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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 16/04/2025 15:27

The idea that people on limited incomes shouldn’t be able to try on clothing and make sure they get the size and design that they want rather than be limited to what other people are getting rid of really annoys me.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 16/04/2025 15:21

I’m not sure that I agree entirely. Just because something is cheap and made of plastic or polyester doesn’t mean that it is necessarily going to break immediately or that someone will tire of it and throw it away any more than they would an object made of wood, or more expensive clothing. You are making a massive assumption that people who buy cheaply only do so in order that they can use/wear once and replace. It may be that their priorities are on doing things rather than having expensive things but prefer to buy new than second hand.

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 16/04/2025 15:18

Morgan de toi is still going in France, and they sell to the UK on Zalando.

AquaPeer · 16/04/2025 15:16

It was! Check my terrible French grammar lol

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 16/04/2025 15:14

AquaPeer · 16/04/2025 15:06

I don’t think you weren’t in the 90s- you said that clothing was much better cut and quality then. I was pointing out Morgan et tui was the same trash quality as todays landfill

It was Morgan de toi, not Morgan et tui (but yes, it was trash!).

AquaPeer · 16/04/2025 15:06

Purpl · 16/04/2025 14:44

Yes I loved Morgan especially £10 sales would run all the way from office to Oxford street and Shelly shoes and zoo to. Gutted about the massive top shop closing at Oxford Circus spent hours in there. I recently sold my buffalo spice girls boots on vinted for £150 and the original yellow bag was next to it the loft so I wrapped them up in it. There was also so many more boutique one off shops then too. I don’t understand why you think I wasn’t in the 90s I have 2 adult DD I would have thought loads of mums net users are early 50s? Unless on the baby threads

I don’t think you weren’t in the 90s- you said that clothing was much better cut and quality then. I was pointing out Morgan et tui was the same trash quality as todays landfill

Purpl · 16/04/2025 14:44

AquaPeer · 14/04/2025 20:29

Did you go to Jane Norman? MK one? Morgan et tui? Miss selfrisge? Kookai? Were you even in 90s if not shopping the 90s version of landfill here?!

Yes I loved Morgan especially £10 sales would run all the way from office to Oxford street and Shelly shoes and zoo to. Gutted about the massive top shop closing at Oxford Circus spent hours in there. I recently sold my buffalo spice girls boots on vinted for £150 and the original yellow bag was next to it the loft so I wrapped them up in it. There was also so many more boutique one off shops then too. I don’t understand why you think I wasn’t in the 90s I have 2 adult DD I would have thought loads of mums net users are early 50s? Unless on the baby threads

EllieQ · 16/04/2025 14:24

IrritatedEarthling · 15/04/2025 23:57

I took a bag of at least 50 pens to ryman, making quite a detour, and I was told that they had "lost" the recycling point - not misplaced but she said it as though they had had it taken away. It was really odd.
I spent ages googling afterwards to try to find where to take the pens and got nowhere. Nothing on terra cycle or recycle now. I felt such guilt at binning them.

I’ve had the same issue, but the Ryman’s staff explained that they no longer have a contract with the recycling company that they used to use, hence the recycling points were taken away. but they are trying to find another company that will take pens for recycling.

AquaPeer · 16/04/2025 14:18

Misorchid · 16/04/2025 14:16

I saw a sad programme about the vast shipments of clothes to Africa.
The local people had stopped making and wearing their own fabulous hand printed clothes with turbans and rushed down to each consignment of western clothes which they wore and were no comparison.

I mean. This sound a bit patronising. It’s ok for black people/ people from low income countries to enjoy globalisation too. They don’t have to be killing sheep to make their own hats

Misorchid · 16/04/2025 14:16

I saw a sad programme about the vast shipments of clothes to Africa.
The local people had stopped making and wearing their own fabulous hand printed clothes with turbans and rushed down to each consignment of western clothes which they wore and were no comparison.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 16/04/2025 13:49

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

Nasty chemicals do not have to be used. There are natural ways of tanning leather.

Needmorelego · 16/04/2025 12:53

IrritatedEarthling · 15/04/2025 23:57

I took a bag of at least 50 pens to ryman, making quite a detour, and I was told that they had "lost" the recycling point - not misplaced but she said it as though they had had it taken away. It was really odd.
I spent ages googling afterwards to try to find where to take the pens and got nowhere. Nothing on terra cycle or recycle now. I felt such guilt at binning them.

I wonder if people had been stuffing any old crap in there and the staff hadn't realised, then when it was full they innocently sealed it up to be sent to the recycling place but the recycling people discovered it was full of dirty tissues, half eaten sandwiches and split drink.
So they weren't allowed to have another one.

greeenscreeen · 16/04/2025 12:27

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 15:26

Oh god, you should meet our neighbours.

New kitchen twice in 7 years.

New plastic grass and hot tub and garden furniture every couple of years

A skip outside filled with really nice looking luggage,.kids toys, sports equipment etc at least once a year. They don't even bother donating it

Forgot to add -seasonal decor for every season, always nee

Constant upgrading decor and refurbishments

And the house was lovely when they moved in

It's horrible to see. Such an immense waste of resources. They are lovely people in every other respect

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What a sad, depressing, infuriating read this is!!!

