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To be slightly horrified now by what I ate as a kid in the 80s?

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NotWantingToBeRude · 12/04/2025 02:47

Breakfast was a bowl of either Coco Pops, Frosties or Sugar Puffs. (At least they didn't sell Froot Loops over here I suppose).

Packed lunch in my My Little Pony or Care Bears lunchbox was a sandwich (usually some form of processed meat, occasionally even jam), a pack of crisps, a chocolate bar and a juice box (Ribena or Um Bongo). Never any fruit.

Snack on arriving home from school would be not crisps and chocolate, possibly a Pepperami. Sometimes we’d stop off for pic ‘n’ mix.

Dinner included a full dessert every single night, usually with custard or cream.

Is it just me or would this not be considered so acceptable now?

OP posts:
Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 12/04/2025 09:35

I grew up in the 60's, Fruit was very very expensive relatively, as was meat. Many meals were largely comprised of potatoes and snacks were almost unheard of. Milk was pricey, we all drank squash and water was free and squash could be diluted down to almost nothing. No sweets, except maybe once a week and turned outdoors to play in all weathers.

We were a healthy bunch, on the whole. There was no real knowledge of 'nutrition', your aim was to fill everyone up and keep them full until the next meal. I remember even packets of crisps being a real treat!

But I still hate potatoes to this day...

anonymous98 · 12/04/2025 09:33

JandamiHash · 12/04/2025 08:14

TBH what’s more worrying is the over-anxiety around food that is absolutely fine. Cereal for breakfast - so what. A sandwich - it’s hardly arsenic.

MN seems to be full of people who seem to want their eating disorders validated

Edited

Spot on.

Magicpaintbrush · 12/04/2025 09:32

My daily diet as a child in the 80s was really similar to yours OP, except it was fish paste sandwiches in the packed lunch. It's the pudding after every meal that was the norm throughout childhood (lunch AND dinner), that I honestly think has done lasting damage to me. I have a terrible sweet tooth but also never feel like a meal is complete or finished until I've had something sweet at the end (not fruit) - it's massively programmed into my psyche and I've struggled my whole adult life to break the cycle and I can't. I feel agitated and unable to settle until pudding has been eaten, can't focus on anything else. I am about 1.5 stone overweight, I hate it, this compulsion to include pudding with every meal. I also still have that mental programming that Saturday is 'fun day' even though it is now invariably taken up with cleaning the house which I hate, and I still get that 'new start of term, new pencil case' feeling at the beginning of september - I'm 46. I honestly feel programmed by my childhood.

HelenWheels · 12/04/2025 09:30

oh yes nesquick was my favourite drink

RavenLaw · 12/04/2025 09:27

NotWantingToBeRude · 12/04/2025 04:55

Well there was virtually no fresh fruit or veg in there plus an awful lot of refined sugar and empty calories.

Yes, those things have been demonstrated to have negative impacts on long-term health.

Just because families have different budgets surely doesn’t mean that encouraging healthy food choices in children becomes irrelevant and can’t be discussed?

I’m not blaming my parents as virtually everyone I know lived like this then. I would have stood out a mile of I’d shown up at school with organic oatcakes, carrot and celery sticks and houmus. Just as my own DC would stand out now if they showed up with a jam sandwich, a pack of Monster Munch, a Club biscuit and an Um Bongo (wouldn’t that warrant a letter home now?).

Can confirm, I was the child whose parents sent her in with pitta bread, veg sticks and home made hummus, and I wasn't allowed a Care Bear lunch box either (parents had Strong Views on plastic items being marketed at children only to end up in landfill). I attribute my career in law to the negotiating skills I learned swapping a carrot stick for a monster munch😂

aphroditeflighty · 12/04/2025 09:26

In the 80's, I had to have several fillings around the age of 8 or 9 because of all the sugary crap around.I did use to brush my teeth twice a day, but clearly it wasn't enough. My mum was a stay at home housewife though and would cook different meals every day, but deserts, snacks, sweets were rife, and we'd drink sugary cups of tea with our meals.

lavenderlou · 12/04/2025 09:21

I had a mixture of very healthy and quite unhealthy. Similar lunches to OP but always had fruit. We had cereal- often weetabix or ready brek but sugar was liberally sprinkled and I sometimes had sugary cereals. I loved "Toppas" - sugar crusted shredded wheat! Dinner was usually homemade - my Mum was quite adventurous for the time and we had a lot of vegetarian food from the Cranks cookbook. We also sometimes had fundus crispy pancakes and mini kievs though. Pudding every night. Sometimes homemade but also stuff like tinned rice pudding, or my favourite Birds lemon crunch.

