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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:30

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

I'm going to do my peas.

pearbottomjeans · 10/04/2025 21:29

Equally, I could say that everyone I know has no time to eat, eats absolute rabbit food, is health food obsessed, always going on about macros and keto and fasting and ozempic. You see it everywhere, in real life, online, in the media.

I genuinely did do a 20 hour fast the other day accidentally and it wasn’t difficult/unusual for me.

I don’t think I know anyone who has 3 hot meals a day, even DH! He can have a whole pizza for lunch and then a takeaway for dinner, no idea how!

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:29

What the fuck are you on about? 😂😭😭😭

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:29

I don't know nor have I ever met anyone who eats like that. I know "morbidly obese" people and slim people but none of them require 4 meals and snacks :/ In fact, most people don't seem to bother with breakfast anymore due to the chaotic nature of life with 2 jobs and children.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:28

Why did it take you 3 edits before you published your post?

HowManyDucks · 10/04/2025 21:26

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