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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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Annettecurtaintwitcher · 13/04/2025 15:40

I agree, but I think there are far worse examples than søstrene grene, definitely have far less plastic in there than other places. Plenty of household things like cups and plates which serve a purpose, and lots of creative things like paints and canvas, not essential but are people not meant to have hobbies? Also, lots of wooden children’s toys. Again should children not have toys. Where do you draw the line?

Have made a concerted effort to cut down on plastic tack and fast fashion and will explain to the kids why we are not buying certain things or from from certain websites. Have just been to søstrene grene though and bought eldest DD some equipment for her jewelry making hobby though!

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 15:40

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 13/04/2025 15:36

Nobody “needs“ a lot of this crap. They just don’t. As others point out the VAT position is a policy choice. That probably would need looking at for meaningful change to happen.

I'm not sure what point is being made here - the total amount of VAT on one good quality item costing £20 is the same as on 4 bits of tat costing a fiver each.

Isittimeformynapyet · 13/04/2025 15:39

TiredEyesToday · 13/04/2025 13:17

If you are poor, you cannot think about an existential risk that is abstract for you, in the present moment. You can only concentrate on the issues at hand.

I don’t like it, I don’t disagree that it will affect the poor disproportionately, but you are asking too much, to ask people who are trying to scrape their rent together today, to think about sea level rise and climate catastrophe in X years. Until it’s at the door, really.

The message I'm getting from this thread though is NOT TO BUY STUFF, but there's an element of posters saying "we have to buy unnecessary tat because we're in poverty". The difference is whether things are essential or not.

I remember my mum mending my navy PE knickers over and over because she couldn't afford new ones. She did not buy anything unnecessary just to get a "boost" as mentioned up thread.

I8toys · 13/04/2025 15:38

Not read the whole thread but shops like Home Bargains and B&M depress the hell out of me. I went at christmas last year and the humungous plastic candy canes and absolute tat they were selling and so much of it. All the plastic shite for the garden. I very rarely go shopping anymore. We don't need so many versions of 1 thing. I appreciate choice but its ridiculous.

Arglefraster · 13/04/2025 15:38

I agree but this is capitalism- sell stuff people don't really need & encourage them to either change it frequently or be sure it has in built obsolescence.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 13/04/2025 15:36

Nobody “needs“ a lot of this crap. They just don’t. As others point out the VAT position is a policy choice. That probably would need looking at for meaningful change to happen.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 15:36

BountifulPantry · 13/04/2025 15:29

It speaks volumes that shops like the Range and B&M are getting a tough ride on this thread yet John Lewis and marks and spencer aren’t… surely they sell just as much plastic disposable crap… just at a higher price point.

B&M sell reusable bags with the slogan "I can't be trusted at B&M" printed on them. They aren't unique in having this strategy but they are pretty much admitting that they want to legitimise people's spontaneous purchases of tat by the fact that the person also bought the clothes pegs/loo roll/cleaning products that they came in for.

BadLad · 13/04/2025 15:34

We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

We need entertainment as well. Nobody wants to live in a world with nothing other than basic essentials.

quantumbutterfly · 13/04/2025 15:31

whoopsnomore · 13/04/2025 15:16

Not forgetting Halloween, Easter, Mothers/ Fathers Day and all the other dates that have become commercial opportunities

Eid, Diwali.......

BeyondMyWits · 13/04/2025 15:30

Tat raises revenue and helps keep the economy afloat.
VAT brings in over £150 BILLION pounds a year. The only time it dropped was during covid when no one was buying.

We need new years, valentines, mothers' day, Easter, fathers' day, summer parties, tiki bar garden set ups, Halloween, Christmas etc. Same with hen nights and baby showers.
All this stuff has VAT, all this stuff has import tax etc, etc, etc.

Lower purchase based taxation income for the government = higher income based taxation (both paid by us, but purchase based is a choice)

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 15:30

Sortalike · 13/04/2025 15:21

But that's not what was said...

"my coffee table is about 9 years old and from B&M"

OP may have no intention of getting rid of it - it could last for another 29/49/99 years. Just because it came from B&M doesn't mean anything, it means the table is 9 years old, not that it has exceeded its life expectancy.

People do take care of their furniture which is probably exactly what OP does.

She said she had lots of furniture from B&M and then went on to refer to the 9-year-old coffee table as though that was a particularly notable example. She was trying to use that as evidence that stuff from B&M isn't cheap tat - but a table lasting 9 years tells us nothing as of course it should last that long! And it's not really the point of the thread as references to B&M on this thread are just shorthand for the type of shop that sells the stuff the OP is talking about. A lot of stuff sold by B&M is just normal household stuff but that doesn't mean they (and Home Bargains, The Range, Poundland etc etc) don't sell a huge amount of utter shite.

BountifulPantry · 13/04/2025 15:29

It speaks volumes that shops like the Range and B&M are getting a tough ride on this thread yet John Lewis and marks and spencer aren’t… surely they sell just as much plastic disposable crap… just at a higher price point.

BountifulPantry · 13/04/2025 15:24

I agree, we’re completely oversaturated with “stuff”.

I don’t know how dragons den exists- surely there isn’t anything left to invent?!

