I’ve been married to my second husband for over 10 years, we each have 3 grown children (6 in total) noe together. Since the beginning I have put a lot of time and effort into building a relationship with his children,which I still have. I moved into his family home when they were teenagers, and most of the day to day care was done by me. My children are older and because of a difficult break up with my first marriage they initially found it hard to accept my new relationship . My husband has never put any effort into resolving this, to the extent my children feel uncomfortable visiting me in my own home, he ignores them, makes no conversation .. Since Covid he mainly works from home, taking over the only reception room in the house, this means my children and now my grandchildren can’t visit me in my own home. I’m so upset as he shouted at one of my children over a very minor event and is now not talking to me, I have talked to him many times about working from the spare bedroom but he refuses, I feel as he’s the main wage earner he’s using this to control me.