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Staying in €500pn hotel

54 replies

Angrysadluxury · 09/04/2025 22:30

Would rather be at home with my cats than in this wanky hotel with my DP. Hate these over-priced places. Just finished a 6 course meal with paired wines. €110 each. Couldn’t finish, we were too full.

Sat across from my partner basically sat in silence or some inane chat about whether he should ‘expand’ the suitcase for the way home. I’m F38, he’s M54. He’s obsessed with “treating himself” and “having the best”. We’ve been together 5 years. Both from working class families but now he’s on 400K salary just acts like an entitled prick. He can switch from normal down to earth guy to a wanker in short space of time.
We have been frosty for 24 hours after some ridiculous argument. Just want to go home!

OP posts:
Pieceofpurplesky · 09/04/2025 22:42

Separate. You are at different stages. Do you have kids together?

TheHerboriste · 09/04/2025 22:39

Then find a partner who suits you.

ExtraOnions · 09/04/2025 22:37

…aren’t you a bundle of fun.

There are people living in cardboard boxes, queuing at Foodbanks, and, children living in Poverty.

Enjoy what you have, you never know when it will be gone.

Gemmawemma9 · 09/04/2025 22:34

Ok?
I don’t understand what the question is.