I don't know where this idea that all 80s kids were outside playing in the fresh air every day comes from though. I was either watching TV or reading a book in my bedroom.

Gowlett · 12/04/2025 09:17

We had toast or cereal for breakfast.

Packed lunch, white bread sandwich, ham or Easy Singles.
Juice carton or milk. Pot of strawberry yoghurt.

Sweets in the shop on the way home.

Homemade soup & toast when we got in.

Cottage Pie or similar for dinner. Maybe some carrots.
Don’t remember getting dessert. Or any fruit apart from bananas.

Sausage, beans, chips & ice cream if we ate out.
Pick & Mix, crisps, donuts, when we were out shopping.

My mum was at home & made all of our food.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 12/04/2025 09:15

My diet in the 90s was very similar. Breakfast was sugary cereal - coco pops, Frosties, ricicles, sugar puffs etc.

My lunchbox would have been white bread sandwiches, packet of crisps. Toffee Crisp, Club or Penguin biscuit. No fruit or veg that I remember. Drink would have been squash.

After school snack was normally cake or biscuits and a glass of Nesquik/ Crusha milkshake.

Dinner/ tea would have been chicken nuggets, sausages or fish fingers with oven chips, potato waffles, smiley faces etc. We would normally have baked bean, peas or carrots on the side so I guess at least that’s one veg! We always had a pudding too.

I did have a friend who wasn’t allowed anything like that, she would have veg sticks and rice cakes with whole nut peanut butter and fruit in her lunchbox along with dips and other things I didn’t recognise, she could well have had hummus but the rest of us in the class definitely treated her food with a lot of suspicion!

Natsku · 12/04/2025 09:11

I was born in the 80s but had such a different diet to my friends growing up. My mum grew up on a farm in Lapland so very different food attitudes which she brought over with her to the UK, plus she had coeliac disease at a time when there wasn't all the gf options there are today so all our meals were cooked from scratch with plenty of veg, our packed lunches were very often home made bread (she made normal bread for us, gf for herself) with things like pate and cucumber or tongue, always fruit and never things like Penguin or Club bars (which made me so jealous of my friends' lunches) but we did always have a packet of crisps. Pudding was only on Sundays and birthdays/Christmas.

I remember loving it when I'd go round a friend's house for tea and get some frozen processed food and pudding on a weekday! But looking back as an adult, I'm very grateful for the diet I had as a child.

HelenWheels · 12/04/2025 09:11

i agree, we had no snacks,
apart from one biscuit in the afternoon
although i did have milky tea with lots of sugar so the spoon would stand up, but that was the 1970s

Lemonyyy · 12/04/2025 09:06

This is really interesting! I ate nothing but coco pops for breakfast for probably about 12 years, and definitely had treats in my lunch box - I was a child of the 90s so think those colourful lunchpack Pringles tubs, mini Jaffa cakes, BNs, penguins, clubs etc.

BUT my mum was also a fantastic home cook and we ate delicious home cooked meals every night, along with always having plenty of fresh fruit and veg in our lunch. “Snack” was also really not in our vocabulary back then - if we wanted something outside of meals it really was “appleorangeorbanana” as my mum would say. I have tried to emulate that with my kids!

thismummyslife · 12/04/2025 09:05

I see what you mean! I suppose these we are more aware of healthier eating and we have healthy schools etc don’t forget also that I bet the majority of us were fitter and running around all over the place burning off all the sugar whereas these days more kids are likely to be just sat down watching tv and gaming x

Kneidlach · 12/04/2025 09:03

LobeliaBaggins · 12/04/2025 05:08

Pretty awful diet. I grew up in the 80s too..No one I know ate like this. Borderline neglect.
Even poor people can provide fruit and veg.

OPs childhood diet was pretty similar to mine, and the lunchbox contents closely match what I and all my friends ate. And we came from a pretty varied mix of working class and middle class backgrounds. So I don’t think you can just say OPs family were an outlier.

Family dinners in my 80s childhood consisted exclusively of frozen stuff you ‘put in the oven for 20 mins at 200C’. Sometimes there were e.g. frozen peas as well, but thinking about it now, the serving size of any veg back then was tiny, compared to what I’d make now.

Also I have found myself chuckling at the rose-tinted view on this thread that 80s diets were offset by all kids being very active. I spent the 80s trying to avoid PE, I never cycled anywhere, I loved reading so spent loads of time in my room with a book, and particularly when we got satellite tv in the late 80s I watched hours and hours of tv each day.

Youaremythtaken · 12/04/2025 09:01

Gosh there are some odd replies to the op's perfectly harmless post.

