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35 replies

Yellowtang25 · 07/04/2025 18:07

Is it ok he put a cigarette out on my hand
I just don’t know anymore

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Yellowtang25 · 07/04/2025 18:21

Ok Thankyou

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Els1e · 07/04/2025 18:19

Yes, it's bad and a sign you need to be somewhere else

Yellowtang25 · 07/04/2025 18:13

Is it this bad
sigh

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LittleGreenDragons · 07/04/2025 18:13

He stubbed a lit cigarette out on your hand?

No, that is not okay.
Yes, it is a criminal offence.

Can you safely leave or contact Women's Aid?

SallyD00lally · 07/04/2025 18:11

No matter what's going on with your mental health, you definitely know the answer to this one OP.

Starling7 · 07/04/2025 18:11

Do you have anywhere else you can go? You need to remove yourself from this situation as soon as possible and report him to the police. Sending love. X

bettydavieseyes · 07/04/2025 18:10

Not OK and you are in danger in this relationship. Please find a way to leave 🙁

Els1e · 07/04/2025 18:10

No, it's not OK. What makes you think it might be?

Daleksatemyshed · 07/04/2025 18:09

I can't believe this is a real question. If it is the No, it's not OK for anyone to hurt you in any way

Ahsheeit · 07/04/2025 18:09

No, it's really not okay and he could and should be arrested for this. You need to get him out yourself out asap before you're more seriously hurt.