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To take recreational drugs in your 50s

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Isthisokdoyouthink · 11/04/2025 19:34

Just that really. Bunch of married fathers going out and taking recreational drugs (concealed up one of them’s rectum) - one hid it from his wife, one has a wife that does it too, the other I don’t know.

What do you think?

AIBU to feel a bit eurgh about it and a bit like they never grew up?

YABU - it’s fine. Each to their own

YANBU - it is a bit yuk.

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Maddy70 · 11/04/2025 23:02

Isthisokdoyouthink · 11/04/2025 19:43

I think it was MDMA. I can’t bear the fakeness. All lovey dovey and then just awful
on a come down. They are pretty vacuous people though. Very caught up in their own wonderfulness.

I used to take a lot of mdna. I never had a comedown ever it's a sociable drug and makes the world a little bit happier for a while if they put some on the water instead of flouride there would be no war or division

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 23:02

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saltinesandcoffeecups · 11/04/2025 23:01

This thread is making me chuckle… it’s reminding me of the scene from AbFab where Saffy and her friend are at Uni and going on about all the other students drinking and smoking weed.

Funny my DH can’t wait to retire and try weed for the first time. Never did it as a teen or young adult, then got a job with regular drug tests. So he’ll be trying it for the first time in his 50s. It’s legal where I am so no ethical issues!

To take recreational drugs in your 50s
Aworldofwonder · 11/04/2025 22:57

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 22:50

Exactly. It's hilarious how some people think they're so cool, and worldy wise, and 'edgy' because they 'do drugs.' How embarrassing. 😬 They sound about 16.

By the way @Aworldofwonder I have travelled to about 2 dozen different countries (over 5 continents) during my lifetime. A few with work, some with family, a few with friends, some with DH, a few alone.

I will bet my house that YOU have never left the UK though. 😆

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Sorry, are you addressing me? You seem confused.

Who does drugs?

Who thinks drugs are cool?

And do that matter; who is in the UK?

I'll tell you what IS cool however; those emojis you littered your post with. Now that is edgy...

Fhhl · 11/04/2025 22:51

Isn't there a whole thing on overdosing on mdma? Or maybe drinking too much water and dieing

Blinkingbother · 11/04/2025 22:50

I judge anyone doing any type of illegal drug - they are directly causing the destruction of other young people’s (teens more often than most) lives. If they want to destroy their own kids lives that’s fine, they should stop f-ing up other people’s.

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 22:50

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 11/04/2025 22:38

Well aren't you the cool girl.

Exactly. It's hilarious how some people think they're so cool, and worldy wise, and 'edgy' because they 'do drugs.' How embarrassing. 😬 They sound about 16.

By the way @Aworldofwonder I have travelled to about 2 dozen different countries (over 5 continents) during my lifetime. A few with work, some with family, a few with friends, some with DH, a few alone.

I will bet my house that YOU have never left the UK though. 😆

PooksBear · 11/04/2025 22:49

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What is your qualification? No drug is safe.

Amanitacae · 11/04/2025 22:48

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 22:46

Are they though? 🤔

If you are connected to the tech industry: famously and notoriously, yes.

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 22:46

Amanitacae · 11/04/2025 22:45

Actually a good percentage Silicon Valley are doing recreational drugs. Many of highest intelligence/‘brightest bulbs’.

Are they though? 🤔

Amanitacae · 11/04/2025 22:45

BatchCookBabe · 11/04/2025 21:53

Exactly this. Not the brightest bulbs on the Christmas tree who take recreational drugs is it? And anyone who defends it needs to give their head a wobble!

Actually a good percentage Silicon Valley are doing recreational drugs. Many of highest intelligence/‘brightest bulbs’.

Jk987 · 11/04/2025 22:45

I voted yabu because you didn’t give any information about who these people are in relation to you and how their behaviour affects you? Or are they just strangers on the internet?

Kreisler · 11/04/2025 22:44

These things creep up on you. One minute you're in a bath at a house party, the next you're fishing a hatchback and 500kg of cocaine from your rectum.

Aworldofwonder · 11/04/2025 22:41

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 11/04/2025 22:38

Well aren't you the cool girl.

You've lost me.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 11/04/2025 22:40

Isthisokdoyouthink · 11/04/2025 19:53

To get past security.

Wouldn't inside their sock have the same effect and less revolting...?!

Misses the point...

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 11/04/2025 22:38

Aworldofwonder · 11/04/2025 22:13

I'm confident based on @BatchCookBabe 's other posts she has never been outside the UK.

Well aren't you the cool girl.

Drug trafficking

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https://www.nationalcrimeagency.gov.uk/what-we-do/crime-threats/drug-trafficking

Ghosttofu99 · 11/04/2025 22:38

Abenny · 11/04/2025 20:05

A few of DH’s friends have got into coke in their late 40s/50s. It’s grim. We recently had a party and they came and behaved terribly and were just so out of sync with everyone else.

Also (bit shallow) I can’t help but think it’s a bit undignified at 50. You can get away with idiocy better at 18.

Plus you’d hope a 50yo would have some understanding of the horrible criminal world that underlies the whole thing.

We had a house party years ago and basically said to one friend not to bring person X who is drug nob head so instead they turned up with drug nob head Y 🙄 who we barely know. (Presumably because they were so desperate to smoke) They all took themselves off the the bathroom and stood in the bath tub to smoke 🤦🏼‍♀️ it was pretty obvious because of all the muddy footprints in the bath tub. Ironically if it’s just weed I actually don’t care too much about how people want to spend their time but, like lots of things in life, its quite hard for people not to get addicted or to recognise they are addicted because they can still function day to day. It does change behaviour though. Acting out of sync is an accurate description. If they had been upfront they could have just used our balcony, but instead they snuck around behaving like teens and I had to clean a bath tub for no reason.

Nowadays it does all seem a bit unethical with what a terrible impact the drug trade has on communities.

lifeonmars100 · 11/04/2025 22:37

I used to take drugs and I used to get drunk, I matured out of both. Getting wrecked on any substance as one gets older is embarrassing and pathetic.

Kreisler · 11/04/2025 22:35

For all those saying they'd never do drugs due to the supply chain : I hope you never drink Guinness. Not only do they traffic those leprechauns, they make them ride horses.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 11/04/2025 22:32

SleepQuest33 · 11/04/2025 20:02

Disgusting!

I hate people who take drugs, making it sound like it’s cool and not hurting anyone.

they have no idea the havoc they are causing indirectly due to their actions. Gangs, drug cartels, child lines, they all exist because of idiots using drugs causing demand for them. I hope they get what they deserve.

This exactly.

localnotail · 11/04/2025 22:32

Drugs that have been up someone's arse? Never OK

JorgyPorgy · 11/04/2025 22:30

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And how do you chemically test it to check it hasn’t been laced? It’s hardly an FDA approved controlled substance is it? Unless you are a chemist and make it yourself

StupidBoy · 11/04/2025 22:25

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And how is one supposed to tell the difference at the point you are taking it?
What a ridiculous comment.

Wishyouwerehere50 · 11/04/2025 22:20

HardyKoala · 11/04/2025 22:17

They hired him as the drugs Czar because of his expertise then sacked him when his conclusions showed almost all drugs were safer than alcohol.

Yes! It's diabolical but you can believe it really when we take a closer look

HardyKoala · 11/04/2025 22:17

They hired him as the drugs Czar because of his expertise then sacked him when his conclusions showed almost all drugs were safer than alcohol.

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