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CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:31

A week ago on Wednesday DD had what I thought was a viral infection. Temp, off food etc. it seemed to go by the Friday so I thought nothing of it

On Sunday I had symptoms of strep, sudden sore throat, headache so ended up on penicillin

Wednesday just gone I took her straight to the walk in centre as she was really lethargic, fever and swollen glands. Dr said there said swollen throat with some white streaks so tonsillitis, prescribed Pen V 4 times a day. I gave her 2 doses on Wednesday which I’ve had to conceal in Coca Cola as it’s the only thing that masks the taste.

She seemed abit better yesterday but today the temp seems to be creeping back up. She’s got some diarrhoea the same as me so I know the PenV is getting into her system. She’s not eating properly. Maybe chocolate stars and mini cookies but aside from that nothing. Drinking with encouragement and weeing.

She’s not lethargic til the temp creeps up. I’m worried re the not eating and the fevers, she won’t open her mouth either and I know she has an adult molar that just came through with a big white patch on the gum and I think it’s making her abit dribbly.

She also keeps getting a really flushed face, and I’m almost certain she’s got strawberry tongue so I’m thinking more scarlet fever. Im not sure what to do, should the antibiotics have kicked in by now? I’m really anxious re sepsis etc and I do suffer badly with health anxiety.

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CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 19:31

She drinks it like a shot. I put the PenV in the lid it came with, and top it up with pop. That’s the only way I can get it in her and she does take it in one thankfully

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CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 19:30

She’s drank more today than she has all week tbh. Does make a funny movement with her mouth a lot which my rational head is saying is the tooth but the anxious part of me is like “quinsy”

Shes not dribbling in the sense of letting it drip, it’s more like a wet mouth. Like a baby gets when they’re teething

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Strictlymad · 11/04/2025 19:30

I owldnt blame you for going to an and e, I also wouldn’t blame you for not. It sounds one of those borderline ones at mo. Generally for scarlet fever it’s phenoxymethal penicillin for 10 days. Antibiotics should be having an effect after the second full day. Not sure if this is true or not but I was told once not to mix antibiotics with anything- and it must be consumed in one shot- not drink over a period of time. Tricky I know with a little one but a bribery of chocolate after the syringe or something?

KidsDr · 11/04/2025 19:22

Pen V does cover strep (/Scarlett fever); she should have 10 days.

If she's drinking lots that's very reassuring, you could see how she's doing overnight/tomorrow. Children with quincy/abscess will typically sort of sit, looking v miserable, letting the saliva run from their mouth because they are so uncomfortable. Obviously, they do progress gradually towards that point from having a "normal" tonsillitis, so it's a judgement call.

Nevertheless don't worry about what anyone will think if you do decide to take her to A&E. Working in AE and seeing plenty of relatively well children with tonsillitis - it's no problem and happy to reassure. Sensible doctors understand AE is the last place you want to drag a 5 year old at bedtime and that you only want what's best for your daughter.

ScaryM0nster · 11/04/2025 19:20

A good basic check is does she perk up, or constantly lethargic.

You’d expect cycles with medication peaks and troughs. That molar looks sore - teething stuff is all compatible with antibiotics. As is gargling salt which will almost certainly help keep that a bit calmer.

Perking up for chocolate and biscuits is a good indicator of a childhood lurgy rather than anything sinister.

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 19:18

She’s okay drinking so I’ve been loading her up on Apple juice and yazoo for the calories and the nutrients 🤣

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Wakemeupbe4yougogo · 11/04/2025 19:17

Last time I had tonsillitis (late last year) I could barely swallow let alone eat. I don't think I ate for 6 days in total, just managed protein shakes with lots of ice in. Can you try something like paediatric shakes for her? They taste like milk shakes if you blend with ice. It's a really nasty illness, leaves your whole body feeling horrific and I'd give her a good 48 hours on the antibiotics before worrying.

teraculum29 · 11/04/2025 19:15

that look like scarlet fever, my 10 year old had it just before christmas. She was prescribed 10day course of antibiotic, but it wasn't penicillin, unfortunately dont remember the name

DearBee · 11/04/2025 19:13

So strep throat / bacterial tonsillitis and scarlet fever are treated by the same antibiotic... at least they were for my kids. Pen V x4 a day for 10 days. If she comes out in a fine, pale pink sandpapery rash, that's classic scarlet fever. In which case take her back to the docs. Disclaimer: I'm not medical.

