I just don’t ever feel up for it. The thought makes me feel sick. But I do it, as it causes resentment from my husband if I don’t.
anyway, he’s expecting it once a week- sometimes twice ( but more rarely twice ). Usually it’s once a week.
I am going away tomorrow for 2 weeks and usually he expects it in this kind of circumstance and will summon me soon.
I feel sick thinking about it. I just don’t want to do it.
I feel resentful of myself, of my body, of him. The fact that I just have to keep doing this or otherwise it’s a problem for my marriage.
when do men stop wanting sex ? Does it really need to be a weekly thing or could it be monthly or whatever ? I just can’t take it anymore. When I say no, it’s endless begging and if I continue to say no, usually sulking.
I honestly feel like crying tonight as I know he’s going to come and request it from me.
at the weekend I was worried about him as he was out in his fast car and I thought how sad it would be if something happened. But it did cross my mind that at least I wouldn’t need to have sex anymore.
anyway, I ask again - at what age does sex drive dwindle in men ?