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To think our towns and cities are just so run down lately, and our standard of living has decreased significantly?

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blahhhhg · 08/04/2025 16:42

I don't know if I'm just feeling a bit down and bitter lately but I just feel like lately our country seems to have gotten very run down. I went out into town today and couldn't help but notice how grotty and rundown everything looks. Litter everywhere, security guards everywhere - in nearly every clothing shop there is security on the door now, security wandering up and down the high street. It makes you feel really unsafe but they must be there for a reason now? Shops are dirty; filthy floors and used Starbucks cups just left off the shelf for some poor worker to clean up. Clothes for sale that are covered in makeup stains. I just found it really depressing. It's just not one town either, I've noticed it nearly everywhere I've been. I'm in my late 20s so it's not like I've had decades of life experience to draw from and I have a rose-tinted view of yesteryear, but it seems that in the last 5ish years things have really declined.

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TizerorFizz · 09/04/2025 00:05

@Lonelycrab That’s because users pay for them. The taxpayer used to subsidise too much and believe if or not, British Rail was a nightmare. Ancient trains and poor service everywhere. It’s better now but younger people have no idea how bad it was. Like much of our infrastructure, it’s aging. That’s the problem. Plus drivers who don’t want or need to work at weekends.

Lonelycrab · 09/04/2025 00:01

And the privatisation of our rail network has resulted in some of the most expensive trains in the world, as well as unreliable.

Lonelycrab · 09/04/2025 00:00

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:45

No, it’s primarily because our population has aged significantly. The fact we don’t subsidize vastly inefficient public owned industries anymore is an improvement in the public finances not a worsening. The public sector tend to do a very poor job of running businesses- we are all wealthier thanks to privatization.

Well the privatisation of our water companies hasn’t made us wealthier has it. It’s given us record breaking bills and disgustingly polluted waterways.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:45

stargazingortryingto · 08/04/2025 23:34

Regarding spending, I wonder if that is because the state no longer owns anything, and so has to buy services from the private sector, who now do own all the assets. For example, local authorities have no housing, so they have to pay eye watering sums to private landlords, which pushes expenditure up.

ETA there is a lot of tax paid on work, too much in my opinion. However, there is very little tax paid on wealth, which seems to me to be where the issue is. I think there should be a tax on wealth (by which I mean those with assets over £10million), with the revenue raised helping to counteract some of the effects of our increasingly unequal society.

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No, it’s primarily because our population has aged significantly. The fact we don’t subsidize vastly inefficient public owned industries anymore is an improvement in the public finances not a worsening. The public sector tend to do a very poor job of running businesses- we are all wealthier thanks to privatization.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:40

Lonelycrab · 08/04/2025 23:13

Have to confess the one single policy I’ve seen from reform around Amazon and deliveries in general that is imo a good idea, is to tax deliveries at 1 or 2 % and to reinvest that revenue into the high street.

That seems to be an unavoidable way of taxing those corporations and would help level the playing field a bit. Sure, we have to pay more but it’s a price worth paying for a viable high street.

If we don’t want to shop in the high street, why should more successful businesses be taxed to subsidize the less successful? There’s been a shift in retail the same as when supermarkets became a thing. The high street will need to change but if we’re not spending our money there, it should shut ir become something else. We need better planning though for good community spaces

stargazingortryingto · 08/04/2025 23:34

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:10

Public sector spending and taxation is greater now than it was inthe 70s and 80s In inflation adjusted terms.

Regarding spending, I wonder if that is because the state no longer owns anything, and so has to buy services from the private sector, who now do own all the assets. For example, local authorities have no housing, so they have to pay eye watering sums to private landlords, which pushes expenditure up.

ETA there is a lot of tax paid on work, too much in my opinion. However, there is very little tax paid on wealth, which seems to me to be where the issue is. I think there should be a tax on wealth (by which I mean those with assets over £10million), with the revenue raised helping to counteract some of the effects of our increasingly unequal society.

snappopcrackle · 08/04/2025 23:33

Silsatrip · 08/04/2025 17:35

They don't clean the streets either. Rely on the rain to clean them? You go to hotter countries and early in the morning they are out washing down pedestrian streets etc.

Make park areas and don't maintain them or police them so they become drug dealing areas.

Raise rents so all the shops close and dodgy ones open...are they just a front?

I feel bad for when I shopped online but so many times I went to a shop and couldn't get what I wanted/ told to order online ...it doesn't encourage you to make the trek to a shop.

Agree with OP and this too. I noticed when I was traveling in another European country earlier this year how they had cleaner streets.

I can’t drive but I don’t find it enjoyable walking around my area because of how grotty a lot of the streets and the nearest parks to me don’t look great. Too many people hanging around who look as if they may be on drugs often with not pleasant looking dogs.

And my town is middle of the road, Not posh but not known for being rough either.

