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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 15/04/2025 16:26

A lot of posts about swapping polyester for cotton, but standard cotton is in many ways just as bad. Recycled cotton and organic linen are supposed to be ok though. I like Tencel a lot which is a more sustainable and safer version of viscose.

This is a good page:

cfda.com/resources/materials

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 16:22

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 15/04/2025 16:18

How about using up some of the 120 or so years' worth of unwamted clothing we already have?

I mean fucking hell fast fashion has only been around for the blink of an eye. We coped without it for tens of thousands of years. I am 50 and my mum used to make my clothes when I was a kid.

I can't make clothing. I have tried.
I could splash out on clothing that lasts, but I would be wearing it every day until it falls apart. And that gets looked down on too.
With cheap clothing, I can have some variety.

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 16:18

@Frozenpeace because many local "tips" are called "recycling centres" these days I wonder if some people think that sending stuff off in a skip (or taking it there themselves) means it's going to actually be recycled rather than put in landfill.
They might think they are doing the correct thing.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 15/04/2025 16:18

XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 15:50

If fast fashion goes, then would do you propose takes it place?
I shop at Primark because it is cheap. I don't give a fuck about fashion and the latest looks. I just want my body to be covered up, and I feel happy with how it looks and feels.

I have xmas and Halloween decorations and they used to get brought out every year. I would buy new ones if they caught my eye.

How about using up some of the 120 or so years' worth of unwamted clothing we already have?

I mean fucking hell fast fashion has only been around for the blink of an eye. We coped without it for tens of thousands of years. I am 50 and my mum used to make my clothes when I was a kid.

Userxyd · 15/04/2025 15:52

@Langdale3it was this one: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JWTyMCdK1zo

@EasternStandardI don’t think most people would take higher prices tbh. I think the usual “standard of living” expectations nowadays include loads of stuff that makes people feel adequate. I suppose anyone reading this and agreeing that yes we do all have too much crap would agree to having less and paying more for ethical greener stuff, but there’ll be loads of people in the YOLO camp who just live for today and take our chances on tomorrow. I think we need labelling on everything - all clothes should say natural fibre/human made vs synthetic fibres/machine made so at least we can know what we’re buying. The guy from Sewing Bee is on board with non plastic clothes but he’s the first celeb I’ve seen to talk about it.

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XenoBitch · 15/04/2025 15:50

If fast fashion goes, then would do you propose takes it place?
I shop at Primark because it is cheap. I don't give a fuck about fashion and the latest looks. I just want my body to be covered up, and I feel happy with how it looks and feels.

I have xmas and Halloween decorations and they used to get brought out every year. I would buy new ones if they caught my eye.

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 15:43

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 15:26

Oh god, you should meet our neighbours.

New kitchen twice in 7 years.

New plastic grass and hot tub and garden furniture every couple of years

A skip outside filled with really nice looking luggage,.kids toys, sports equipment etc at least once a year. They don't even bother donating it

Forgot to add -seasonal decor for every season, always nee

Constant upgrading decor and refurbishments

And the house was lovely when they moved in

It's horrible to see. Such an immense waste of resources. They are lovely people in every other respect

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That is awful - especially not donating any of it 😞 Makes me angry and sad at the same time, the fake grass in particular and I detest the stuff. It stays in our environment forever in the soils and water and is not recyclable.

Can you not drop hints if you’re chatting to them next time?

I’m the complete opposite- I keep my cars forever and have had the same home appliances for donkey’s years. My fridge freezer is about 22 years old now I think! I try to only have wooden and metal furniture that I pick up secondhand. Clothes from Vinted/charity shops - same with homeware items such as curtains and cushions.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 15/04/2025 15:41

Bjorkdidit · 15/04/2025 14:40

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

Have you never been to your local tip early in the new year? They're always full of xmas decorations

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 15:32

SummerDaytoNight · 15/04/2025 10:35

We are because despite many people not buying, businesses are still producing. That’s what’s so scary.

If people watched Years and Years they might start to rethink their behaviour

Frozenpeace · 15/04/2025 15:26

Bjorkdidit · 15/04/2025 14:40

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

Oh god, you should meet our neighbours.

New kitchen twice in 7 years.

