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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
PandoraSox · 10/04/2025 22:17

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:38

@AquaPeer good point. I also looked up the etymology of snow peas and I don't think snow has anything to do with them! I think most countries are fond of those pea/bean things that you can eat from a pod though. I quite like eating the pods, that might be weird in every country idk

A Portuguese restaurant near me seves a set menu which has peas as a side dish to everything.

I love peas. I heard that smashed peas are the new smashed avocado. Not sure if true?

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:17

I eat hot rabbit food. I get no judgment from either side.

Planted my sweet peas a bit early but they’re coming up now. Not tempted to nibble them tho even with my rabbit themed culinaries. Too cold.

MightAsWellBeGretel · 10/04/2025 22:16

No, it's not a 'UK specific' thing.

I've never heard of a porridge that's a full English, either.

Do you think supermarkets would stock cereal if this were true? Or salad? What would happen to the poor cucumbers and cherry tomatoes?

Batshit.

Renamed · 10/04/2025 22:16

I’ll take the soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses please

(Otherwise with no pulses and no whatever it would be… water?)

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:15

Toptotoe · 10/04/2025 22:14

My husband and I had this discussion earlier. He thinks it’s still too soon. I say not. I may have to check out what Monty has to say about it.

That’s a very sensible plan. Let’s wait until Monty had shared his wisdom tomorrow Wink

RedHelenB · 10/04/2025 22:15

Both sets of grandparents had a fried breakfast every morning and a hot lunch and tea And they all lived to a decent age.

Shirkingly · 10/04/2025 22:15

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:48

Not concerned about anyone's eating patterns.
Just notice a thing when I see it.
It's not my problem, but maybe it's why we are getting too thin as a culture !

Big hot meals are a thing, several times a day, or people claim to be starving and have to go on a weird exclusionary diet.

I know I'm not the only one who thinks this, only have to see other threads.
Wanna pretend this is odd? Have at it!

As a non-Brit, British people are notorious for their sandwich lunches, which are considered poor food.

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:15

doubleshotcappuccino · 10/04/2025 22:12

@Growlybear83no way ! At the same time you and I both thought .. massive chicken !!

But we’re obviously very greedy if Batchcookbabe can eke a chicken out for two months 😟

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:14

BatchCookBabe · 10/04/2025 22:12

2 weeks? Ha ha. I can make a chicken last 2 months!

My DSIL once suggested a chicken would feed 10 at an Easter lunch Grin

Toptotoe · 10/04/2025 22:14

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:30

I'm going to do my peas.

My husband and I had this discussion earlier. He thinks it’s still too soon. I say not. I may have to check out what Monty has to say about it.

WinterBones · 10/04/2025 22:14

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

why in your eyes is porridge and fruit 'a lot of food'??

i eat that every morning, and i can confirm, as its pre-portioned, its a whole 206 calories... such a HUGE amount of food. gee, no wonder i'm obese.

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 10/04/2025 22:13

I’m a Fatty McFatFace and only eat one hot meal a day. Make of that what you will.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:13

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 22:09

It means go for it. Slightly old fashioned.

Thank you. I speak English and understand a dialect that has its roots in Anglo-Saxon, am fairly well read and have never come across that saying before. That’s supposing I’m not losing my marbles in my dotage.

OutwiththeOutCrowd · 10/04/2025 22:13

I wish we could all just sprout green fronds and photosynthesize as we go. That would remove a lot of the angst around food and free up time for other stuff too.

CassiasC · 10/04/2025 22:13

Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.

I’m struggling to imagine a typical lunch including salad or soup and a mound of lentils or beans on the side. Not exactly a typical boots meal deal, is it? Or do you mean salads and soups made from pulses? Either way, I’m not seeing the problem here. I doubt many people are eating chickpeas in quantities that could harm their health.

BatchCookBabe · 10/04/2025 22:12

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

2 weeks? Ha ha. I can make a chicken last 2 months!

StRochSixEight · 10/04/2025 22:12

What does the food temperature have to do with anything? You could have a hot bowl of porridge or a cold bowl of overnight oats that were pretty much the same nutritionally speaking. And loads of other examples obviously. This OP is demented.

crackofdoom · 10/04/2025 22:12

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 10/04/2025 22:01

With warm in front of it it beats picky tea for the 🤮 factor

No one has said rabbit food in reference to a salad since 1987, unless they are over 90 or an actual rabbit

For me it's "snack", particularly a "tasty" one. Aaaaargh...

doubleshotcappuccino · 10/04/2025 22:12

@Growlybear83no way ! At the same time you and I both thought .. massive chicken !!

SeventeenClovesOfGarlic · 10/04/2025 22:12

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:48

Not concerned about anyone's eating patterns.
Just notice a thing when I see it.
It's not my problem, but maybe it's why we are getting too thin as a culture !

Big hot meals are a thing, several times a day, or people claim to be starving and have to go on a weird exclusionary diet.

I know I'm not the only one who thinks this, only have to see other threads.
Wanna pretend this is odd? Have at it!

Is the thread about people eating too much warm food, a mysterious culture of people being too thin, people being starving, people being on specific diets?
So confusing.

OnTheSick · 10/04/2025 22:11

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

Hilarious I found this on this thread but....Do you actually think we're safe to plant them out? Mine are going good on the kitchen windowsill but I'm nervous to get them out!

doubleshotcappuccino · 10/04/2025 22:11

Can’t be eating that much if we can get a week of meals out of one chicken #thisismumsnet

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:10

PinkyFlamingo · 10/04/2025 22:08

You seem obsessed with the words "large" and "big". No idea how you know the size of people's portions mind you.

Quite odd isn’t it? Perhaps the Op has done extensive research measuring other people calorie intake and their calorific intake.

Lourdes12 · 10/04/2025 22:10

People eat too much food and too large portions. Then they moan about their weight