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To think The Inbetweeners is crap?

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tvchoice · 13/04/2025 10:20

And Friday Night Dinner is much better (both containing Simon Bird)? Just find that the Inbetweeners is full of too much dirty language for no reason and irritating 'lad humour'. At least with FND, the dynamic between the family (particularly Jackie and Martin), but also brilliant supporting characters such as Jim and the two Grandmas, make it a much better TV show? Does anyone agree?
On the poll, YABU means the Inbetweeners is better and YANBU means Friday Night Dinner is better😊

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Idontknowhatnametochoose · 13/04/2025 13:29

I love the inbetweeners. The car door being sliced off still makes me laugh.

FiveBarGate · 13/04/2025 13:27

Isittimeformynapyet · 13/04/2025 10:27

You've certainly got your finger on the pulse OP!

You talk about "lad jokes" - I think the entire premise of The Inbetweeners was what dicks teenage boys are, so ultimately the opposite of laddish.

This. Even the title is poking fun at that period where everyone thinks they are grown up in sixth form but are actually idiots.

I particularly enjoy the gap year observations in the film.

It's quite clever beyond some of the crude humour, which is in keeping with the characters.

Love Friday Night Dinner but just because they feature the same actor they are not a direct comparison.

TimeForTeaAndToast · 13/04/2025 13:18

I watched Inbetweeners for the first time a couple of years ago. I'm in my 50s and went to a girls' high school, but I thought it was funny.

The whole point is that they talk a lot of shit, but are massively insecure. Jay is the worst with the by bull he talks but he has such an awful father that you feel sorry for him.

dontforgetme · 13/04/2025 13:13

James Buckley and his wife have a podcast and it’s absolutely brilliant!

dontforgetme · 13/04/2025 13:12

Funnily enough I rewatched some eps of The Inbetweeners the other day, first time in years, and I didn’t laugh once! Back in the day I used to cry laughing.

Friday Night Dinner is brilliant, currently watching this with my dc and we all love it. Martin being all of our favourites!

Hoplolly · 13/04/2025 13:10

The Inbetweeners was and still is hilarious. It's almost nostalgia from a time when we didn't have to be quite so politically correct as we do now. We quote stuff from it regularly and I've probably not watched it in 10 years!

PrincessHoneysuckle · 13/04/2025 13:04

The inbetweeners is still comedy gold

MasterBeth · 13/04/2025 13:03

MollyRover · 13/04/2025 13:01

Hate Simon Bird and James Buckley, think they’ll were really scraping the bottom of the barrel with them. The rest of the cast was pretty decent and the show would have been funny if they had cast differently for just those two.

Yeah, they're definitely the two characters that let the whole thing down. 😶

MasterBeth · 13/04/2025 13:02

chakrakkhan · 13/04/2025 10:29

The Inbetweeners is firmly a Millennial show. Gen zers were babies or young children when it came out. The cast are all almost, or already 40.

It's at least as much a Gen X show. The writers are in their 50s, the show was originally set in their 80s schooldays with their 80s sensibilities and was only updated to (then) contemporary times in order to cut costs and appeal to a contemporary audience.

Everystripesays · 13/04/2025 13:02

It's social observation, not model behaviour.

This is a really good way of putting it!

MollyRover · 13/04/2025 13:01

Hate Simon Bird and James Buckley, think they’ll were really scraping the bottom of the barrel with them. The rest of the cast was pretty decent and the show would have been funny if they had cast differently for just those two.

Rosecoffeecup · 13/04/2025 12:57

I loved The Inbetweeners when it came out and was probably the target audience in terms of age, but it's very of its time and has aged terribly. I will still watch occasionally but it's not a patch on FND

Anoisagusaris · 13/04/2025 12:55

I’m 47 , had no male friends and went to an all girls convent school and I still love the Inbetweeners. Regularly watch episodes of it now. I do like ‘cringe’ comedy though….love the Office for example.

zingally · 13/04/2025 12:54

I've watched and enjoyed both.

