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AIBU?

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Original poster

To not want to date men who earn less than me, even if they’re kind?

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RealPlumEagle · 10/04/2025 14:01

I’ve worked hard for a certain lifestyle and I don’t want to feel like I have to downgrade. It’s not about love, it’s about compatibility. AIBU or does that make me a snob?

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ouch321 · 10/04/2025 14:04

Not sure snob is the right word. Shallow, yes of course.

AlizeeEasy · 10/04/2025 14:03

Do whatever you want, you don’t need permission. I will just say that circumstances can change, people can lose their job or get sick. You may need to one day face the reality that someone you truly love may not have the financial backing you desire.

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