Thong bikinis in public swimming pools

It's called fashion. It's a trend.

Similar to gym wear becoming more skimpy etc.

What's the big deal? Recently I've taken to wearing long sleeve as I'm more comfortable with that. Thongs don't bother me. I rather admire their confidence.

This. How can you be 'shocked' by someone's bum. It's just a bum.Maybe stop looking and you won't be shocked anymore

They barely cover boobs , it’s not a stupid comparison !
And I don’t know what kind of pools you go to , but the public one’s here near by me , no one’s bum is shoved in anyone’s face ! !
As for guys shirtless in shops , get a grip ..
You’re just one of these people who takes far too much notice of everything ..
Relax a bit …

I think the gross thing about it isn't soley the arse cheeks on full display, but more the obvious desperado attention seeking on show.

Got an amazing arse you've been working hard to keep in shape? Great. There's a time and a place.

That time and place is not waving your arse hole in front of kids trying to go down a water slide behind you, a la previous posters. If that was a man, there's a likelihood he would be accused of indecent exposure.

Women can absolutely be guilty of indecent exposure. But not according to mumsnet, us women can never do any wrong because we're all simply victims.

It's out of order in the context, and clearly to what our society deems appropriate. I just don't see the desperate need to flash your arse in front of kids to be honest, at the local swimming pool. Well, I do, and that's kind of the problem.

I was hoping someone had posted this.

Nipples are only covered if you’re a woman

I’m currently staying in a resort on an island. Women are walking through the restaurant wearing them for god’s sake. I just think they’re thoroughly vile & make me feel slightly sick every time I see them. It’s just yet another symptom of our over liberalised porn saturated culture. Makes me feel very sad that this is a thing in public bathing pools in good old England - never would have been even a decade ago.

No. They cover your tits. Stupid comparison.

l don’t want to see someone’s arse in the baths. Whether it’s their preference or not. I don’t really want my kids seeing someone’s arse much either. I’m sure it’s not their preference to have a backside shoved in their faces.

It’s like guys walking round town with tops off. I do t want to see someone’s sweaty back in Boots.

Time and place

I think they’re totally inappropriate in public swimming baths. However, I feel sorry for those who wear them, who are needing constant validation from men about them looking attractive enough. Last time I went to a public baths, I saw parents having fun with their kids, teens mucking about with their mates, older people going for actual exercise and then a small minority of women who wouldn’t get their hair wet, insisted on standing in the shallower bits so their bum remained on display and spent a huge amount of time walking around the perimeter, yanking their thong even higher each time.

They probably saw it as being body confident but real confidence comes from not needing to parade your arse you spent hours honing, for men of all ages to ogle. It’s also ridiculous to go to a pool but not actually swim or even sit in the water, just keep walking around.

The last visit, I saw a girl in a white thong swimsuit who kept sitting in the water, pulling the costume taut over her chest and then walking around. Everything was on show, including her thin line of pubes. She got lots of attention from men but looked no older than 16 and a complete misfit amongst her mates who were in practical speedo costumes and were actually having fun.

My biggest bugbear is young girls thinking this is the next thing they have to do to get a boyfriend and male attention. Kids who are barely teens are wearing thongs to the pool and high cut shorts with their area out. They’re not with parents and goodness knows how many dirty perverts are watching them.

Are bikini tops disrespectful also so ?
They’re basically the same as a bra ..
Don’t see the difference between a full brief bikini bottoms to a thong one ..
It’s swim wear , some prefer full brief bottom , others thong . It’s down to a person’s preference..

I must be getting old because I think they are totally inappropriate for a public swimming pool. I think they look hideous too and I’ve yet to see anyone suit them.

Well 71% of people voting agree that it is..

l wouldn’t want a bare arse in front of me in the baths. Can’t think of anything worse.

’ Disrespectful to other people’ 🤣🤣

I go to a David Lloyd.So many arses on show in the Spa,I think they look revolting and hilarious at the same time,endlessly entertaining.

I don't think it's remotely grim from a hygiene point of view but it's fucking seriously gross in an environment where there are children around.

Our entire body is just flesh and 'natural' so where is the line drawn when it comes to being out in public where there are children? Why does she bother wearing a bikini top? It's only flesh???

There are some proper weirdos on here.

YANBU OP

I’ve just googled Peter Stringfellow thong.

l wish l hadn’t…

l intensely disliked him. The thong was not an added bonus.

Perhaps some people are old enough to remember the late Peter Stringfellow wearing a thong on the beach and how repulsive people found that it is not just about women , YANBU and I don’t want to see anyone’s backside in public.

Surely a usual swimming costume holds your bum cheeks together if it’s stretchy fabric,which they usually are. A thong would be separating them - yuck -I can see why they are banned in some pools.

Do try harder OP.

Rinse and repeat. The bread and butter of MN.
It’s like movie plots. All the good ones have been done to death already so they just keep regurgitating the same old ones.

Does that include men too? Or just women?