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To be a bit envious of this lifestyle? (USA)

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ThePinkPonyClub · 12/04/2025 12:33

I've just watched School Swap: UK to USA on Channel 4 and have ended up feeling a teensy bit jealous of the kind of lifestyle that's possible over there.

Even normal, non wealthy families seemed to be able to live really outdoorsy lifestyles where they can hike and hunt and boat amongst the gorgeous scenery. I feel like in the UK, even rurally it isn't possible as everywhere is so densely populated especially when the weather is nice. The weather is also a limiting factor!

I'm obviously not jealous of the MAGA/Trump craziness or the crappy healthcare and all the rest of the political stuff but purely the lifestyle side of things, it seems so much more possible to live in that free, outdoorsy kind of way.

And the schools seemed to have a much more positive, enthusiastic culture with things like school sports and dances, compared to the UK teens in their drab uniforms staring at their phones the whole time in their miserable, run down secondary school.

aibu? Anyone live this kind of life in the UK? If so, where?!

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Fransgran · 12/04/2025 12:40

I lived there for 11 years. Life style, outdoors or indoors, depends totally on where you live and how financially comfortable you are. Like everywhere else.

GreatCyanCrab · 12/04/2025 12:38

It’s a TV programme - surely it’s going to focus on the good bits and downplay the rubbish bits?

It is also perfectly possible to live an outdoorsy lifestyle in lots of the UK.

atesomanybananas · 12/04/2025 12:36

What came across to me was the racism against anyone that wasn’t white.

MrsWhites · 12/04/2025 12:36

I understand the envy of the outdoors lifestyle and the more positive outlook etc but those kids also go to school with the risk of being shot in their classrooms.