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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

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AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

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fgswhywouldIdothat · 21/04/2025 21:33

@BunnyRuddington How about this for excessive? I planted the "trombone"* seeds TWO to a pot, and there were still some bloody left and so I threw them on the compost heap!!! I am praying for a Jack and the Beanstalk type transformation. If you don't hear from me again, you'll know...*

BunnyRuddington · 21/04/2025 20:58

fgswhywouldIdothat · 21/04/2025 16:05

@BunnyRuddington May your DSweetDPeas be bountiful. Lots of room on your windowsill for your "trombone" squash. I am about to put my pre-soaked seeds in pots. On reflection, soaking all 20 of them was a mistake.

20 may seem excessive. I don’t think so though I think you should share the plants amongst your family and friends do that they can all enjoy the tromboneness of the squashes.

Who am I to decide what is excessive or not though, we need the Guru that is the OP to tell us…Grin

fgswhywouldIdothat · 21/04/2025 16:05

@BunnyRuddington May your DSweetDPeas be bountiful. Lots of room on your windowsill for your "trombone" squash. I am about to put my pre-soaked seeds in pots. On reflection, soaking all 20 of them was a mistake.

Meanttobeworking · 21/04/2025 09:23

I’m sure several people have asked you this already but WTF are you on about?

Bjorkdidit · 21/04/2025 09:14

Ladysodor · 21/04/2025 08:58

‘Cottage pie or something equally ‘large?’
Surely a cottage pie can be whatever size you choose?
Very judgmental imo.

Plus cottage pie could include and be served with plenty of vegetables. When I make it I put onions, carrots, mushrooms and peas in the base and serve it with something like cabbage and broccoli. To me it would seem like the MN holy grail of a 'protein and veg' meal.

Yet the fact that it is hot means that it is a big greedy unnecessary meal and one would be better just having a sandwich instead, because sliced white bread and processed ham is so much more nutritious and less calorific.

Ladysodor · 21/04/2025 08:58

‘Cottage pie or something equally ‘large?’
Surely a cottage pie can be whatever size you choose?
Very judgmental imo.

FlowerFairy12 · 21/04/2025 08:51

I should be enormous then as you’ve pretty much described my exact diet. Nope, not enormous. An average size 10 here 🤷‍♀️ Maybe you’re the one under-eating?

Mintine · 21/04/2025 08:36

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:37

Better than a moist meal.

Ive never associated meal with mealworm before…

What about a nice warm, moist meal
I look forward to 3 of these a day at least

BunnyRuddington · 21/04/2025 06:20

Glad you’re are out too @OnTheSickEaster Smile

After all of the great advice on this thread I think I’m just going to sew the next lot in situ next time.

BunnyRuddington · 21/04/2025 06:18

I really must start to read my replies before posting. I absolutely hate when people mic up their and there. Actually saw someone ask on FB Witch bus would take them to a local town the other day and then be totally confused by all of the answers mentioning Harry Potter! Easter Grin

OnTheSick · 20/04/2025 20:44

BunnyRuddington · 20/04/2025 16:58

The Sweetpeas are out!

Mine wenr out yesterday!

BunnyRuddington · 20/04/2025 19:35

MurdoMunro · 20/04/2025 17:02

AN EASTER MIRACLE! PRAISE BE! UNDER HIS EYE!

Blessed be the Sweetpeas as there Easter Sunday journey has managed to elevate the windowsill constipation. That just makes lord room for more plants though?

MurdoMunro · 20/04/2025 17:02

AN EASTER MIRACLE! PRAISE BE! UNDER HIS EYE!

BunnyRuddington · 20/04/2025 16:58

The Sweetpeas are out!

MurdoMunro · 17/04/2025 16:37

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 22:03

Is bastit bastard in a quaint Scottish accent, or are you invoking (according to Google) the Egyptian goddess of the home, domesticity, women's secrets, cats, fertility, and childbirth? Either way, have you ordered your "trombone" squash seeds yet? I have. They arrived before I left for this London trip. I am v excited

While being of the north-north I moved to south to the place that they call the north. That was my attempt to blend in using the language of my adoptive people. I can never truly land it, but then neither can they when they try sing the song of my people.

I went to bed with great sausage plans for today but things went shit-shaped so lunch was a hot cross bun and a packet of prawn cocktail crisps.

Also, while being the wild (not) north we do have some cultural appropriation from the south - me and the dMIL are hitting up the garden centre at the weekend in search of comedy squash seeds. I showed her the picture and she wants in.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 22:47

@YouFetidMoppet no no no, your DSweetDPeas need to be out right now in the garden, cold though they and you in your billowy nightie may be

YouFetidMoppet · 16/04/2025 22:42

I'm a bot using machine learning to understand human eating patterns from this thread.

From this thread I have learnt that we should be eating a hot bowl of peas three times a day, but not a warm bowl of peas as that is just wrong.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 22:19

@BunnyRuddington I am so glad. I feel that the DSweet DPeas need to go out in the garden with the DHedgehog, who frankly will be fine and needs your attention much less than they do.

BunnyRuddington · 16/04/2025 22:15

I’m back from my billowy nightie adventures although I’m sad to report that it was just me and the DDog in the garden.

The DHedgehog has reappeared and DDog is obsessed but also needed a wee. Cue me in said billowy nightie trying to facitate wee and make sure DHedgog survives for another night.

Sweetpeas are still on the windowsill. I’m a failure in both the Sweetpea and being a true Northerner departments.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 22:03

Is bastit bastard in a quaint Scottish accent, or are you invoking (according to Google) the Egyptian goddess of the home, domesticity, women's secrets, cats, fertility, and childbirth? Either way, have you ordered your "trombone" squash seeds yet? I have. They arrived before I left for this London trip. I am v excited

MurdoMunro · 16/04/2025 21:58

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 21:42

No I am not trying any post-10pm soft slinky sausage chat with you @MurdoMunro as you are clearly a gristly Northerner, and it would likely tip you over into some kind of clan uprising. You'd be crossing the border with your secateurs in a flash, slaying Sweet Pea refuseniks and diet obsessives* *. And currently I am away from my Northern enclave working in London, and I don't want to be suffocated with a grow-bag or trussed up with garden twine just because I happen to be here. So no sausages for you.

Fekkin rumbled. Bastit.

nomas · 16/04/2025 21:48

soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.

Do you mean lentil soup, OP? It wouldn’t be lentil soup without pulses.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 21:42

No I am not trying any post-10pm soft slinky sausage chat with you @MurdoMunro as you are clearly a gristly Northerner, and it would likely tip you over into some kind of clan uprising. You'd be crossing the border with your secateurs in a flash, slaying Sweet Pea refuseniks and diet obsessives* *. And currently I am away from my Northern enclave working in London, and I don't want to be suffocated with a grow-bag or trussed up with garden twine just because I happen to be here. So no sausages for you.

MurdoMunro · 16/04/2025 21:17

Oh I do hope so. It’s a sort of dark and windy Heathcliffe-on-the-moors night here. Her nightie will be billowing and the neighbours will be suspecting witchery is afoot.

Could you come back 10ish when I’m settled in bed but too restless to sleep and do more softly, softly sausage chat please?

fgswhywouldIdothat · 16/04/2025 21:03

@BunnyRuddington has gone v quiet. Maybe she's out there in the dark in her wellies and nightie planting the little buggers? whadyathink @MurdoMunro?