New plastic grass and hot tub and garden furniture every couple of years

A skip outside filled with really nice looking luggage,.kids toys, sports equipment etc at least once a year. They don't even bother donating it

Forgot to add -seasonal decor for every season, always nee

Constant upgrading decor and refurbishments

And the house was lovely when they moved in

It's horrible to see. Such an immense waste of resources. They are lovely people in every other respect

Badbadbunny · 15/04/2025 15:23

Bjorkdidit · 15/04/2025 14:40

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

The shops wouldn't be full of plastic crap if people weren't buying it.

SnoozingFox · 15/04/2025 14:50

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

So who is buying all the seasonal tat then?

Bjorkdidit · 15/04/2025 14:40

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 14:37

Not me. It goes in a box for next year.

Or me. This assertion that 'everyone' buys new things several times a year and just throws it away after one use only to rebuy the following year is so alien to me that I don't believe it's true. I don't know anyone who would do that.

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 14:37

lovelydayIhave · 15/04/2025 13:43

It’s all thrown away or put in the charity shops.

Not me. It goes in a box for next year.

lovelydayIhave · 15/04/2025 13:43

Magnificentbeast · 15/04/2025 13:21

I agree OP. It is depressing. I was thinking this about all of the new seasonal decorations that appear nowadays. It used to be just Christmas surely, but now it's becoming ridiculous. I don't remember people decorating the homes for Easter previously. Maybe just some nice spring flowers. Where do people store everything during the rest of the year?

It’s all thrown away or put in the charity shops.

Badbadbunny · 15/04/2025 13:34

Magnificentbeast · 15/04/2025 13:21

I agree OP. It is depressing. I was thinking this about all of the new seasonal decorations that appear nowadays. It used to be just Christmas surely, but now it's becoming ridiculous. I don't remember people decorating the homes for Easter previously. Maybe just some nice spring flowers. Where do people store everything during the rest of the year?

They don't store things - that's the problem. They chuck them out and buy new again next year. It wouldn't be quite so bad if people did actually store and re-use things. But if they did that, then the shops wouldn't be full of tat every year as there'd be no one buying it.

Magnificentbeast · 15/04/2025 13:21

I agree OP. It is depressing. I was thinking this about all of the new seasonal decorations that appear nowadays. It used to be just Christmas surely, but now it's becoming ridiculous. I don't remember people decorating the homes for Easter previously. Maybe just some nice spring flowers. Where do people store everything during the rest of the year?

samarrange · 15/04/2025 12:41

Her house is like a social media influencer's dream - all the "twee" crap of home furnishings etc the standard "live, love, laugh" crap on the walls and plastic crap ornaments everywhere. Loads of inane meaningless pictures on the walls.

Perhaps one day you will wake up to this scene outside: https://x.com/alexshephard/status/1660661411725418501

Badbadbunny · 15/04/2025 11:45

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 11:02

It’s awful isn’t it and it’s grown hugely with the advent of social media. As is the truly wasteful fad of redecorating every 2 years, even new kitchens and bathrooms after only a few years. Again, this is probably due to marketing and influencers on social media as we now see inside people’s homes more and people want to post about their new whatever.

If I buy anything new it has to be useful and will last a lot of years.

I walk around my village regularly and on bin collection day I see houses with non recyclable bins overflowing. Not sure why as we have 3 other bins for specific things. We have barely 2 bags of rubbish over 2 weeks.

I agree. Especially with people and their overflowing non-recycling bins. I just don't understand how they manage to have so much that can't be recycled. And some of them have over-flowing recycling bins too! Even our single next door neighbour manages to put out overflowing non recycling and recycling bins every time - she lives alone, so can't blame it on a big family, children, etc. She also constantly gets constant home deliveries - Amazon and DPD virtually every day. She must spend/waste an absolute fortune on utter crap. Her house is like a social media influencer's dream - all the "twee" crap of home furnishings etc the standard "live, love, laugh" crap on the walls and plastic crap ornaments everywhere. Loads of inane meaningless pictures on the walls. And yes, she seems to replace her kitchen and bathrooms every few years, along with forever having decorators in to re-decorate one room or another.

