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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:41

Spelling errors, do what you want with that Grin You will anyway.

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BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:41

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:37

That’s a really good idea. I’ve not planted any yet but DF lines to eat them fresh from the plant. Do you think I’ve left it too late?

So sorry about the typos. *DD loves to eat them

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:39

Barney16 · 10/04/2025 21:37

Hot meal. Not warm meal. Poorly trained GAI at work here.

😂

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:38

@AquaPeer good point. I also looked up the etymology of snow peas and I don't think snow has anything to do with them! I think most countries are fond of those pea/bean things that you can eat from a pod though. I quite like eating the pods, that might be weird in every country idk

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:37

Snowjive2 · 10/04/2025 21:36

This. And with the word “warm” in front of it…boak.

Better than a moist meal.

Ive never associated meal with mealworm before…

Barney16 · 10/04/2025 21:37

Hot meal. Not warm meal. Poorly trained GAI at work here.

Oblomov25 · 10/04/2025 21:37

What nationality are you op? What are you used to eating?

I might have some watermelon, a small portion of chicken and salad, spaghetti and meatballs/ steak and salad, pie and steamed veg.

Is it the hot you object to?

Yawn. Loads of threads over the years state how fab the Italian or French food is. It is. But the no others post about how much coffee the Italians drink, how some of the French women don't have the best relationship with food and eat little in order to stay in shape, but in a pressurised way

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:37

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:30

I'm going to do my peas.

That’s a really good idea. I’ve not planted any yet but DF lines to eat them fresh from the plant. Do you think I’ve left it too late?

Snowjive2 · 10/04/2025 21:36

Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

This. And with the word “warm” in front of it…boak.

violetsorrengail · 10/04/2025 21:36

I have sometimes thought that some people are slightly odd about food on here, you can go quite a long time without it without detriment, and there are a lot of threads about not being fed enough/disappointing meals where I think I really wouldn't care about not getting sides at an Indian (for example) enough to make a big deal of it.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:36

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

March, April I do them in pots in the house then plant them, when they start growing May,June

CandyLeBonBon · 10/04/2025 21:35

Only a warm meal? Surely that’s a health hazard?

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:35

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

I think the most important thing is whether we are talking cooked or raw peas because it matters

peas are full of fibre and delicious I always wonder if it a cultural UK thing, and am interested to see how they deal with them
in other countries

Youaremythtaken · 10/04/2025 21:34

Why are you conflating eating hot food with eating too much?

This is Mumsnet. Home of the massive salad.

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

CoastalCalm · 10/04/2025 21:33

And why is a cottage pie deemed large ? Surely that depends on the portion and other veggies ? It’s a healthy meal if made with lean mince and lots of veggies

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:33

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 21:32

I eat a lot.

Fat glutinous diabetes ridden BRITISH person you.

pimplebum · 10/04/2025 21:32

Well… I am obese so yes I eat heck of a lot
love salads

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 10/04/2025 21:32

Ah, we haven't had one of these threads for a couple of days.

Jellycatspyjamas · 10/04/2025 21:32

Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.

Depending on portion sizes that’s hardly an excessive amount of food, reasonably balanced and nutritious. I’d have the porridge and fruit, soup for lunch possibly with a sandwich and a main meal in the evening.

If anything people competitively undereat on here.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 21:32

I eat a lot.

CoastalCalm · 10/04/2025 21:31

I don’t know anyone that has a full English any more than once a week at most for us it’s once a month and usually as an evening meal unless we stay at a hotel then will tuck in

MyDarlingWhatIfYouFly · 10/04/2025 21:30

You can see the history, typo corrections, weird thing to ask.

PrettayGood · 10/04/2025 21:30

I don’t know anyone that eats like that.

LovelyBitOfSquirrrel · 10/04/2025 21:30

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:28

Why did it take you 3 edits before you published your post?

Rabbit food does that to you