StrawberrySquash · 13/04/2025 12:44

It captures a very specific sort of behaviour very well. My secondary school days were in the 90s but I absolutely recognised some the ways teenage boys can be obnoxious, as well as the insecurities and anxieties of being a teenager.

It's social observation, not model behaviour.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 13/04/2025 12:27

I haven't ever watched Friday Night Dinner.......that needs to be remedied

honeylulu · 13/04/2025 12:27

Inbetweeners was of its time. It wouldn't be made now and I agree the female characters are poorly developed and poorly treated. But I still found/find it very funny. (I do have the sense of humour of an adolescent boy, despite being a 50 year old mum.) A few years ago before we all had tablets/streaming we used to take a portable dvd player on holiday and our teen found Inbetweeners absolutely hilarious. We are always quoting bits of it like "bus wankers" and "I'll just sit here next to these inconsiderate arseholes" etc.

We liked Friday Night Dinner too but not quite as much. I thought the Jim character ruined it - my heart always sank when he showed up. Simon Ritter was fab though, RIP.

User32459 · 13/04/2025 12:19

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 13/04/2025 10:35

OMG I could not disagree more! The Inbetweeners is brilliant! 😆 One of the best comedy shows ever. (Feisty one you are!) 😂 And it was made at a time when there wasn't any whitewashing, or wokeness, or people crying because something offended them!

Not long after this, many things started to become sanitised and censored. Things have not really recovered from the censorship police, and there is little hilarity in comedy on TV now, because so many people are afraid of upsetting the fragile, and professionally offended.

Jay had a filthy mouth though! Shock 😆But yeah, as has been said, this is what some lads talk like. (Not all!)

Friday Night Dinner is brilliant though I agree. Not better. Just different. Shit on the shitting thing! Grin

The 2000s was the last good sitcom decade. Loads of classic ones.

Not many good ones since. DEI/Woke isn't conducive to good comedy. Gen X the last good generation of comedy writers as well by and large.

Everystripesays · 13/04/2025 12:13

Just find that the Inbetweeners is full of too much dirty language for no reason and irritating 'lad humour'.

That's the basis of the programme though, agree it's not for everyone and hasn't aged well, but it was rare to have such a realistic representation of teenagers in an average school. The reason a lot of my friends still find it funny is because it did seem to capture that moment in time really well, and lots of people could relate to it (for better or worse). I don't think things like that necessarily stand the test of time, but i don't think they need to.

WhineAndWine1 · 13/04/2025 12:10

It’s like comparing apples to oranges. Written for two different audiences, I will happily re watch FND by choice but I wouldn’t look out inbetweeners but happily watch it if came on if that makes sense.

icebearforpresident · 13/04/2025 12:07

I love it. Not watched it for years and I’m sure it hasn’t aged well but it will never not be funny. It’s of its time and that’s how boys were around girls then - not all boys but we had a group like that at school.

American Pie is the same. I was about 14 when it came out and it made me cry laughing then and it still makes me cry laughing now. It’s one of those films I watch every time I see it’s on. I don’t think it would ever be made today, it’s aged horribly and my inner feminist hates me for it but it takes me back to that time of my life.

stuckdownahole · 13/04/2025 12:04

BinChicken1 · 13/04/2025 10:34

I don’t think it’s a Gen Z show at all.

I agree, it was nostalgic even when it was written. It reminded me of my schooldays in the 1990s.

ThrallsWife · 13/04/2025 11:50

Anyone who has ever had prolonged dealings with teenage boys will know The Inbetweeners was genius. Greg Davies' portrayal, too - though it helped that he used to be a teacher.

MammaTo · 13/04/2025 11:48

I rewatch them both all the time. I don’t think they’re comparable shows, but both brilliant.

Yikes101 · 13/04/2025 11:47

I love them both, my children (19 and 22) do too and we use sayings from both frequently (too jazzy, bus wankers, bumder, hello bambinos, hello Jackie you look nice, lovely bit of squirrel).