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To think our towns and cities are just so run down lately, and our standard of living has decreased significantly?

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blahhhhg · 08/04/2025 16:42

I don't know if I'm just feeling a bit down and bitter lately but I just feel like lately our country seems to have gotten very run down. I went out into town today and couldn't help but notice how grotty and rundown everything looks. Litter everywhere, security guards everywhere - in nearly every clothing shop there is security on the door now, security wandering up and down the high street. It makes you feel really unsafe but they must be there for a reason now? Shops are dirty; filthy floors and used Starbucks cups just left off the shelf for some poor worker to clean up. Clothes for sale that are covered in makeup stains. I just found it really depressing. It's just not one town either, I've noticed it nearly everywhere I've been. I'm in my late 20s so it's not like I've had decades of life experience to draw from and I have a rose-tinted view of yesteryear, but it seems that in the last 5ish years things have really declined.

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User46576 · 23/04/2025 19:48

Lonelycrab · 09/04/2025 00:00

Well the privatisation of our water companies hasn’t made us wealthier has it. It’s given us record breaking bills and disgustingly polluted waterways.

We had that before privatization.

LillyPJ · 23/04/2025 19:22

@Bitteralmond Are you talking about Leicester? Because, like you said, we lost Debenhams and now M&S has moved out. I don't want to be one of those people who say the city is worse than in the 'good old days' - lots of parts are much better. But it's depressing to lose such important shops.

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 19:06

@suburburban I do agree- I’m still gobsmacked who the scumbags are that don’t flush - even when there’s clearly nothing wrong with the flush or scatter loo paper about like confetti -

suburburban · 23/04/2025 18:58

taxguru · 23/04/2025 18:56

That's never going to happen, so what is the answer? Bigger fines? More police? More council officers? Something needs to be done. We're long past the stage of morality and expecting/hoping people will behave better.

True but I don’t understand it

taxguru · 23/04/2025 18:56

suburburban · 23/04/2025 18:54

It’s the scummy people who cause this though, and people need to take responsibility to clean up after themselves

That's never going to happen, so what is the answer? Bigger fines? More police? More council officers? Something needs to be done. We're long past the stage of morality and expecting/hoping people will behave better.

suburburban · 23/04/2025 18:54

Yolo12345 · 23/04/2025 08:22

Just back from Poland - everywhere spotlessly clean, buildings renovated and well maintained, no litter on the streets, people well dressed and slim overall. Flew back into Luton - no toilet paper in the ladies toilets and rubbish dropped all over the sanitary bins. Disgusting. Welcome to the UK.

It’s the scummy people who cause this though, and people need to take responsibility to clean up after themselves

Yolo12345 · 23/04/2025 08:22

Just back from Poland - everywhere spotlessly clean, buildings renovated and well maintained, no litter on the streets, people well dressed and slim overall. Flew back into Luton - no toilet paper in the ladies toilets and rubbish dropped all over the sanitary bins. Disgusting. Welcome to the UK.

Motherknowsrest · 14/04/2025 09:33

I've got the email from hell to send the council, councilors and local scaffolding company today. They've been working on a building near us and yet again the scaffolders can't see the cable ties they've littered everywhere around the building.

Once you start seeing cable tie litter dropped by lazy workers it's utterly enraging.

Pussycat22 · 14/04/2025 09:22

Trumptonagain · 09/04/2025 21:12

Does it really cost a fortune for, at the very least, every householder to keep the immediate area of their property clean and tidy....A broom, dustpan and brush and garden hand fork at most is all the equipment needed.

A few parks, high streets and some main roads in the county I live in come under the care of the local town councils and along with groups of volunteers helping they see to planting, weeding and building structures, making the area look really nice.

Since this has begun they have won many awards by entering the areas in Britain in Bloom competitions and some people in the community will help out by watering areas such as those planted under the street signs near their houses, contributing to their surroundings.

Does community service still exist?
If so litter picking should be something passed down by the courts as part of a community service sentence.

Going to do my front of my house today. x

TizerorFizz · 14/04/2025 09:11

The shops on streets follow trends. Use them or lose them. Councils tax them and rents are too high for “hobby” shops. Therefore it’s survival of the fittest and they reflect the neighbourhood. Always did and always will.

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 14/04/2025 09:05

Just got back from Rome.
No high rises in the centre. Unless you count the colosseum. No vapes or barbers or nail bar on every corner. Not real takeaways a few maccas and burger kings. No Starbucks costa etc. just locally run family cafes Rome was busy. Crossing the road was scary it must have issues but it looked like they have priorities straight in that respect.

Serpentstooth · 13/04/2025 22:17

Dear God, is there nowhere architects wont ruin? Yes there is, the quaint small villages and towns full of period listed buildings in which many architects live. That is hideous.

Crikeyalmighty · 11/04/2025 21:58

@Doggard that’s got to be Canterbury -we lived there 2003 to 2011 and I remember nasons well

Bitteralmond · 11/04/2025 21:33

Doggard · 10/04/2025 07:14

I think this is my town. New ivy (covered in bird poo I noticed this week), only shop that thrives is Primark. Attempt to put in middle class shops like Oliver bonas falls flat because there just isn't anything else in the town to draw you in. The new paved area could have been a space for festivals and special markets but somehow makes it more difficult to walk through. Shops that might be useful (m&s) don't have stock in any reasonable size (no size 10r or size 12r to be seen, try online apparently). Nasons and Debenhams end of town is simply dire. Very much mourning the loss of the independent shoe shop. No idea how I'm going to get my dc shoes fitted this year.

