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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 08:25

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:09

Good point re taste

One year we bought some so-called trombone squash seeds thinking it would be fun to gift DD's brass teacher a suitably shaped squash. They do not look like trombones:

You’re right! GrinGrinGrin

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/04/2025 08:24

Jellycatspyjamas · 10/04/2025 21:32

Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.

Depending on portion sizes that’s hardly an excessive amount of food, reasonably balanced and nutritious. I’d have the porridge and fruit, soup for lunch possibly with a sandwich and a main meal in the evening.

If anything people competitively undereat on here.

Thank you. I was just thinking that. I might have porridge and fruit for breakfast, soup and a sandwich for lunch and a hot dinner in the evening, at least in the winter. That's spread over about 12 hrs though and I'm not overweight.
7pm meal might be warm quiche and salad in the summer.

ghostyslovesheets · 11/04/2025 08:23

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 06:44

I checked out the temp garden centre at Costco and I'm considering planting an olive tree and lavender. I was having a very lovely garden fantasy that had me looking over my olive grove while sipping a glass of wine and arranging fresh lavender in a vase...

I got my mum a little olive tree for her 70th - she’s 80 next year and it’s grown to a beautiful tree- in her tiny back yard in Liverpool!

ghostyslovesheets · 11/04/2025 08:21

That’s such a useful site - thank you - we are an 8

MurdoMunro · 11/04/2025 08:19

I’m looking at my sweet peas right now. They were sown direct, outside, about 4 weeks ago, zone 7, quite high (1200 feet). They’ve all
germinated and about 2 inches tall.

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 08:03

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 07:56

That’s very usual thank you. I think we’re a 7 too. I will look at it in more detail later for the planting ideas Smile

*Useful

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 07:56

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:42

It's the planting hardiness zone:
(And a pencil!)😁
https://www.gardenia.net/guide/hardiness-zones-in-the-united-kingdom

Edited

That’s very usual thank you. I think we’re a 7 too. I will look at it in more detail later for the planting ideas Smile

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 06:44

I checked out the temp garden centre at Costco and I'm considering planting an olive tree and lavender. I was having a very lovely garden fantasy that had me looking over my olive grove while sipping a glass of wine and arranging fresh lavender in a vase...

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 11/04/2025 00:57

This seems like you've watched an influencer "What I Eat In A Day" who is trying to be very relatable and "British" vs you actually observing the general public who have lives and jobs lol.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 00:40

ThisFluentBiscuit · 11/04/2025 00:16

Another weird post about people eating too much.

Actually, it's a gardening thread. 😁

ThisFluentBiscuit · 11/04/2025 00:16

Another weird post about people eating too much.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 00:03

RobertaFirmino · 10/04/2025 23:31

I could stick a pizza in the oven if anyone's hungry? Crosta & Mollica Stromboli?

I made pesto pizza with crab and rocket the other day.

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/04/2025 23:49

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:14

I might have to get some of those ‘trombone’ squash seeds. They are phe nom in al

We grow tromboncino courgettes, which I really recommend, and they are that same long shape. Their flesh stays firm when cooked - not watery at all and they have a good flavour.

ETA a crucial comma!

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:34

Oh god @RobertaFirmino dont say that. I’m in bed and already can’t sleep for thinking about garlic bread.

RobertaFirmino · 10/04/2025 23:31

I could stick a pizza in the oven if anyone's hungry? Crosta & Mollica Stromboli?

SeventeenClovesOfGarlic · 10/04/2025 23:29

IlooklikeNigella · 10/04/2025 22:39

Who is getting too thin? Not the UK population anyway.

The Culture. Apparently.

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 23:28

I like Gardeners' Delight for a small tomato. It's slightly larger than a cherry tomato but crops heavily with a good flavour.
Big tomatoes don't crop so well, the yield can be quite low but the flavour can be superb if we get a good summer.
For bigger tomatoes I like the 'black' varieties like Black Crim/Russian Black or Italian ones like Costoluto Fiorentino (ribbed) or Cuore di Bue (ox heart.) Marmande, spelled exactly like that, is a good French variety.

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:25

Thanks for that - looks like it will be good old gardener’s delight for me.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:17

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:10

What would folk say is the best tomatoes to grow - which variety not too fussy, good cropper and tastes great? It always feels to me like you have to pick for one of those options, hope to get two out of three but never all three.

disclaimers - I have a south facing wall and bed but no greenhouse. And I’m a both a shoddy gardener and just clumsy.

I did a quick search:

www.theenglishgarden.co.uk/plants/fruits-vegetables-and-herbs/best-tomatoes-to-grow/

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:15

Yes and v easy to grow. You need canes as they need space to,erm, hang.

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 23:14

I might have to get some of those ‘trombone’ squash seeds. They are phe nom in al

pimplebum · 10/04/2025 23:13

But we are not getting too thin as a culture???

the western world is too fat ?

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:12

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:09

Good point re taste

One year we bought some so-called trombone squash seeds thinking it would be fun to gift DD's brass teacher a suitably shaped squash. They do not look like trombones:

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh, dear!

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/04/2025 23:12

CoastalCalm · 10/04/2025 21:31

I don’t know anyone that has a full English any more than once a week at most for us it’s once a month and usually as an evening meal unless we stay at a hotel then will tuck in

Ah, breakfast for dinner - a firm favourite in our house.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:11

I have never had any success with them- tried loads of different types. I think it's just too cold here.