Since I moved here a few years ago so many of the high street stores have closed leaving us with more vape shops which sucks and adds to the general feeling of gradual disrepair and neglect

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/04/2025 23:28

‘And that was certainly noticeable to me when I went to Paris last summer. Used to be that London was clean and pleasant whereas Paris was dirty and a bit unkempt. Now London is covered in litter and crumbling pavements, but Paris has had a glow up and is green, tidy, clean and eco-friendly! Plus you see constant litter removers and street-cleaning and washing machines out in Paris everywhere! It was quite a novelty, as I literally can’t remember the last time I saw a street in the UK being washed and cleaned.’

Paris had a massive clear up for the Olympics. I read they moved literally hundreds of squatters’ tents from the centre, they bussed the people out to remote country districts where there were barracks and holiday camps ( they didn’t stay). Recently a theatre in the centre was occupied by hundreds of migrants from French speaking African countries, the district was paralysed by noise, shoplifting, squatting in the hotels and restaurants. It was finally cleared a couple of weeks ago….but the French, like us, have no long term solution.

Even when I lived in France ( we left in 2019) many of the smaller towns had lost virtually all their shops and were shadows of themselves. People just used the out of town shed strips instead. They were not dirty, but that was because they were empty.

Europe has a lot of similar problems to UK, although the greater landmass of many countries does mean you can still move around.

Bingbopboomboomboombopbam · 08/04/2025 23:22

While I agree that there’s a weird vibe all around generally, but when it comes to the lack of/subpar upkeep of shops etc I think it’s been like that for ages.

I’ve been living in the UK for a little over 10 years now and I’ve always found it shocking so I don’t think it’s any worse. I don’t know if it’s because the employees tend to be younger in these places or what, it’s just not great. What is better here in terms of manners/consideration, then lacks in cleanliness.

In terms of littering it’s an educational problem. I live near a busy bus stop close to a local high school and kids leave it filthy on the daily. There’s no reason for it, but then again kids here also seem fine in sitting on filthy floors like it’s nothing. I swear they’re built different.

Lonelycrab · 08/04/2025 23:13

Have to confess the one single policy I’ve seen from reform around Amazon and deliveries in general that is imo a good idea, is to tax deliveries at 1 or 2 % and to reinvest that revenue into the high street.

That seems to be an unavoidable way of taxing those corporations and would help level the playing field a bit. Sure, we have to pay more but it’s a price worth paying for a viable high street.

TrixieFatell · 08/04/2025 23:12

I think I'm quite lucky where I live. It used to be quite a rough town with a bad reputation but it's really improved now. We have issues with littering etc but our local Facebook group always have litter pickups being organised and we have councillors posting what they have done. We live near a forest so we have lovely green areas to go to. I've recently joined a group about improving our local park. Our town centre isn't the best but I think that's the case everywhere, but they have built some new retail parks where most people go. We lost our indoor market sadly but they have started an outdoor weekday one which is nice to see. The schools are mainly good here too.

I remember how grim it used to be so for me it has improved

Sunbeam01 · 08/04/2025 23:11

Yes it's all very depressing.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:10

Doubtmyselff · 08/04/2025 22:54

Its easy to fix this country, bring back fair taxation, we had it in the 50s and 60s, stop turning the country into a playground for global millionaires who pay fuck all tax.

Its really that simple, but the very rich own the political parties, be that Cons, Labour or Reform or even Lib Dems. Maybe the only ones not owned by the very rich are the Greens, and they aren't getting elected anytime soon.

Public sector spending and taxation is greater now than it was inthe 70s and 80s In inflation adjusted terms.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:05

JacquesHarlow · 08/04/2025 17:28

It’s also worth me sharing the obvious which is that Amazon and friends have been allowed to set up shop and pay 0% tax due to their clever corporate structure..

Meanwhile the effect this has on medium income to low income areas becomes staggering

Hardware stores, clothing stores, electronic shops, department stores, all closing. this has a knock on effect for other shops which fed off this ecosystem.

For towns and villages which have people with discretionary income who want to buy hand made clothing and expensive food, they will still thrive because people will use it or lose it.

But overall, the lack of government policy on Amazon and its contemporaries is staggering.

imagine if Amazon was taxed properly and the money reinvested in high streets

Amazon doesn’t pay 0% tax due to a “clever corporate structure” or otherwise. But it doesn’t need stores due to its online structure. But it would make no money if we didn’t all want to shop online

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 08/04/2025 22:54

Luton could be nice though except it just seems a lot of concrete in the town centre. And some random culture corner that not sure is trying to acheive..

Guess same as anywhere though. Im Dunstable and it seems they've tried to make nice by putting random giant plant pots and grass bears here and there but in odd places and haven't added much to anything. Just a variety of barbers and nail bars and shops that are empty.

Doubtmyselff · 08/04/2025 22:54

UndermyShoeJoe · 08/04/2025 22:32

Thing is to fix the country will have so many changes and nobody would like them all.