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 07:36

kattaduck · 16/04/2025 03:21

What about vinted, Ebay, etc.
I am on a low income myself that's why I buy quality stuff secondhand. It's a lot cheaper.

Yep, individual items can be ££ with postage but bundles can work out very cheaply.

NattyTurtle59 · 16/04/2025 06:00

MariaUSA · 14/04/2025 23:26

Xiaoxiong...please excuse me if I am not addressing you correctly, I just joined yesterday and I do not know how to do the @Xiaoxiong. Can you tell me how, please? Well, over here in USA where I am, the charity shops are more than happy to receive anything brought to them. What country are you in? I guess that some things that are donated are routed to landfill but if so, donators are unaware of it. Smiles. Maria USA

I'm in NZ and the thrift shops in my town accept most things, as does the recycling shop at the local resource recovery park. I worked at the recycling shop for a while a few years ago, and some of the thrift shops would send stuff they couldn't sell or didn't have room for to us. The shop was always quite busy and some people came every day to look over the new stuff.

NattyTurtle59 · 16/04/2025 05:28

Mere1 · 14/04/2025 06:41

Components for lots of today’s essentials are made in China.

Yes, and a lot of things made in China are most definitely not tat. Where I live practically everything is made there, both cheap and high end stuff, if we weren't buying from China we wouldn't be buying very much!

kattaduck · 16/04/2025 03:21

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 17:24

I shop in primark as I am on a very low income. If I need a black t-shirt, I will be guaranteed to find one there. I don't have the spoons to go around all the charity shops and hope they have one in my size. And one that is not priced as more than new anyway. A lot of charity shops price Primark stuff at more than they cost in the original shop.

What about vinted, Ebay, etc.
I am on a low income myself that's why I buy quality stuff secondhand. It's a lot cheaper.

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 15/04/2025 23:59

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

Tanning used to be done with dog shit. Maybe we should go back to that, it would solve the dog fouling problem at the same time.

@AquaPeer that was a great doc, very eye-opening.

IrritatedEarthling · 15/04/2025 23:57

quantumbutterfly · 13/04/2025 11:19

https://www.tprg.com/theo-paphitis-retail-group/2024/10/15/ryman-celebrates-collecting-over-35-million-pens-to-be-recycled-since-2019

There are many pens that you can buy refills for, this could go some way to mitigating landfill.

I took a bag of at least 50 pens to ryman, making quite a detour, and I was told that they had "lost" the recycling point - not misplaced but she said it as though they had had it taken away. It was really odd.
I spent ages googling afterwards to try to find where to take the pens and got nowhere. Nothing on terra cycle or recycle now. I felt such guilt at binning them.

Kardamyli2 · 15/04/2025 23:45

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

Do you think the chemicals used in making plastic are any better? And then there's the fact that plastics don't degrade like leather does.

Kardamyli2 · 15/04/2025 23:43

I agree. All that made in China tat in the likes of Flying Tyger, Sostren Grene, Temu, Shein etc etc is an environmental disaster.

Cattenberg · 15/04/2025 23:15

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 15/04/2025 21:54

I can't help thinking we'll soon go full circle and realise that the skin and fur from the animals we've eaten are the most environmentally efficient way to use our resources. Wool jumpers, leather strides, rabbit hats and gloves.

Wool jumpers, maybe, but the chemicals used in tanning are terrible for the environment.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 15/04/2025 21:54

I can't help thinking we'll soon go full circle and realise that the skin and fur from the animals we've eaten are the most environmentally efficient way to use our resources. Wool jumpers, leather strides, rabbit hats and gloves.

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 21:47

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 21:42

Natural fabrics are better than plastic ones - obviously. Processing for cotton is not great but again if you buy one or two pairs of jeans and wear them until they fall to bits then you're doing your best. Or linen, wool. Plenty of all those fabrics in existence already.

Second hand always better than new. BNWT from Vinted is better than new as that piece of clothing is being bought from someone who has bought it from the original vendor - you are not contributing further to the demand of shite from Shein.

It's not about "weaving your own hair" - patently ridiculous and the cry of someone who thinks shitty Shein is just fine. It's about being mindful of what you buy and at least thinking about your impact rather than not giving a fuck.

I don't shop on Shein or Temu. But thanks for leaping to that conclusion.

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 21:42

Natural fabrics are better than plastic ones - obviously. Processing for cotton is not great but again if you buy one or two pairs of jeans and wear them until they fall to bits then you're doing your best. Or linen, wool. Plenty of all those fabrics in existence already.

Second hand always better than new. BNWT from Vinted is better than new as that piece of clothing is being bought from someone who has bought it from the original vendor - you are not contributing further to the demand of shite from Shein.

It's not about "weaving your own hair" - patently ridiculous and the cry of someone who thinks shitty Shein is just fine. It's about being mindful of what you buy and at least thinking about your impact rather than not giving a fuck.