I need some advice.
I cannot tell you how angry I am at my husband this evening. We’ve been having trouble with our 5 year old son recently and his bedtime routine. On Saturday evening we decided to set out a clear, concise and consistent plan to deal with this. My husband has been out/at work since then so I have done bedtime and the routine was working a treat - DS was brilliant and I even noticed a difference in his behaviour during the day. Tonight was the first night my husband had put him to bed since we made the plan - and he blatantly ignored about three steps of it. Unsurprisingly our son noted the inconsistencies, became irate and bam just like that we are back to the beginning!!! Even more unsurprisingly I am the one who has had to deal with our son - who is still coming down the stairs crying and I am having to take him back up to bed. I am so, so angry. I am so angry because this isn’t the first time my husband has done this - it’s like he doesn’t listen/care? …. I don’t know what to do? I am almost giving up?! I have just asked him to leave me alone I am furious 😡😡