Not the same town. Debenhams left ours a few years ago sadly. M&S has also gone from the centre is in on a retail park instead.

Crikeyalmighty · 11/04/2025 21:22

@SoOxon we were not allowed to wear tights till 5th form - Fawn colour knee length socks only - all girl grammar

IAmNotASheep · 11/04/2025 19:03

SoOxon · 11/04/2025 18:51

AND! had to wear the school uniform correctly, including felt hat, caps for the boys,
until we were home, including on the public bus
We were fearful of the cane, or hours of mindless lines. I hated skool

Goodness you’ve reminded me of the school uniform knickers.
Maroon and granny style which occasionally we had to prove we were actually wearing

I loved school ….just not those knickers

ps. Girls were given the slipper in our school, not the cane. The head though used to cane the boys in the gym so he could get a good long run at it 😳

SoOxon · 11/04/2025 18:51

IAmNotASheep · 11/04/2025 18:37

@ViciousCurrentBun

lm the same age and we had a school rule that no one could eat in public wearing the school uniform.

Can you imagine that rule today 🤣How times have changed

AND! had to wear the school uniform correctly, including felt hat, caps for the boys,
until we were home, including on the public bus
We were fearful of the cane, or hours of mindless lines. I hated skool

IAmNotASheep · 11/04/2025 18:37

SoOxon · 10/04/2025 15:56

A perceptive post VCB.

@ViciousCurrentBun

lm the same age and we had a school rule that no one could eat in public wearing the school uniform.

Can you imagine that rule today 🤣How times have changed

taxguru · 11/04/2025 16:24

Wildflowers99 · 10/04/2025 20:08

I agree completely. The closure of industry in the 70s and 80s has been disastrous for the British public. The people who would be working in these roles transitioned onto benefits and since then we have bred an enormous underclass who are enormously expensive to maintain and cause decent working people no end of problems. Yet we have a duty to ‘keep’ them. They absolutely have not had jobs taken from them by immigrants, because they would never do any job to start with.

I think we have a lot to learn from immigrants in terms of work ethic, family values and community spirit. The ‘native British’ mindset is now selfish, entitled, individualist and ignorant. Of course many Brits aren’t like this. But many are. They feel entitled to taxpayers money, act like they’re doing us all a favour just by existing, and see every aspect of their life as the government’s responsibility.

I have nothing but gratitude for immigrants who work NMW jobs here.

Same applies to immigrants. They're not all the same. Immigrants from different countries have different attitudes to working etc. Some are very industrious, hard working and entreprenneurial, but others from different countries are more laid back and, yes, could be said to be lazy.

suburburban · 11/04/2025 13:31

Burngreave · 10/04/2025 13:04

I agree that tarmacking over front gardens, demolishing the front wall, for parking looks shit. I’m not sure it can be said to be an “immigrant thing”. I live in an overwhelmingly white British area and people have done it here. Most of the area has only been saved from it because the houses tend to have generous driveways and some of it is a conservation area.

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We’ve done it as it is necessary due to controlled parking in area but we still kept a flowerbed at side

neighbour put down Astro turf in the back garden which I think is awful

PiggyPigalle · 11/04/2025 12:38

SallyWD · 08/04/2025 18:54

Turkish barbers refers to a type of barber. It doesn't mean they are all from Turkey. Just as a French manicure doesn't mean it's done by a French person.

If that were the case it would be Turkish barbering. Turkish barber states their nationality, just as a French manicurist would.
Moot point though as few are Turkish, they think that's more acceptable than Albanian.

Kendodd · 11/04/2025 12:01

YANBU OP
I have been to Eastern Europe twice so far this year (not capital cities) one to a former soviet country (now both EU). The towns looked very well kept, litter free, full of busy shops and restaurants and prospectus looking people. A great big difference to how poor and downtrodden the UK now looks.

Dandeliontea123 · 11/04/2025 10:06

There are some genuine ones. My DH gets his hair cut at a lovely Turkish barber shop that’s been going for years and is always busy. If I wait with him they make me a cup of tea.
On the other hand, I once went to the nail bar - in the same street - that was later closed down for trafficking their staff.

User135644 · 11/04/2025 10:04

Wildflowers99 · 10/04/2025 20:08

I agree completely. The closure of industry in the 70s and 80s has been disastrous for the British public. The people who would be working in these roles transitioned onto benefits and since then we have bred an enormous underclass who are enormously expensive to maintain and cause decent working people no end of problems. Yet we have a duty to ‘keep’ them. They absolutely have not had jobs taken from them by immigrants, because they would never do any job to start with.

I think we have a lot to learn from immigrants in terms of work ethic, family values and community spirit. The ‘native British’ mindset is now selfish, entitled, individualist and ignorant. Of course many Brits aren’t like this. But many are. They feel entitled to taxpayers money, act like they’re doing us all a favour just by existing, and see every aspect of their life as the government’s responsibility.

I have nothing but gratitude for immigrants who work NMW jobs here.

The problem are the ones who come here and don't work/pay taxes and join that underclass and benefits bill.

I've no problem with any migrant who comes here and makes an honest living.

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