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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

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AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

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ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 23:11

Also I really need to up my gardening game - I feel like Percy Thrower if I prune my sad hydrangea and throw some Aldi seeds in a pot!

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:10

What would folk say is the best tomatoes to grow - which variety not too fussy, good cropper and tastes great? It always feels to me like you have to pick for one of those options, hope to get two out of three but never all three.

disclaimers - I have a south facing wall and bed but no greenhouse. And I’m a both a shoddy gardener and just clumsy.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:09

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 23:06

We find red onions are well worth growing as the ones in the shops seem to have much less flavour. Ours are very pokey strong.

Good point re taste

One year we bought some so-called trombone squash seeds thinking it would be fun to gift DD's brass teacher a suitably shaped squash. They do not look like trombones:

To think people eat one heck of a lot!
Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:08

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 23:06

We find red onions are well worth growing as the ones in the shops seem to have much less flavour. Ours are very pokey strong.

I bloody loooove red onions. 😻

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 23:06

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:04

No vampires. Probably terrible breath.

Onions are beautiful but they are so cheap to buy in the shops I can't justify them. I wish I had an asparagus bed.

We find red onions are well worth growing as the ones in the shops seem to have much less flavour. Ours are very pokey strong.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:04

No vampires. Probably terrible breath.

Onions are beautiful but they are so cheap to buy in the shops I can't justify them. I wish I had an asparagus bed.

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 23:03

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

DH (Irish heritage) always plants out his chitted spuds starting on Good Friday each year. Says it's traditional. Those would be earlies or second earlies, including Red Duke of York.
But I don't understand how that works, what with Easter falling between late March and late April, depending on when Lent starts. Which depends on when Shrove Tuesday and Ash Wednesday fall in February...

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:03

Comtesse · 10/04/2025 22:53

I don’t eat ladies, I prefer a massive salad. Thanks.

Commas save lives.

To think people eat one heck of a lot!
Lilyhatesjaz · 10/04/2025 23:03

I was planning to plant some onions tomorrow, they are one of my favourite things to grow, I like the way they kind of climb out of the ground by themselves.

ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 23:02

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

Shameful given the cost of living crisis - in my day it would last a month

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 23:01

Think I will be dreaming about veg tonight 😂

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:00

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:57

I have this issue with garlic. Planted it for the first time about 5 years ago. Didn't harvest every last clove (wet clay soil). It regrew. Every year.

On the bright side, I bet you don't have vampires?

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:59

Oo you’ve made me think - I haven’t had a proper 90s era style plate of garlic bread in bloody ages. Going to have that this weekend.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:59

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:57

I have mine contained in a black bin, no spreading at all.

Potatoes that is.

Edited

I may have to try your isolation technique. 🤔

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:57

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

I have this issue with garlic. Planted it for the first time about 5 years ago. Didn't harvest every last clove (wet clay soil). It regrew. Every year.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:57

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

I have mine contained in a black bin, no spreading at all.

Potatoes that is.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:54

I’m zone 7 too @fgswhywouldIdothat also quite high up and sweet peas are likewise, doing well.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:53

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

I planted mine 2 weeks ago but then I do live in the south west.

Comtesse · 10/04/2025 22:53

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:41

carry on eating ladies!

I don’t eat ladies, I prefer a massive salad. Thanks.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 10/04/2025 22:52

Thank you Mumtobabyhavoc, you've reminded me to add rosemary to my Waitrose order!

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:50

The baked potato meal seems to be a British obsession, tbf.

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:50

Braygirlnow · 10/04/2025 22:44

Would you like a medal? 🏅

The baked potato meal seems to be a British obsession, tbf.

Enigma53 · 10/04/2025 22:49

Goodness I feel hungry now!! 🤣

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:48

God no, that would be madness.

Back to sweet peas. You lot need to give your shandy-drinking soft Southern snowflake sweet pea seedlings some tough love. I just looked at the hardiness map which someone kindly provided upthread, and it turns out I am in 7, which is one zone away from the Cairngorms. Speaking as a hardened Zone 7er, mine have been in the ground for weeks and I tell you they are fine. Almost ready to make their own packed lunches and iron their school shirts.