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Are dentists creating problems that aren’t there?

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tetleydd · 11/04/2025 18:11

I’m referring to the cosmetic side of dentistry. At each visit I’m asked “are you happy with your smile ? “ This pisses me off every time. They question the straightness and colour.

My 15 year old daughter recently had an overbite corrected via a NHS referral. It wasn’t even that bad but as it was a functional problem ok. Now they are recommending braces to correct the straightness. They really aren’t that bad. There feels pressure to just go along with this. My daughter isn’t to bothered but is refusing train tracks. So the dentist has suggested Invisalign at a cost of £3600!! They don’t even blink when they say it. A few of her friends have this option. To me it’s a ridiculous price for a cosmetic treatment. Why do people agree to this craziness?! If she was unhappy and depressed by the appearance of her teeth obviously I’d help but surely this is unreasonable. If I go along with this am I basically saying yes daughter your teeth are crooked and im willing to pay almost £4000 to make you perfect.

When did we all need perfectly straight and whiter than white teeth? It looks odd to me when they are.

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Deathinparadisefan · 11/04/2025 18:35

I don’t think perfectly straight white teeth look natural. I have spent a lot of money on implants but they’re for functionality rather than cosmetic reasons. I have not and will not consider Invisalign. I’ve read about it though and the retainers have to be worn for 18 hours a day. When teeth are finally straight, you have to keep up the maintenance otherwise they can go crooked again,

Reallyyyyyy · 11/04/2025 18:26

Yanbu at all. My dentist keeps asking me if I want invisalign. I had braces for 5 years as a a teen. Head brace at night. The bottom retainer never fit and they wouldn't re do it as I had turned 18 and wanted to charge. I couldn't afford it so they moved.

I have explained this ti my dentist. I don't want to go through that all again at 33 years old. I'm happy with my slightly wonky lower teeth. Its one tooth. I'm happy with it. But they still ask every time.

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