I'm the opposite. I've had two kitchens in the 30 years I've been in the house and felt guilty about changing the first one after 15 years as most of it was still perfectly serviceable, but it was showing it's age and the integrated appliances were started to fail and needing costly repair/replacements. Still, I got OH to fit most of the units into our garage and garden shed, so most of it is still in use which made me feel better and meant we didn't need to buy racking/shelving for the outbuildings. Same with bathrooms, we made the ones bought with the house last about 15/20 years respectively before we had them replaced and have no intention at all to replace the current ones - nothing wrong with them and they're neutral colour schemes so will last another 10-20 years easily.

We also "standardise" things like our tech, i.e. laptops for home and our businesses, printers/screens, iphones, computer operating systems, etc., so OH can "cannibalise" one piece of tech to make another last a bit longer as he's good with "making and mending" small tech. We tend to buy the same make/model of laptops (we use several between home and businesses) and when they start getting older and faulty, he'll swap parts to keep some of them going. Same with printers, scanners, screens, etc., but also home electrics as we use the same kettle at home as in the offices, same vacuum cleaners, same microwaves, same TV in different rooms of the house, etc. He has also kept a couple of old broken kitchen appliances in the garage and we bought identical new ones, so that he can swap bits out of the old ones to keep the newer ones going for longer. It's such a shame that businesses doing small repairs like that aren't viable as it's often pretty close or more to repair an appliance than it is to buy new.

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 11:09

NattyTurtle59 · 15/04/2025 07:59

I used to work in the shop at our local recycling centre. There was masses of really good stuff, all going very, very, cheap. There is no reason why people who don't have much money can't buy from places like that. I have very little new furniture in my flat, I bought second hand, good quality, stuff and have no intention of replacing it - and it won't need replacing in my lifetime.

There is also plenty of good stuff on FB marketplace, and we have a local FB page where people give goods away.

That is really good idea about a shop at a recycling centre.
I might email our council to ask where all the stuff goes.

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 11:02

greeenscreeen · 13/04/2025 18:21

I absolutely HATE it. All the Easter crap absolutely everywhere. Ten years ago it wasn't even a thing. But I understand why parents feel obliged to get half of it. Keeping up with the Jones' and all that. Feeling their children will be the only ones without the massive haul of plastic shit. I refuse to participate, but it's easy when mine is only a toddler. I have no intention of bowing to peer pressure, but I should imagine it will become more difficult as my DC gets older, especially around Christmas.

It’s awful isn’t it and it’s grown hugely with the advent of social media. As is the truly wasteful fad of redecorating every 2 years, even new kitchens and bathrooms after only a few years. Again, this is probably due to marketing and influencers on social media as we now see inside people’s homes more and people want to post about their new whatever.

If I buy anything new it has to be useful and will last a lot of years.

I walk around my village regularly and on bin collection day I see houses with non recyclable bins overflowing. Not sure why as we have 3 other bins for specific things. We have barely 2 bags of rubbish over 2 weeks.

EasternStandard · 15/04/2025 10:52

SummerDaytoNight · 15/04/2025 10:35

We are because despite many people not buying, businesses are still producing. That’s what’s so scary.

China will find a new market if the US declines their goods or buys less. We will need to not be flooded with them for a start.

CheekySnake · 15/04/2025 10:38

Yes some plastics can be recycled, but in order to make recycled plastic, you need new/virgin plastic to begin with, and we need to stop making new plastic. Making coke bottles into M&S jumpers is basically greenwashing.

SummerDaytoNight · 15/04/2025 10:35

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:29

Judging by the majority of positive responses on this thread, we aren’t doomed, thankfully. 😅

We are because despite many people not buying, businesses are still producing. That’s what’s so scary.

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Badbadbunny · 15/04/2025 10:25

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 10:21

Can polyester be recycled?
Surely the material could be made into a different item of clothing.

Most things "can" be recycled, but there are financial costs and environmental damage in the transportation, energy/resources required, etc. Recycling takes a lot of energy and water, and there's a lot of diesel used ferrying the stuff around. Huge amounts that "could" be recycled are still dumped into landfill because of the costs and resources needed make it unviable to recycle.

Far better to use less in the first place rather than virtue signalling by recycling.

Reduce and re-use first, then recycle less.