I have to say I envied kids like you when I was young. My Annie lunchbox contained wholemeal bread sandwiches, fruit, maybe a yoghurt or some nuts and a club or a wagon wheel. No crisps allowed! Squash was very diluted and we never had pop.
My mum cooked all our dinners from scratch and dessert was a piece of fruit.
We weren't allowed sugary cereal either, we had stuff like Weetabix and readybrek.
It's only as an adult I appreciate what a great job she did of keeping us healthy, despite me being a really fussy eater.
At the time, all I wanted was to eat like my friend who's mum had a deep fat fryer and a soda stream!

glittereyelash · 12/04/2025 08:58

It was the opposite in my house. One weekly shop was done on a Thursday. The small amount of treats bought were gone by Sunday. Breakfast was weetabix, porridge or toast, lunch was a sandwich, apple, banana and yogert, dinner was meat, potato and veg. No such thing as a snack in my house maybe a digestive if you were lucky. Only got sugary cereal for easter and Christmas and dessert on a Sunday was usually trifle or apple tart.

Namechangetheyarewatching · 12/04/2025 08:55

Also kids back then had 15min morning break, 1 hour lunch break, 15 min afternoon break and we got out in the evening and went biking, swimming, youth club, hanging round with our mates, playing street games and getting exercise.

Now our kids are locked up at school, locked up at home, they are like caged animals, no wonder there are so many behaviour problems.

I don't think some processed ham was the problem

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 12/04/2025 08:52

Growsomeballswoman · 12/04/2025 08:37

Kids in the 80s were no way as obese as now. I don’t remember any fat kids at my school. We all are the same kind of food

I WAS the fat kid at my school ! Grin I didn’t even have breakfast , or lunch. There were 4 others in my class too.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 12/04/2025 08:51

Thunderpants88 · 12/04/2025 03:50

“Horrified?”

you were fed. There is a cost of living crisis where people are currently choosing between heat, transport and food.

read the room

Oh god. I am so sick of people churning this reply out for all sorts of posts. And this one is especially ridiculous as it's thinking retrospectively.

Yes there is a col crisis. But this is a public forum where people have mixed incomes and more importantly can post what they like. You are NOT the thread police so bore off.

Op. It was a different time with less awareness of upf and getting your 5 a day. I bet you were probably more active than children are these days with no tablets or phones and less choice on the television. No harm done

TheMovieFlopped · 12/04/2025 08:50

I think I would be more horrified if I grew up during the war and had fuck all to eat because everything was rationed. Growing up in the 80s was a sign of the times just like it was in previous years and just like it is now.

Teaandtoastserveddaily · 12/04/2025 08:48

JandamiHash · 12/04/2025 08:15

Exactly. Kids are so much fatter now. You can see it with your own eyes. We’re doing something wrong.

Great username!

turkeyboots · 12/04/2025 08:47

I was an 80s Irish child and my mother told me we were too poor to have Turkey Drummers and Billy Bear sandwich meat and all the foods we now associate with the 80s. I was mortified by her veg and lentil heavy home cooking, refusal to buy fizzy drinks and all I wanted for my birthday was a shop bought cake. Fish soup in a flask for school lunches still makes me question her sanity, even though she was feeding us well.

Coffeeishot · 12/04/2025 08:47

I don't think it was a "utopia" or whatever I just said we walked and there wasn't as much snacking. It's hardly over exaggerating. Kids go through chubby stages even now so ",80s photos" will show chubbier kids.

ClawsandEffect · 12/04/2025 08:45

Definitely nothing like my children had in the 80s. They still moan now that their lunch boxes were all healthy food while their friends had good stuff like chocolate and crisps. The way they carry on you'd think childline should've been involved!

For us, the 80s were about whole-food and homemade. I'm more relaxed as a nana but still prefer to make things myself than to buy them. Which works well when considering UPF.

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 12/04/2025 08:44

I am so jealous!!!

My lunch was Vogels bread (which if you bend it, it just breaks in half because of all the seeds lol)... But it gets worse because the filling was vegemite and tomato slices.

Then I would also have some fruit... But not nice fruit... Usually a floury apple or a banana with brown spots.

My friends soft had white bread with ham and crisps etc and I was green with envy! They are all slim these days.

But I've struggled with moderation and disordered eating ever since childhood because of how heavily healthy was prioritised. I became obsessed with the foods I wasn't allowed to have.

The grass is always greener and there is a balance, but I know what I would have chosen.

And it wasn't due to a lack of money, we were well off. Vogels bread cost a fortune.

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