

Tandora · 16/04/2025 00:13

NoWordForFluffy · 15/04/2025 22:26

Ahhh. You're not keen on reason and basic biological fact? My previous post refers!

These sorts of posts often make me reflect on the great wisdom of the theories of Dunning-Kruger

florenceandthemac · 15/04/2025 23:36

TuckedUpInBedWithAPackOfCremeEggs · 13/04/2025 17:01

Weight loss jabs

It’s a full time job hiding those now

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 23:29

fiorenza · 15/04/2025 23:27

You are turning this thread into a thread I want to hide.

Crack on.

fiorenza · 15/04/2025 23:27

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You are turning this thread into a thread I want to hide.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:54

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2025 22:53

I was called a TRA for exactly that.😆

I’m sure you were 🙄.

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2025 22:53

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:49

You keep repeating this over threads when no one has actually said anyone who’s anti-trump is a TRA. Just like if you are a sex realist you must be right wing or how did you phrase it - a trumpette? So much nonsense.

I was called a TRA for exactly that.😆

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:49

NoWordForFluffy · 15/04/2025 22:26

Ahhh. You're not keen on reason and basic biological fact? My previous post refers!

And why we need the ability to hide posters too.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:49

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2025 22:45

OMG this.^^ The refusal to engage in what's actually been said. The accusations. Anti-Trump and what he's doing to women? You're a TRA.🤯

You keep repeating this over threads when no one has actually said anyone who’s anti-trump is a TRA. Just like if you are a sex realist you must be right wing or how did you phrase it - a trumpette? So much nonsense.

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2025 22:45

JHound · 15/04/2025 15:16

The “but what you’re saying is….” <followed by something I have not said> or the refusal to accept that their view of something is not everybody’s view of something becomes tedious.

I have no issue with different views but people incapable of following the logic of a discussion do my head in! Hiding brings me peace 😊

OMG this.^^ The refusal to engage in what's actually been said. The accusations. Anti-Trump and what he's doing to women? You're a TRA.🤯

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AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:39

Mysterian · 15/04/2025 22:33

"For the other hard of thinking, women don’t won’t males in their female spaces and sports because they are male, not because they are trans. Wash, rinse, repeat."

Except the women who are fine with it. The approach that anybody who disagrees with you can be ignored, therefore everybody agrees with you, is part of the reason people hide the forum.

The women of FWR. That is their stance.

Of course there are women who are happy for males to be in such spaces. There are women who will always prioritise male feelings over women.

What they can’t appear to expand on is the why, when logic, stats, studies etc are presented as to why males should be excluded and how detrimental it can be having them there, no matter how they identify. It’s the plopper posters. Have a different opinion by all means, but at least try and back it up. If one could also explain how humans could change sex that would be great too.

user109876543 · 15/04/2025 22:37

Mysterian · 15/04/2025 22:33

"For the other hard of thinking, women don’t won’t males in their female spaces and sports because they are male, not because they are trans. Wash, rinse, repeat."

Except the women who are fine with it. The approach that anybody who disagrees with you can be ignored, therefore everybody agrees with you, is part of the reason people hide the forum.

Why would I want to venture into a forum where I'm called 'hard of thinking' because I have a differing opinion?

Mysterian · 15/04/2025 22:35

I don't hide any topic, but there are plenty I just don't bother going into.

Mysterian · 15/04/2025 22:33

"For the other hard of thinking, women don’t won’t males in their female spaces and sports because they are male, not because they are trans. Wash, rinse, repeat."

Except the women who are fine with it. The approach that anybody who disagrees with you can be ignored, therefore everybody agrees with you, is part of the reason people hide the forum.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:27

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:26

^^ see. This is why I hide them.

I’m thankful that you do.

NoWordForFluffy · 15/04/2025 22:26

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:26

^^ see. This is why I hide them.

Ahhh. You're not keen on reason and basic biological fact? My previous post refers!

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:26

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^^ see. This is why I hide them.

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:25

NoWordForFluffy · 15/04/2025 22:14

Or barely anybody agrees with you! 🤔

Ok.

🙄

fiorenza · 15/04/2025 22:25

The people who have it hidden don’t have a coherent, intelligent argument in them (apart from waaah you’re all anti trans!).

That's a leap. I have them hidden as I have nothing useful to add, and see no value for me in reading these threads.

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:23

SallyWD · 14/04/2025 23:03

Exactly. I have absolutely no interest in Meghan. I imagine that if I met her, I wouldn't really like her. However, the hate that surrounds her is absolutely insane. It's completely unhinged and off the scale. People (primarily women) seem to get so much pleasure in tearing her to pieces. I just don't understand it.

I think Meghan Derangement Syndrome needs to be a recognised psychiatric disorder.
The unhinged hatred for her for ….well I am not sure what she has done to earn this level of vitriol.

It’s baffling!

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 22:22

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EmpressaurusKitty · 15/04/2025 22:22

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 15/04/2025 22:19

entering those boards is like stepping through a mirror into a crazed alternative universe.

I know, right? There are posters on there who think that people can magically change sex!

Exactly! It’s not just the Romans who are pazzi….

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 15/04/2025 22:19

HeadNorth · 13/04/2025 19:35

I don’t hide these boards (I didn’t know it was an option) but I also avoid them. The posters are obsessed and bonkers - entering those boards is like stepping through a mirror into a crazed alternative universe.

entering those boards is like stepping through a mirror into a crazed alternative universe.

I know, right? There are posters on there who think that people can magically change sex!

NoWordForFluffy · 15/04/2025 22:14

JHound · 15/04/2025 22:12

Yes - that now explains the tone of posts on the Trans posts. Everybody reasonable has them hidden!

Or barely anybody agrees with you! 🤔