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To loathe scalpers

32 replies

AdditionalCharacter · 09/04/2025 12:12

My young adult son has autism, and one of his important things is his Nintendo Switch. He has been obsessed with the new Switch 2 getting released, he is trying to save his money for it, so far he has £10. I'll be buying him one using his PIP money which I have in a separate account for him.

I (stupidly) didn't realise they were released for pre order this week, and (stupidly) thought I'd just be able to go into a shop, reserve one, then pick it up. Only that's not the case, it's like the PS5 saga all over again.

Loads of pre orders already on resale sights for up to £200 more. Meaning the people who want them, true fans like my son, will have to wait longer or battle online for a pre order.

Scalpers are scum, they make money out of other peoples misery. Shameful. And yes I know that they're only selling to an audience who will pay the overinflated price, still doesn't make it morally right.

I think I have managed to get him one from Very, the payment has been taken and it's showing in my orders, so hoping it is. The anxiety I'm feeling though, it's ridiculous. I went through the whole think for my other son when the PS5 came out. It was almost a year before I managed to get one.

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GabriellaMontez · 09/04/2025 12:30

They make money out of being organised and prepared.

Not from anyone else 'misery'. Yabu.

Hoppinggreen · 09/04/2025 12:26

Its a perfectly legal way to make money
Its not the fault of people who were quicker than you that you didn't get one.
So no, I don't think people who make money from buying and then selling things are scum.

TheJollyMoose · 09/04/2025 12:23

AdditionalCharacter · 09/04/2025 12:19

I am pissed off with myself, I'm not denying it. It doesn't mean I can't be angry at people who are making it hard for others as well.

Not to drip feed, but I am also ND, and struggle with anxiety.

Okay, but that isn’t anyone else’s problem.

TheJollyMoose · 09/04/2025 12:22

Pootles34 · 09/04/2025 12:17

@TheJollyMoose is there any need? Do you not agree that scalpers are dickheads?

Sympathy OP, fingers crossed for you!

No, I don’t see anything wrong with it. It’s a legal way to make money. Good on them 🤷‍♀️

AdditionalCharacter · 09/04/2025 12:19

TheJollyMoose · 09/04/2025 12:15

YABU. Sounds to me like you should be angry at yourself for not being prepared enough 🤷‍♀️

I am pissed off with myself, I'm not denying it. It doesn't mean I can't be angry at people who are making it hard for others as well.

Not to drip feed, but I am also ND, and struggle with anxiety.

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Pootles34 · 09/04/2025 12:17

@TheJollyMoose is there any need? Do you not agree that scalpers are dickheads?

Sympathy OP, fingers crossed for you!

TheJollyMoose · 09/04/2025 12:15

YABU. Sounds to me like you should be angry at yourself for not being prepared enough 🤷‍♀️