PandaCory · 13/04/2025 15:22

I've been on a bit of a "don't need, don't buy" mission for a while, along with trying to avoid products with excessive packaging (but here come the Easter eggs... a lot less plastic in their boxes these days though!)

My son was invited to a birthday party recently and I bought the birthday child a book and sweets rather than a cheap plastic toy. Of course, my son came home from the party with a plastic party bag containing cheap plastic stuff, so it feels like an uphill battle.

Navigo · 13/04/2025 15:22

TiredEyesToday · 13/04/2025 13:02

The trouble with threads like this, is that they’re demonstrative of a lack of understanding about the poverty tax.

If you are poor, you cannot afford to buy a £500 pair of shoes, that you will buy once, and buy well. You probably cannot afford to save up for a £100 pair of shoes. Instead you will buy £40 shoes- because shoes are an item that you need urgently, and you can’t wait the X months to save up for the £100 shoes, or the X years for the £500 shoes. And they will wear out in a years time and you will buy them again and again all your life- and here’s where it becomes a poverty tax- you will spend way fucking more than your rich pal with their £500 shoes will.

Similarly- if you are poor, you will not be able to justify to yourself spending £10 on glass food storage that will last forever, even if you happen to have the cash- as opposed to the £1 plastic food storage in B&M- that probably has a cutesy little emoji face on it or something. You probably wont be able to EVEN IF someone were to sit you down and explain to you the environmental impact, the long term savings, the fact that you may save more money in saved food in the long term etc. why? Because you are in survival mode. Survival is immediate. You cannot look ahead to 20 years down the line. You probably can’t imagine next week.

you can apply this to mattresses, toys, shoes, coats, sofas, whatever you want.

So many people on MN can’t fathom just how great a % of this country are now in “survival mode”. And what that does to your “choices” such as they are. And why, frankly, you don’t give a flying fuck about the planet, when your immediate existence is so fraught.

Agree. I think there is often some inverted snobbery around this issue.

I have the time and money to make ‘good’ choices. Many others don’t.

Catrionablocke · 13/04/2025 15:22

Auburngal · 13/04/2025 14:57

I will still use my 16 year old decs until they are bashed about. May get a new tree as its pre-lit but with the old style bulbs. Have some spare bulbs, but its getting tatty looking.

It's an old friend!

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 13/04/2025 15:21

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 14:55

It's just shorthand for that type of "pile 'em high, flog 'em cheap" type shop. It's not all tat but a lot of it is.

It’s just posters being - deliberately ? - obtuse. I don’t for a minute believe people reading don’t know exactly what is meant.

Sortalike · 13/04/2025 15:21

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 12:17

In fact, my coffee table is about 9 years old and from B&M.

That's fine, but the fact you think a table lasting 9 years is somehow remarkable speaks volumes.

But that's not what was said...

"my coffee table is about 9 years old and from B&M"

OP may have no intention of getting rid of it - it could last for another 29/49/99 years. Just because it came from B&M doesn't mean anything, it means the table is 9 years old, not that it has exceeded its life expectancy.

People do take care of their furniture which is probably exactly what OP does.

Acinonyx2 · 13/04/2025 15:20

I had no idea people really bought new Xmas decorations ever year. Is that really a thing? I don't think I know anyone who does that. We usually buy one new decoration for the tree when we get the tree.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 13/04/2025 15:19

Lot of people feeling attacked when they’re absolutely not what OP was talking about. Sigh. Welcome to online discussions. Or maybe it’s just humanity. Meanwhile the problems don’t get solved and people cross their arms and harrumph at the “other side”.

DustyLee123 · 13/04/2025 15:16

Years ago you bought Xmas decorations and the same ones came out year after year. Nowadays people have a new theme, so new decorations and/or tree every year.
My kids plastic Halloween bucket came out year after year for trick or treating, not a new one every year.

Unpaidviewer · 13/04/2025 15:16

I love "seasonal tat". I keep it and it comes back out each year. Really most stuff is unnecessary but I refuse to live my life like a puritan in a barren home.

whoopsnomore · 13/04/2025 15:16

JillAndJenTheFlowerpotMen · 13/04/2025 10:49

This. Particularly “seasonal” merchandise. I look at Christmas and Valentines tat and see every single thing in a massive pit with veg peelings.

Not forgetting Halloween, Easter, Mothers/ Fathers Day and all the other dates that have become commercial opportunities

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 15:13

Navigo · 13/04/2025 15:06

I agree about overcome consumption and tat.

However, I think it is okay to get pleasure from something that others may not deem worthy. My daughter has had health problems for the last five years and has been in and out of hospital. Her jellycat collection gives her so much joy. She loves choosing a new one for her birthday or Christmas and it is nice to see her smile when she has been through such a lot and missed out on so much. It isn’t just ‘landfill’ to her.

I agree, and hell will freeze over before my precious bunnies go into landfill! I'm never throwing them away!

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 15:12

This thread is a bit negative. I don't know anyone who's this wasteful. Most people I know buy stuff they like and then use it or years, and then donate or sell it on.

Online selling sites like eBay etc have created the secondary economy, which is a good thing. In a way, we waste less than before.

Let's flip the premise of this thread on its head and think for a moment about all the things that ARE used to death and then recycled responsibly!