You know your child so I am not going to tell you not to go to A&E. However she does just sound... ill. If she's drinking and only lethargic when her temp spikes, that's a positive sign, I think. Do you have any support with her? A partner / family?

KidsDr · 11/04/2025 19:11

She is drooling and has trismus (inability to open mouth normally), in the context of tonsillitis especially with fever ongoing/recurring at 48 hours on Abx - these are red flags and yes I would take her to A&E. Don't be alarmed but I think that is the right course of action as I would want to rule out a tonsillar abscess/quincy. They are treatable but do need to be seen in hospital. Hopefully as you suspect it is just the molar contributing but I don't think this is an overreaction.

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 19:03

I think it’s the tooth that’s stopping her opening her mouth tbh. It’s a back molar and it’s got that horrible sore skin flap on it.

See below (can you tell I have health anxiety btw I take pics of everything 🤣)

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Theunamedcat · 11/04/2025 19:01

The cookies are good hard enough to scrape some crud off her throat

I've had an ulerated tonsil I couldn't eat anything at all

Honestly she probably has a sore jaw which is why she won't open her mouth I'm assuming she won't pass the chin to chest check either? Ds used to fail that on the meningitis question from 111 so they woukd say A&E NOW! They sent an ambulance once he literally had tonsillitis we knew he did we just wanted an out of hours appointment but they made us wait 6 ish hours for an ambulance instead

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CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:57

And also does this vile PenV work mixed with Diet Coke? She has ASD so she can taste the bloody thing in everything except diet pop.

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CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:54

Can I ask when to expect the temps to stop spiking etc. and do I need to ask for more Pen V as a precaution for scarlet fever.

I will re read these next week when she’s better and think ffs neurotic again

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TequilaNights · 11/04/2025 18:53

If she has tonsillitis, she has antibiotics, all her symptoms are consistent with it, and sounds like her natural body defences fighting the infection.

Make sure she is taking in fluids, don't stress too much about not eating, she will have reduced appetite and a sore throat.

Keep her on paracetamol too, take the edge off the pain.

Tonsillitis can be excruciating, last time I had it, as a full grown adult I was sobbing and was in bed for days, it was awful.

That said, she is your child, you know her better than anyone, if you are concerned, 111, walk in or a&e.

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:50

It’s the fact she won’t open her mouth what’s scaring me. I dunno. I’m thinking all sorts bloody scarlet fever, dental abscess from the new tooth, quinsy. I hate her being poorly, she didn’t go to nursery and only started school in September so it’s like all the nursery bugs she’s getting right now

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MagicalMystical · 11/04/2025 18:47

Don’t sweat what food she’s prepared to eat right now. Give her what she wants and offer her other options too, but no pressure if she doesn’t want them.

KnutsfordCityLimits · 11/04/2025 18:46

LoopyLooooo · 11/04/2025 18:36

Ok, I think I probably would if she gets worse over the weekend.

Although A&E will likely be very busy so you might have a very long wait.

The separate children’s A&E generally isn’t as busy, not that I’m saying that this is necessarily an A&E trip, but there often aren’t the same patterns as in adult, e.g. it might be really quiet overnight.

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:46

It’s a 5 day one

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Dontoftensayit · 11/04/2025 18:45

She’s on the correct antibiotic for potential strep throat (is it a 10 day course?)

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:42

Yes she’s had penicillin before so no allergy

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Purpleturtle43 · 11/04/2025 18:41

Has she had penicillin before as she could be allergic? My son had antibiotics for the first time (aged 10) this year and after a day or 2 came out in a rash which was diagnosed as Scarlet Fever, for which he got more antibiotics but he started vomitting after each dose and eventually I worked out he had a penicillin allergy. They don't test for it but as soon as he came off then he was fine.

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:41

She doesn’t want yoghurt or ice cream. Just bloody chocolate, jelly beans and Maryland cookies

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shellyleppard · 11/04/2025 18:40

@CoconutSky would she eat some yoghurt??? It will be cool for her mouth x

CoconutSky · 11/04/2025 18:40

I can go to the walk in centre it’ll probably be quicker. Do they prescribe anything different for scarlet fever.

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