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Is this unflattering for a bridesmaid?

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Froum · 09/04/2025 22:02

My bridesmaids range in size from 8 to 12. No one happens to be plus size.

Would this dress flatter most of the women do you reckon?

We are late 20s

i have chosen to show the image of the plus size model as I think it highlights that it works on bigger sizes. What do you think?

Is this unflattering for a bridesmaid?
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Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 21:27

I see what you mean about flouncy and dated @Froum , I see the fashions.

just ask them? If they love it, you’re sorted

If not, look at other dresses

Greentrees2024 · 10/04/2025 21:27

Looks terrible. Don’t do it to them!

IveGotAnUnusuallyLargePelvisISwear · 10/04/2025 21:22

Who on earth chose the picture of the first model to advertise that dress?! It’s not as unflattering on the slimmer model but there must be loads of other far nicer dresses to choose from for your bridesmaids? It looks so cheap as well.

Froum · 10/04/2025 21:18

I had to disengage because people wear seemingly taking glee in being rude. I picked a dress people don’t like. It’s not that serious.

I haven’t shown the dresses yet. I’m putting together a Pinterest board. The first dress I shared was my fav. I hate flouncy dresses like the one I’ve attached. We’re young women! Something sleeker is my preferred look. I don’t want them to look matronly.

My wedding is very understated.

Is this unflattering for a bridesmaid?
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weshallovercomeaswevedonebefore · 10/04/2025 21:18

I really like it! I’d wear it. Love the colour and the style.

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 21:17

Froum · 10/04/2025 21:09

They all happily wear fake tan for big occasions/functions

Ah! Good evening! Have your bridesmaids tried on the dresses? How have you found the responses on here?

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 10/04/2025 21:15

I like it but the boob area isn't great

Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 21:12

Froum · 10/04/2025 21:09

They all happily wear fake tan for big occasions/functions

Ah! @Froum !

Do your bridesmaids like the dress?

Froum · 10/04/2025 21:09

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 21:05

She's going to make them put fake tan on! 😂

They all happily wear fake tan for big occasions/functions

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GrandmaJowa · 10/04/2025 21:08

This bridesmaid dress looks like one of my nightgowns. Simply a no-go dress! Too clingy even on a slim person. Certainly couldn't wear pants as there would be a VPL.

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 21:05

Iceandfire92 · 10/04/2025 21:00

No no no! I would be upset and anxious if I was forced to wear that all day and be photographed in it; I'm a size 8-10 and I'm sure it would show every crevice, lump and bump. It's an unflattering cut, does no favours for the plus sized model and the fabric is so cheap and ghastly. It's also a very unflattering shade to those with paler skin. I personally think it looks far better if you allow bridesmaids to choose their own dress (within a certain colour palette so it harmonises with your theme). Again, please do not make your closest friends wear this nightie monstrosity or they may not be your friends for much longer after the wedding 🤣.

She's going to make them put fake tan on! 😂

MrsHapus · 10/04/2025 21:05

Have you ordered any colour swatches form Azazie- try different fabrics/colours as there seems to be some that match your colour scheme :)

Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 21:04

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:53

Why?

@Froum ignores all comments and questions after lighting touch paper

Iceandfire92 · 10/04/2025 21:00

No no no! I would be upset and anxious if I was forced to wear that all day and be photographed in it; I'm a size 8-10 and I'm sure it would show every crevice, lump and bump. It's an unflattering cut, does no favours for the plus sized model and the fabric is so cheap and ghastly. It's also a very unflattering shade to those with paler skin. I personally think it looks far better if you allow bridesmaids to choose their own dress (within a certain colour palette so it harmonises with your theme). Again, please do not make your closest friends wear this nightie monstrosity or they may not be your friends for much longer after the wedding 🤣.

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:53

Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 20:50

It’s not real

Why?

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:52

People seem a little crazy today. What’s all this balking at satin bias cut dresses. They are extremely popular and as these pictures show, can look lovely on the different 8-12 figures the OPs bridesmaid will probably have

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FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 20:52

Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 20:50

It’s not real

What's not real?

Outofthepan · 10/04/2025 20:50

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:45

‘Do you hate your bridesmaids’
‘You didn’t just go on a hen Mexico did you’

these aren’t opinions. They are bitchy put downs

It’s not real

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 20:49

I don't like that one shoulder "Azazie" dress, I think it's tricky because off one shoulder doesn't suit everyone.
It may be the kind of colour the OP wants, though.
There was quite a nice Ghost one upthread and I think they're a reputable company.

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:45

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 20:40

Nobody is being "catty".
The OP has asked opinions on a dress. People have given opinions. No-one has been rude or personal.

‘Do you hate your bridesmaids’
‘You didn’t just go on a hen Mexico did you’

these aren’t opinions. They are bitchy put downs

abracadabra1980 · 10/04/2025 20:43

It's awful. That colour suits very few people.

Hesma · 10/04/2025 20:42

Grim 🤮

FleurDeFleur · 10/04/2025 20:40

Nobody is being "catty".
The OP has asked opinions on a dress. People have given opinions. No-one has been rude or personal.

RavenhairedRachel · 10/04/2025 20:40

Horrible looks like a cheap version of those hideous underwear type dresses Victoria Beckham designs,

springbringshope · 10/04/2025 20:37

I don’t know why people are being catty either OP

I don’t know this brand but there are some nice styles

https://www.azazie.com/gb/all/bridesmaid-dresses/colors/dusty-rose

Is this unflattering for a bridesmaid?