Its easy to fix this country, bring back fair taxation, we had it in the 50s and 60s, stop turning the country into a playground for global millionaires who pay fuck all tax.

Its really that simple, but the very rich own the political parties, be that Cons, Labour or Reform or even Lib Dems. Maybe the only ones not owned by the very rich are the Greens, and they aren't getting elected anytime soon.

sharkanado · 08/04/2025 22:53

That's just poor excuses. I'm sorry but they wouldn't treat their homes that way. They would just eat something on the sofa and drop the rubbish on the floor next to them. They wouldn't spit on their carpet emor floor either.

I believe some would!

Minecraftvsroblox · 08/04/2025 22:51

sharkanado · 08/04/2025 22:24

@Lonelycrab I just don't get how so many can't see the damage it's caused.

The same reason why they voted to leave they didn't get it then and they don't get it now. Those are the people that voted.

Solaire18381 · 08/04/2025 22:50

A few months ago I need to go to a small town, usually no other reason to go there, as there virtually nothing there, but I needed to go to a relative's bank branch and took my daughter with me.

She asked why it was so scruffy and dirty! Lots of boarded up shops. We are more used to going to shopping centres and outlet villages more so than small towns, I explained because the town isn't privately owed, they don't employ as many cleaners etc as the shopping centres/outlets. So sad really small towns going to ruin and looking through a child's eyes what they notice.

Whalesong · 08/04/2025 22:50

YANBU. We've left the UK and comment on it every time we return for a visit. And we used to live in a wealthy borough, but that too is now full of potholes, Poundland and fast-food chains instead of lovely Spanish tapas bars etc.
It's the boiling frog effect. Most Brits don't see it - unless they travel abroad, queue in the "All passports" queue and notice how much worse dressed they are than the locals they used to look down on.

Doubtmyselff · 08/04/2025 22:49

MuffinsOrCake · 08/04/2025 17:21

When we visit Norfolk ( loooove it there!!!), everything is clean and natural. No rubbish on roads or country lanes. Down to the South Coast from London through Surrey and Sussex - very very dirty. So it is not the country, towns and cities always end up with growing population and more hard to clean up rubbish.

Did I read this correctly?

The entire city of London, Surrey and Sussex ( I assume East and West) is very very dirty.

What the fuck ???

TempestTost · 08/04/2025 22:49

blahhhhg · 08/04/2025 22:10

I agree with a PP about the large amount of seemingly unemployed men that seem to be loitering around on weekdays. I had a day off today so never paid it much mind before, but today I really noticed how there were so many men just standing aimlessly around. One starting making comments to me and following me. It was a sunny Spring day in half-term; town shouldn't have felt as uncomfortable as it did.

I have also completely given up on being able to afford a decent life. I'm master's educated with a professional job, and I can't even afford to rent a maisonette in my town, let alone buy. Any 'affordable' flats listed for sale are actually £350k flats on shared ownership where you only own a measly 5-10% of the property and pay outlandish rent and service charges on the rest. Long gone are the days of my grandparents and parents where one bog standard salary was enough to support a family of four.

I sometimes feel like this. I'm not in the UK, but my family is pretty middle class, my sh a civil servant with a pretty good salary, I'm in a human services job with a lowish salary - but two FT incomes.

We leave in a pretty cheap house, we have old cars, we art as cheaply as possible, and don't travel. And we are rural. Right now, we could not even afford the cheapest homes in the worst parts of the city, and a cheap apartment rental is more than our mortgage.

I don't understand how people are managing to live in the city or commuter towns.

WinterFoxes · 08/04/2025 22:49

neilyoungismyhero · 08/04/2025 16:52

We're in the West Midlands and it's exactly the same. Our town is now comprised of barbershops, eating places, charity shops and that's about it. Northampton is the same. All very run down and grotty.

What I don't understand is, if everywhere is so run down, how come so many food outlets are surviving. It is so much more expensive to buy take away or wat in a cafe or restaurant than cook at home, and yet places that charge £4 for a coffee are thriving, while every other shop is a charity shop, barber or betting shop.

CrispEater2000 · 08/04/2025 22:48

BakelikeBertha · 08/04/2025 22:28

I've often thought that the government should make people on benefits who are capable of work, do litter picking. It would smarten up our towns and countryside, possibly even give some of them a sense of pride in what they achieve, and would be some form of work in exchange for the money they get. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not a benefits basher, as being disabled and physically incapable of work, I have to claim myself, but I think that if people who can work, but won't, HAD to do litter picking to get their money, then they might soon decide that other work is preferable.

I live in the South and there are many towns here that look really down at heel, and are likely only going to get worse, as it seems there is very little sense of pride in where people live these days.

Instead they make people on benefits go and work at places like Poundland for free.

Why provide a useful service to the public when they could be helping private companies turn a profit?

Minecraftvsroblox · 08/04/2025 22:47

You were old enough to vote in the Brexit referendum. What was your vote leave or remain in Europe or did you not vote at all thinking it wouldn't affect you?